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How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by Vaxt(m): 11:43am On Dec 30, 2016
It’s More Than Sticking Your Finger In And Out

It’s not what you put in, it’s what’s on the outside that
counts. Specifically, we’re talking about the clit. One
point echoed throughout the study was that the kind of
“fingering” that actually brings women to orgasm is
rubbing of the outside area around the clit. In fact, that’s how most women masturbate, because it’s what actually feels the best. For the vast majority of women,
penetration is nice, but it’s kind of like rubbing your balls: Pleasant, but not going to make you come.

Different Women Like Different Things


There’s no “one move fits all” technique that’s going to do
the trick — and anyone who tells you differently is lying.

The women who participated in this study went as far as
to say that the guys who think they have “the move” are
usually worst at giving pleasure. The mentality of “one
move to finish them all” makes sense to men, since
moves like stroking and sucking work for almost all guys
— and if there’s lube, just about any rubbing is going to
feel good to some degree. But for women, it’s truly
different strokes for different folks. The clit is so sensitive
that some strokes can feel really uncomfortable or even
hurt certain women.
Meaning, if some move felt really
good for your ex-girlfriend, that doesn’t mean it’ll do the
trick for your next girlfriend.

Most Agree That ‘This One Move’ Doesn’t Do It

Porn that shows women getting rubbed out typically
portrays a hard and fast back and forth motion — aka
the “DJ” move. According to the OMGYes study, that kind
of super fast cadence and pressure directly on the clit
only feels good for 1 in 48 women. For the rest, it either
doesn’t feel great or actually hurts. To put it into
perspective, imagine someone taking your dick and
rubbing the tip really hard with their palm as fast as they
can. It’s a sharp painful tickle, and you want it to stop.
For the vast majority of women, it’s not a good move —
even if women in porn are pretending to like it.

Fingering Isn’t Just For pre-intimacy

It’s a true fact that very few women get off by way of
penetration alone. In the study conducted by OMGYes,
72% of women said they need their clit stimulated during
intercourse in order to reach orgasm. Meaning, lending a
helping hand to your lady’s most sensitive part during
intercourse is going to lead to more orgasms. In fact, the
resounding sentiment from the study was that the clit
gets attention paid to here and there, but most women
would prefer to have it touched throughout the act.

OK, so now that we’ve covered the big learnings from this
study, you’re probably wondering where you should go
from here. To really understand the different patterns
and ways of touching that feel best for your lady, you
have to try them out.

Start By Touching EverythingExcept The Vagina

Lots of guys go straight for it, the way they wish women
would go straight for their dick. But for most women, the
more anticipation that’s built upthat’s built up before
touching the vagina, the more aroused they become —
and the more pleasure she’ll feel once you do start to
touch her down there. The women who were surveyed
said that kisses on the lips, neck, shoulders and arms
usually do the trick, as well as gently, slowly stroking their
stomach, legs and thighs.

Be A Tease

Approach the crotch area, but keep passing around it —
as if it doesn’t exist. One woman from the study likened
this tactic to playing with a cat. If you reach right for it, it
runs away. If you tease and don’t stroke it — it comes to
you.

Another woman described a method she calls the “fake-
out.” To do it, you move your fingertip down your
woman’s body from her neck to her breasts to her
stomach — but instead of landing at her crotch, veer
down her leg. Then, on the way back up, move your
fingertip in another path that misses her crotch too.
These moves build anticipation and help awaken arousal.

Many women love this kind of withholding, and will
eventually move their crotch toward your finger or
tongue as it passes by — a good sign that the clit is ready.
to be touched. The more awake her body is, the more
pleasurable it will be when you finally touch her.

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Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by Ayodeleseyi65(m): 12:36pm On Dec 30, 2016
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Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by Vaxt(m): 12:40pm On Dec 30, 2016
Ayodeleseyi65:
Bruh, You Need Jesus Starting 4rm Jan 2017
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Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by Pritypussi(f): 1:10pm On Dec 30, 2016
your fingers can't do shii to me
Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by Vaxt(m): 1:15pm On Dec 30, 2016
Pritypussi:
your fingers can't do shii to me
should I give it a try?
Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by ndujekwu(m): 1:21pm On Dec 30, 2016
Pritypussi:
your fingers can't do shii to me

Saaaanu, bobrisky
Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by Melahou(m): 2:55pm On Dec 30, 2016
Vaxt:
should I give it a try?

your whole body will sink inside...bro please dont try it
Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by wtfCode: 3:37pm On Dec 30, 2016
God have me the perfect fingers similar to a dick.
Just go in n out slowly, change hears slowly with tha clit n U're good to go.

OMG,I think I'm getting old 4 this undecided
Re: How To Finger A Girl The Right Way by FreeSpirited: 5:08pm On Dec 30, 2016
Pritypussi:
your fingers can't do shii to me
We all know why.....what will a finger do in the middle of a well....that's the way we see it...

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