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Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by LastProphet: 9:18am On Jan 21, 2017 |
poor education is the reason for loneliness, if you are educated and have traveled before you will never again assume that all unmarried people over 40 are lonely. if you have goals to pursue and you have challenges to stand up to you wont remember you are lonely. you see am always disappointed when in 2017 a youth who should be having big dreams like the mark zuckerbergs of this world, the Elon Musk, the People that have changed this world, is busy thinking about how to avoid loneliness then u can see how backward africa will remain for the next thousand years. if you know how long of focused effort and attention it takes to change your own little corner of the world then you will probably understand why marriage is just optional in developed societies. pls our young people try to think big, read books about other worlds, open your mind and get exposed, stop focusing on marriage because the pastor told you its the only reason for existence. nigerian pastors happen to be experts in almost every area of endeavor from law, to medicine, to finance, and unfortunately the poor level of education of most churchgoers creates a fertile ground for disarming gullibility. someone said it here recently that in Nigeria it is assumed everybody will be married, everybody will have kids, and everybody will make it big time otherwise there are witches at work. pathetic 3 Likes |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by Mayflowa(m): 10:01am On Jan 21, 2017 |
mylove4him: This is a very wise comment. True, some partners in marriage deliberately set out to frustrate their spouse. They won't seek divorce yet they don't wanna mend fences with their better half. This selfish and devilish. Like you said, such people don't have business marrying! 2 Likes |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by okowande(f): 10:02am On Jan 21, 2017 |
If you are a woman and ur spouse is no longer giving you attention, Bleep a hell out of him giving him some serz styles, you will thank me later. |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by davidif: 10:24am On Jan 21, 2017 |
BiafranBushBoy: and who said you must be married to give good advice? 1 Like |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by davidif: 10:34am On Jan 21, 2017 |
NairalandDSS: Very educative post. A major reason people are lonely in marriage is because they didn't marry there friend. Friendship should be a major part of a relationship. |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by davidif: 10:35am On Jan 21, 2017 |
hotspec: Great feedback. |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by BiafranBushBoy: 11:03am On Jan 21, 2017 |
davidif: Because it is easier said than done. We need successful married men to tell us how. Not some little kids. 1 Like |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by uvalued(m): 12:26pm On Jan 21, 2017 |
NairalandDSS: |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by Nobody: 2:25pm On Jan 21, 2017 |
Dominiquez: Thats the best move ever. |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by Nobody: 3:59pm On Jan 21, 2017 |
Loneliness in marriage is a gentle killer |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jan 21, 2017 |
Op, I've tried all these and none works. I have 3 options.. Continue living miserably in patience, get a sideline or file for divorce. .. The 1st is leading me to suicide, 2nd might be problematic with a wrong person, the 3rd will affect kids. I don tire 2 Likes |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by Nobody: 5:55pm On Jan 21, 2017 |
Dominiquez:Lucky you. I think this is the key. I hope to find and marry someone who's not just my husband but my best friend. 1 Like |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by Chiebunigom: 5:57pm On Jan 21, 2017 |
Mayflowa: Very nice comment you got there. Some spouses are intentionally out to frustrate their partners, they neither want to work on their marriage nor seek for divorce as you said. When I opened the post I thought I would be reading on suggestions on how to cope with the loneliness when those two you mentioned above (mending fences or divorce) become farfetched, but unfortunately was disappointed! The OP should remember that a person's best friend could turn out to become his/her worst enemy someday, so marrying your friend like some people usually suggest, is not a guarantee to a happily ever after married life. Let us know what do to curb this loneliness in marriage not on how to turn around the situation in the event that the options I mentioned earlier are out of it. Can someone please? Anyone? 1 Like |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by TinaAnita(f): 6:12pm On Jan 21, 2017 |
extwoo: And yet singles who are lonely believe that marriage is the answer to loneliness. The human race is truly complicated |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by hotspec(m): 7:43pm On Jan 21, 2017 |
Mayflowa:Ure still speaking from theory. No two events in marriages are d same. Even marriage counselors are also learning on d job as most of them also have problems with their marriage that cannot be managed. Besides, how many MC do we have in 9ja and ao many visits them? |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by Mayflowa(m): 9:11pm On Jan 21, 2017 |
hotspec: There are many marriage counsellors in Nigeria. I am not referring to Pastors that stereotype women to some certain functions. I mean a proper counsellor who listens to both parties and makes fair decision. There are a number of counsellors in Nigeria though not much because of large of patronage. Check google, you would see a list of them. I do not understand. You are facing problem in your marriage. You can no longer resolve it yourselves. It is then expedient you seek outside help. Doing nothing means nothing would change. Counsellors may or may not succeed but not trying is failure already. BTW, I am speaking from experience |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by Topshow2010(m): 9:37pm On Jan 21, 2017 |
vitalisdiho: I beg to differ on dt,life in marriage or generally are neva predictable .Most tym;d good beginning could could end in worst while d one dt had d worst beginning could end in d best nd blissful ends.My prayer is dt may the good Lord anchors our marital journey to a blissful destination IJN. |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by mylove4him(f): 6:40pm On Jan 22, 2017 |
Mayflowa:My brother you have written well. Some partners are out there to frustrate their partners. They won't seek counselling cos they are afraid the counsellor will tell them what they don't want to hear. Some will say don't go wash your dirty linens outside. And if the tables were turned they wil be the one to throw tantrums. So like I always advise don't put too much happiness on someone else. |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jan 26, 2017 |
Chiebunigom: i loooove your name Chiebunigom 1 Like |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by Chiebunigom: 12:34am On Jan 27, 2017 |
FlirtyKaren:Thanks dear. |
Re: How To Deal With Loneliness In Marriage by Viccctor(m): 11:58pm On Feb 09, 2017 |
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