hello guys!

my story would sound strange to most of you, but to God who made me, this is true.

to cut this short: I'm 32, graduate, working and earning well. I av my own house, car, and business, in fact u can say I'm very comfortable.

but this is the issue: I have two kids out of wedlock, and I have made all attempts to tie the knot with my baby mama so has to have a stable home for my kids and make a family, but my baby mama said she will settle down with me on one condition, that we will never have sex again that anytime I'm in the mood, I'm free to go out to have sex with anybody, that she give me the permission. she said all she want in life is to av kids that all, n I've already given her two beautiful kids.
pls my brothers, I know some of you will say I'm crazy for not accepting that, but the truth is I don't av the mind. I can't be married n still av extra marital affairs just because my wife permits it. I fear God a lot , n this hasn't made me married her yet.

I can't marry her now, but at the same time I don't know where to begin to look for someone else to marry. I really want to settle down but where do I start from?

If you're really ready you will find someone soon

That baby mama should stay out of the line but why would someone even think of something like that?

Pls...

It means she doesn't really wanna marry u.. She will only wanna stay with u for the sake of the kids and nothing more..

Move on if she doesn't want to settle down with u.

AMathew:
hello guys!

my story would sound strange to most of you, but to God who made me, this is true.

to cut this short: I'm 32, graduate, working and earning well. I av my own house, car, and business, in fact u can say I'm very comfortable.

but this is the issue: I have two kids out of wedlock, and I have made all attempts to tie the knot with my baby mama so has to have a stable home for my kids and make a family, but my baby mama said she will settle down with me on one condition, that we will never have sex again that anytime I'm in the mood, I'm free to go out to have sex with anybody, that she give me the permission. she said all she want in life is to av kids that all, n I've already given her two beautiful kids.
pls my brothers, I know some of you will say I'm crazy for not accepting that, but the truth is I don't av the mind. I can't be married n still av extra marital affairs just because my wife permits it. I fear God a lot , n this hasn't made me married her yet.

I can't marry her now, but at the same time I don't know where to begin to look for someone else to marry. I really want to settle down but where do I start from?

I think she knows you're a womanizer, maybe she just scared of you infecting her with std and other diseases...

Eleyi gidi gan o

TrapQueen77:



It means she doesn't really wanna marry u.. She will only wanna stay with u for the sake of the kids and nothing more..

Move on if she doesn't want to settle down with u.

I guess, but at this stage, where will I start from?

MrIcredible:

I think she knows you're a womanizer, maybe she just scared of you infecting her with std and other diseases...

she was the one that suggested we have kids in d first place.

Hmmmmmmmmm..... she is not ready to marry you for real, please do look for someone who is ready to marry you.

which kind nonsense condition can this be?Op you mean you're seeking advise on this simple matter even at the age of 32? which normal lady will allow his man or husband to do it outside?Op abeg if na joke better stop it this Sunday morning.

So she will be wife,while another lady will be intimacy gadget


Don't even listen to her,let her carry her wahala dey go make serious lady come in your life for good jari.

Did u ask her why? Who knows if she has a contagious disease


I don't see why u should be in a haste to get married since u gat kids, marriage isn't what u rush into.

Be

When you think you have heard it all


But wait, who is their right thinking sense would want a man to do that?

You need to ask her some questions.

1. Why is she taking such a stand? Has it been her plan for getting pregnant in the first place or she just developed the feeling and mastered it?

2. Is she going through a tough phase in her life? Hormonal disorder

3. Is the place messed up or sealed?


Women can't cope with celibacy, that's for sure. So, ask her who is wants to be seeing in the marriage.

4. Better still, just run for your life!


Odikwa dangerous

brightalo17:
which kind nonsense condition can this be?Op you mean you're seeking advise on this simple matter even at the age of 32? which normal lady will allow his man or husband to do it outside?Op abeg if na joke better stop it this Sunday morning.

So she will be wife,while another lady will be intimacy gadget


Don't even listen to her,let her carry her wahala dey go make serious lady come in your life for good jari.

I swear to God, that the truth.

AMathew:



I swear to God, that the truth.

