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Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ConcNiggress56(f): 12:25am On Jan 16, 2017
Biko. No forming here.

My boyfriend travels for business every now and then (at least, thrice a week). He is not even a footballer but i am happy since more money is being made.

Sometimes, i get to see him once in a month. He is faithful to me as far as i know but i have needs. Sexual needs. This thing between my legs is meant for him and him alone but i hate the fact that he enjoys it occasionally.

What do i do please? Help a sister

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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Emac34: 12:28am On Jan 16, 2017
My advice



Go and sleep

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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 12:30am On Jan 16, 2017
ConcNiggress56:
Biko. No forming here.

My boyfriend travels for business every now and then (at least, thrice a week). He is not even a footballer but i am happy since more money is been made.

Sometimes, i get to see him once in a month. He is faithful to me as far as i know but i have needs. Sexual needs. This thing between my legs is meant for him and him alone but i hate the fact that he enjoys it occasionally.

What do i do please? Help a sister
Loads of cucumbers must have perished between this one's laps

Btw, What's the difference between 'been' and 'being'?
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 12:36am On Jan 16, 2017
Sex is not food. If you love someone, one time sex with him can be greater than ten time sex with a stranger.

By the way, I love your faithfulness please keep it up. I hope I can meet a lady like you.

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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 12:37am On Jan 16, 2017
Some women sha!.
You mean you can't stay for at least a month without sex?.

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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by dubylhover(m): 12:44am On Jan 16, 2017
Benita27:
Some women sha!.
You mean you can't stay for at least a month without sex?.

4 how long na,she is complaining,meaning that it has been going on 4 sme time.maybe having sex like 5 times in 3 mnths.she wud have d urge na.at least she's faithful coupled with d fact that money is flowing.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 12:50am On Jan 16, 2017
dubylhover:
4 how long na,she is complaining,meaning that it has been going on 4 sme time.maybe having sex like 5 times in 3 mnths.she wud have d urge na.at least she's faithful coupled with d fact that money is flowing.
Sex isn't food na, they should get married if she can't close her legs.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by dubylhover(m): 12:54am On Jan 16, 2017
Benita27:
Sex isn't food na, they should get married if she can't close her legs.
getting married wont stop her from feeling Hot.by d way,interesting dp u got thr,is that yours?
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ConcNiggress56(f): 1:16am On Jan 16, 2017
Benita27:
Sex isn't food na, they should get married if she can't close her legs.

And getting married will stop him from his business trips??

Get some sense bae

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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ConcNiggress56(f): 1:17am On Jan 16, 2017
PabloOmoEscobar:
Loads of cucumbers must have perished between this one's laps

Btw, What's the difference between 'been' and 'being'?


I know you like dem deceivers and pretenders. I don't employ cucumber when i have loads of meaty flesh i can make use of. But that isn't an option.. Stay loyal and faithful is!!
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by dubylhover(m): 1:22am On Jan 16, 2017
ConcNiggress56:



I know you like dem deceivers and pretenders. I don't employ cucumber when i have loads of meaty flesh i can make use of. But that isn't an option.. Stay loyal and faithful is!!
since d business trips wont stop,ur body needs wont reduce,then yu shud knw deep down dat d inevitable wud happen.when u reach ur breaking point

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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ConcNiggress56(f): 1:27am On Jan 16, 2017
dubylhover:
since d business trips wont stop,ur body needs wont reduce,then yu shud knw deep down dat d inevitable wud happen.when u reach ur breaking point


Now i am asking for some advice because i know i need one before i break.. Ok??

To err is human

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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by dubylhover(m): 1:38am On Jan 16, 2017
ConcNiggress56:



Now i am asking for some advice because i know i need one before i break.. Ok??

To err is human
ermmm.you r gonna hear d typical counselling stuff,dat u guys should talk abt it.some might even suggest u travel nd meet him at times.bt from d look of things its more like a long distance rlshp snce he's always away.youre really at a crossroad.if youre truly an advocate of being loyal to a guy,then its a big test for d rlshp.youd just have to curb ur erotic needs nd hope that he too is faithful else it wud all b 4 nth.bt from xperience i think for new pipo dating,they shudnt b far apart.out of sight,out of mind
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 1:42am On Jan 16, 2017
SirJeffry:
Sex is not food. If you love someone, one time sex with him can be greater than ten time sex with a stranger.

By the way, I love your faithfulness please keep it up. I hope I can meet a lady like you.
Na second food.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 1:45am On Jan 16, 2017
ConcNiggress56:
Biko. No forming here.

My boyfriend travels for business every now and then (at least, thrice a week). He is not even a footballer but i am happy since more money is being made.

