Why do many african guys think they are fine, when they are not? perfect examples are lots of guys on nairaland, who post their pics confidently and actually say they are fine, when they wowo  . On the other hand, girls who are pretty need reassurance all the time. Is it because guys listen too much to their mothers??

gur; i feeel ya u must had did a lot of reserch on this i think d same too

kiki:

gur; i feeel ya u must had did a lot of reserch on this i think d same too

you bet!!

;d ;d ;d ;d

:p

lol, lol, lol. cant stop laughing.
Lets get down to basics.
We guys dont just jump outta d blues claiming to be fine. No ugly guy will proclaim himslf fine. We only naturally reiterate wat ladies (friends, lovers and even womenn old enough to be your mother) told us over time again and again. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but theres a generally accepted standard for measuring finnese. if 8 out of every 10 ladies say u r fine, definately u are.
Same goes for the female folks. A stunningly beautiful gal to me might just look like a plain gal to sum 1 else, but in all sincerity she will never be considered ugly if the truth is to be told in its entirety.

as per confidence level,
u dont need any one to boost ur confidence level or else u will totally depend on others to carry out a whole lotta other important things in life. Cos a popular maxim says no one can shave ur head in ur absence, in essence, no one can make u feel inferior without ur consent.

All in all, i believe beauty transends physical looks, to me when the chips are down i restrict beauty to other inherent qualities u possess + wat stuff u ve up there!!!

_{This i believe will generate some dust}.
ciao

okwanuzo3:

Why do many african guys think they are fine, when they are not? perfect examples are lots of guys on nairaland, who post their pics confidently and actually say they are fine, when they wowo

Why didn't you put your pic so we'll know you aren't wor-wor

crazykid:

Why didn't you put your pic so we'll know you aren't wor-wor

@ crazykid
my posting never indicated that i think i'm fine, abi u follow the people wey we dey talk about?
"the guilty are afraid"

@ crazykid
my posting never indicated that i
think i'm fine, abi u follow the
people wey we dey talk about?
"the guilty are afraid"

I DON'T THINK HE MADE A SUSPICIOUS STATEMENT HERE.

1. BEAUTY IS IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER BUT COME WILL YOU EAT BEAUTY OR MONEY WHAT IS ALL THZ BEAUTY COZ YOU MUSN'T BE BEAUTIFUL TO EVERYONE, MANNERS ALSO ACCOUNT FOR BEAUTY, SHAPE ACCOUNTS, BOOBS AND ASS, LEGS, I HOPE YOU ARE NOT TALKING ABOUT FACIAL LOOKS, i forgot to include family background and I've not seen anybody that is up to 95 percent in all these.

But seriously @poster, I wanna know are you beautiful cos something must have aroused ur intent of starting thz thread.