HOW TO AVOID ADULTERY IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
Please note that you can avoid adultery. It is
within your power to do it, if you really mean it.
Carelessness is one of the major causes of affairs
in marriage not the devil in the real sense of it as
many people always claim when they fall into
error. So abide with the following simple rules and
you will never fall into adultery...
1: Never make a member of the opposite sex your
best friend with whom you share intimate
discussions.
2: Never be with a member of the opposite sex at
a time your spouse doesn't know you are there.
3: Never speak evil about your spouse in the
presence of anyone. they will know you are not
happy in your marriage and take advantage of
that by showing you insincere affections and give
you what you lack with your Spouse and destroy
you.
5: Never visit a website you will not be proud to
tell your children and wife / husband you visited.
6: Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse,
AFFAIRS thrive in secrecy.
7: Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite
sex, there should be somebody of your sex you
can talk to. don't dig the grave of your marriage
with your mouth.
8: Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour
from the opposite sex. They will ask for sex in
return. they are not Father Christmas.
9: Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your
husband or wife. you don't know what their
spouses are enduring at home. what you see
outside is just show biz don't be deceived. Grass
is only greener in the other compound because it
is far from you.
10: Divert all your sexual fantasy towards your
spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to
satisfy you and keep you holy.
11: Always remember that whatever every woman
or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it
too and they are not different from each other,
only faces differ it is the same package.
12: Deal with any sexual thoughts that is not
directed towards your spouse, kill it before it kills
you. Sexual error doesn't begin in the bedroom,it
begins in the heart.
14: Before traveling have sex with your spouse
and put your mind to it that you will not have sex
until you come back. that decision may save your
life and destiny.
15: Men, avoid looking at the front and back side
of ladies and imagine what is there. It is stupid,
childish and dirty to do that, that's called lust,
what is there isn't different from what your
spouse has, please don't be stupid sir.
16: Walk in the company of good and Godly men/
women. If you keep company with adulterers, you
will become adulterous.
17: Discuss your sexual desires with your spouse
and let it be met at home, don't hunt for
something that will hunt you later and hurt you
deeply tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the
best, get it at home.
18: fill your heart with the word of God always,
this will not give lust a chance in your mind.
20: Always count the cost of adultery, don't just
look at the pleasure, look at the pain, loss of
integrity, how you will hurt your wife/husband,
children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.
21: Always remember that the enjoyment, pleas­
ure and the thrills in sex is just 8 seconds or less,
it can not be more than that but its repercussions
can last for eternity. Why trade eternity for 8
seconds, is there wisdom in that?
BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL
BE GLAD YOU DID.
22: Pray regularly for your Spouse and your
marriage. It is well.
God bless your marriage (Home).

I beg to differ with number 11. They are not the same. They may have the same architecture but they are different. Its like comparing fufu with EBA; they're both structurally same but we all know they're NOT the same.!


All these are easier said than done.

Okay

Gud thinking, ultimate marriage goal