Sometimes, i get to see him once in a month. He is faithful to me as far as i know but i have needs. Sexual needs. This thing between my legs is meant for him and him alone but i hate the fact that he enjoys it occasionally.

What do i do please? Help a sister
Tell him you want to travel with him.That you are lonely and hor.ny for his condo.If he refuses, insist back.Cry!Most guys hate to see their bae cry.He will succumb.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 1:50am On Jan 16, 2017
comshots:
Na second food.
Yes, but for lazy folks.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 1:51am On Jan 16, 2017
SirJeffry:
Yes, but for lazy folks.
How?
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 2:07am On Jan 16, 2017
ConcNiggress56:
Biko. No forming here.

My boyfriend travels for business every now and then (at least, thrice a week). He is not even a footballer but i am happy since more money is being made.

Sometimes, i get to see him once in a month. He is faithful to me as far as i know but i have needs. Sexual needs. This thing between my legs is meant for him and him alone but i hate the fact that he enjoys it occasionally.

What do i do please? Help a sister

Tag along.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by sirusX(m): 2:09am On Jan 16, 2017
I'll suggest you make the best of memories while you're together. Make every moment count...then while he's away, inject all that energy into being productive as a person.

Trust me, when there's always something to distract you from all that, that Hot feeling would be the last thing on your mind.

All in all...I'd say you should pray for strength, but I dunno how prayer works when he's just your boyfriend in this scenario undecided

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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ebonyeyes88(f): 2:19am On Jan 16, 2017
He cheating sorry girl. I've heard to many stories similar to this one. Maybe you should investigate but don't cheat on him. Just investigate.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 2:26am On Jan 16, 2017
Out of all the comments so far,
None have provided an answer.
That is how you fail exams.
Pls allow her to express herself
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by ButterFrost212(f): 2:29am On Jan 16, 2017
Benita27:
Sex isn't food na, they should get married if she can't close her legs.
What has getting married got to do with anything? undecided
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by khiaa(f): 5:41am On Jan 16, 2017
SirJeffry:
Sex is not food. If you love someone, one time sex with him can be greater than ten time sex with a stranger.

By the way, I love your faithfulness please keep it up. I hope I can meet a lady like you.

Is one time sex with your girlfriend greater than 10 times with a beautiful stranger, just curious?
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by khiaa(f): 5:50am On Jan 16, 2017
ConcNiggress56:



Now i am asking for some advice because i know i need one before i break.. Ok??

To err is human

Can you travel with him, if not there is nothing we can say to you that you don't already know, either you wait for him or you don't the decision is yours to make.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by khiaa(f): 5:59am On Jan 16, 2017
ConcNiggress56:



I know you like dem deceivers and pretenders. I don't employ cucumber when i have loads of meaty flesh i can make use of. But that isn't an option.. Stay loyal and faithful is!!

If staying loyal and faithful is the option that you choose, then you already have the solution to your dilemma so there wasn't a need for this thread.

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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 6:09am On Jan 16, 2017
khiaa:


Is one time sex with your girlfriend greater than 10 times with a beautiful stranger, just curious?
Yes. To me, sex is a thing of body and soul. Making love to a woman I don't love will satisfy only about 10% of my sexual urge.

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Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by joey150(m): 6:11am On Jan 16, 2017
khiaa:


If staying loyal and faithful is the option that you choose, then you already have the solution to your dilemma so there wasn't a need for this thread.
exactly o!

i cant comprehend the kind of help you need.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by joey150(m): 6:13am On Jan 16, 2017
SirJeffry:
Yes. To me, sex is a thing of body and soul. Making love to a woman I don't love will satisfy only about 10% of my sexual urge.

listen to yourself..

its like saying, eating a large quantity of a meal you dont like and it would satisfy 10% of your hunger.

is that remotely possible?
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by sirhot(m): 6:17am On Jan 16, 2017
Watch porn dear that's what most ladies do and buy yourself a romance machine kiss


Thank me later
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by LegendaryArnold(m): 6:20am On Jan 16, 2017
Travel with him!
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Nobody: 6:26am On Jan 16, 2017
joey150:


listen to yourself..

its like saying, eating a large quantity of a meal you dont like and it would satisfy 10% of your hunger.

is that remotely possible?
That's why I said "to me"

Setting principles and following them depend largely on one's discipline and choice besides if you have the kind of training i have, you may end up not having sexual feelings at all in your lifetime.
Re: Dear Ladies, How Do You Cope With A "Always Travelling Out" Bf Without Cheating by Standardcosting(m): 6:28am On Jan 16, 2017
Attention seeker, what do you expect us to say. Okay go look for another man.

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