Abeg forget that your lady and her yeye senseless selfish condition,leave her to marry another guy with the same condition let's see how it will work na. But if she eventually sleep with another man, make wetin happen to her

You fear God a lot and you dey fvck who no be ya wife. You even fvck her sotey she born two pikin for ya?

Excuse me I beg your pardon... Oga this your story no dey add on... This you faboo e dey madon, but who am I to take an action? Weh done sir! Weh done sir! Weh done sir! So I say Weh done sir!

2SWT:
If you're really ready you will find someone soon

That baby mama should stay out of the line but why would someone even think of something like that?

Not all ladies love sex thou. You can't blame her

brightalo17:


Abeg forget that your lady and her yeye senseless selfish condition,leave her to marry another guy with the same condition let's see how it will work na. But if she eventually sleep with another man, make wetin happen to her

HateU2:

Jesu christy . am i in the dream am i at yabaleft No am I dead No maybe someone hacked this name. thanks for breaking ma heart and also took away ma babe..oshe guhh Dalu thank you nagode.

Anyway Happy New year

brightalo17:
Jesu christy . am i in the dream am i at yabaleft No am I dead No maybe someone hacked this name. thanks for breaking ma heart and also took away ma babe..oshe guhh Dalu thank you nagode.

Anyway Happy New year

It's me baby . Just back from kirikiri .

I did not break your heart nah . In fact, I'm here to make amendments. I will get your girl back for you .

Compliments sweetie . Miss ya plenty.
Maxi112, how are you big head

HateU2:


It's me baby . Just back from kirikiri .

I did not break your heart nah . In fact, I'm here to make amendments. I will get your girl back for you .

Compliments sweetie . Miss ya plenty.
Maxi112, how are you big head

Now ayam happy again on NL.abeg tell her am missing her more than bunch

brightalo17:
Now ayam happy again on NL.abeg tell her am missing her more than bunch

She will be online this week . I'm bringing her ass back here

ikp120:
You fear God a lot and you dey fvck who no be ya wife. You even fvck her sotey she born two pikin for ya?

Excuse me I beg your pardon... Oga this your story no dey add on... This you faboo e dey madon, but who am I to take an action? Weh done sir! Weh done sir! Weh done sir! So I say Weh done sir!

apparently I know more than I know then.

sinaj:
Did u ask her why? Who knows if she has a contagious disease


I don't see why u should be in a haste to get married since u gat kids, marriage isn't what u rush into.

Be

I just want to settle down n have a since of responsibility toward someone.

AMathew:

apparently I know more than I know then.

Sure.
Wait, does she mean that even when una marry una no go fvck?

Why is everyone pussy-footing. The case is easy. Go ahead and marry someone else. Just make sure you continue your parental responsibilities to the children. It's not your fault.

decatalyst:
When you think you have heard it all


But wait, who is their right thinking sense would want a man to do that?

You need to ask her some questions.

1. Why is she taking such a stand? Has it been her plan for getting pregnant in the first place or she just developed the feeling and mastered it?

2. Is she going through a tough phase in her life? Hormonal disorder

3. Is the place messed up or sealed?


Women can't cope with celibacy, that's for sure. So, ask her who is wants to be seeing in the marriage.

4. Better still, just run for your life!


Odikwa dangerous

she said all she needed in life is to have kids.

ikp120:


Sure.

Wait, does she mean that even when una marry una no go fvck?

she said no sex at all, that she realize me with all her heart to have an affair, that she doesn't mind. I'm so heavy hearted right now.

Are you sure she's std free or not a rape victim, better take her to a clinic for both psychological and medical test if you love her else start asking girls out and going out on dates till you get a new lady

iammo:
Are you sure she's std free or not a rape victim, better take her to a clinic for both psychological and medical test if you love her else start asking girls out and going out on dates till you get a new lady

hmmm..

AMathew:


she said no sex at all, that she realize me with all her heart to have an affair, that she doesn't mind. I'm so heavy hearted right now.

That's crazy. But did she catch you cheating?

I guess she is part of those who just wanna have kids and stay single because of marriage wahala.

How long do you last in bed?