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| I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by phemyhollar(m): 5:00pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
To start with, I'd like to say I love my girlfriend a lot, she was my first love. We met during my first year in school, she is the sweetest person I've met, she has a wonderful personality and a beautiful plumpy body to match.. To cut long story short she was my dream girl.. everything was going on smoothly until she started  losing weight .. We talked about it but all dl she told me was that she was trying to watch her weight..in my own opinion I felt that was totally uncalled for, she had a flat tummy, big bum and reasonably big boobs.. I tried to talk her out of it but she wouldn't listen, she even thinks I'm being selfish. Right now her beautiful bum is gone and she still trying to shed more weight.. I'm no longer sexually attracted to her but I still love her very much,I don't know how long I can keep up with this.. Please what can i do. |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by MrIcredible: 5:01pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
phemyhollar: 4 Likes
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| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by talk2alabama: 5:02pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Mchew.. So this is enough reason why u lost sexual attraction to her... 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by datgoaldigger1(m): 5:02pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Could I Have Her ?1 Like |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Nobody: 5:06pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
As long as you are emotionally attracted to her, that's fine. The sexual part will follow naturally 1 Like |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Ginaz(f): 5:15pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
You don't love your babe brother, it is the yansh. Stop deceiving yourself. Attraction kno, erection ni. Mtewwwwwww . 11 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Splinz(m): 5:18pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Nma27: I greatly doubt. It is obvious that op's once ravishing girlfriend is losing it- the magic that binds him to her. It is either she picks up the missing component, or her unsavory taste keeps on killing what is left of op's feelings for her, until it all dies off! |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by phemyhollar(m): 5:21pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Maybe I love the yansh tho...but I know i still love her.. Take a look at the pic.. can you put up with the one on the left. 1 Like
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| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Nutase: 5:23pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
opix of the old and new bumbum or   |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Bibi294(f): 5:26pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
I feel ur pain bro... Don't mind the negative comments, the same thing happened to me when my boyfriend said something n I lost him being attractive to me .. Try n move on, av sex less and let her see ur reasons... God help u 2 Likes |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by DTOBS(m): 5:30pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Knock knock! Who is it? It's me! You who? Op... Come.. .
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| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
if you really do love her, Then, You'd definitely have sexual feelings towards her. I feel like what attracted you to her was the boobs and Ass. now that they're gone, those feelings evaporated. Kaboosh! if the she's losing Fat in the Booty area, she could aswell get some firm muscles in there with some badass squats.  1 Like |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Why are you complaining as if she is your wife? 1 Like |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Nobody: 5:34pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Splinz:So she should start eating anyhow just to gain weight? The op is not serious |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by makelove2m(m): 5:34pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Bibi294: How do you mean, God shld help him do what, yash another man daughter abi, Sorry for the world.............. That girl will someday be another man wife............. guys what do you think out of this...............God willl never help him at all 3 Likes |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Nobody: 5:44pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
phemyhollar:hmmmmn nawa so it was sex that kept u in tha relationship all this while. she shudnt slim down again cos of you abi?? u must be an otondo. u wana tell her how to keep fit, but if shes fat now, the same you would start complaining. Children in relationships erriwhere... i haff tired sef |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
 . well done sir
# very educative post |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Genea(f): 6:06pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
How come we have children on nl? |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by mrsfavour(f): 6:46pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
U loved the flesh and not the soul. |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Escabado: 7:06pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
My brother break up with her instantly . You did your best to warn her at initial stage not to go slim.as for me I have no business with slIm ass girls even right from when I was 16 anything slim been it boobs or ass is not for me even till today. If my wife / girlfriend trys to go slim in ass I will assume she have find another man that said she likes slim girls and she is trying to please that man so I will kick her out immediately. After all there are lots of good clothes out there that will hide your big ass. |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by wizrose(m): 7:07pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
look for someone else their is alot of pussy out their..... waiting 4 u |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by wizrose(m): 7:08pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Genea:were are the children.... |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by J3RK: 7:08pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Are you sure She does not have Anorexia?? Check well if she has it before you come online disturbing our eyes 1 Like |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by wizrose(m): 7:09pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Catalin:hmmmm becox he knows he will miss the W shape |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by phemyhollar(m): 7:37pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
I really appreciate the mature replies I got,I can't thank you enough. For the record, The girl in question is a virgin, so if you having any funny ideas, kindly fix it.  |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Boxer007(m): 7:40pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
phemyhollar: boo boo Girls are horrible creatures & i can help you. Boo Boo .can you kiss? |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by phemyhollar(m): 7:52pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Boxer007: Wehdone sir..I think I'd pass on that ;i'm straight  |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Chuknovski(m): 7:59pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
it means you never loved her truly, you only loved her looks, be careful with that because if you marry for looks only look at 10 yrs from now,where will you place the boobs and asses |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by ezteem(m): 8:00pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Introduce her to cannabis , or sk.☘️, you'll come back and Make thread on how to stop her from eating |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Aregs(m): 8:09pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Wehdone sir bum bum is ur problem in dis new year |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by ButterFrost212(f): 8:32pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
Nawa, guys and their wahala, you lose weight they complain about your bum disappearing, you add weight, they say you're too fat, which one will someone even do. Op you better support your girlfriend, she's just trying to be healthy, if you don't like that then you were never really in love with her, it was just about the big bum and boobs |
| Re: I'm No Longer Sexually Attracted To My Girlfriend. by Nobody: 9:19pm On Jan 15, 2017 |
phemyhollar:Then her figure is of no practical use to you. Simple logic. She's free to do as she wants. |
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