Hi everyone,
My name is jesse and i'm new on nairaland. I usually browse thru but never took time to register.
I need some advice on a personal issue. For a while my relationship with my boyfriend has been a little strained and we both contributed to this. I also had trust issues but I was beginning to get over them. There was a statement i made jokingly and apologized for, but it didnt seem to go down well with him. Since then we've become a little distant and kept going back and forth. Well we talked recently and he was like we need to stop talking to each other. I know it was because of something i said and since then ive been feeling really bad (i really pushed him). I tried calling him and i apologized and he kept raising some issues and said he'll call me back but he hasnt called back since then and he doesn't pick my calls .I really love this guy and i dont want to loose him. Plsss what else can i do

Leave him alone. He obviously doesn't care about you anymore. Find someone else to fall in love with, and try not to take your bad habit of making deliberately pesky and trust-dampening statements to your next relationship.

If he dies today, will you die tomorrow?

Aunty I don't understand this half baked story oo

E be as e get.

Come who look for trouble so?

You must have said something way bad.
Too bad to wait. Too bad for a guy to run
However, he's proving not to be d guy for yhu or could it be "initial gragra"?

Nairaland will give u therapy for heartbreak. That am sure. Am not sure if they could do d fix for this one.

The year just began, don't break your head.
If he loves you he will look for ways to amend things on his part.

Next time, when you are in love with a guy, just mind what you do and say to him because he could delete your phone number and move on without giving a fvck, if he is my type

ozohtony:
E be as e get.

Come who look for trouble so?

You must have said something way bad.
Too bad to wait. Too bad for a guy to run
However, he's proving not to be d guy for yhu or could it be "initial gragra"?

Nairaland will give u therapy for heartbreak. That am sure. Am not sure if they could do d fix for this one.

Guess i was d one who looked for trouble. Was supposed to be a joke and i apologized.

Seems you know where the problem started,

from your story
I will say Stop bothering him at this point, it wont help.
Send him a text one last time apologize like you know what the problem is without leaving words out and let him know you are moving on (and mean it). You will know after, If that's really what he wants

Mchew

Continue to try if you really love him.

Infact, I will suggest you write his name in a clean sheet of paper and put it inside a big size GOYA anointing oil.


Lemme see if he's going to continue with the shakara again.




And as for you, learn how to trust him.