There was this girl that sent me a friend
request on facebook back in 2010. Usually,
whenever I see anybody without a profile
picture, I happily reject it cos I feel I should
not relate with a ghost. I mistakenly
accepted hers but decided not to unfriend.
My thinking was that she might be one of
those who would set up an acct and
abandon ship.

Fast forward a weeks after that, she slid into
my DM and asked for my 2go username and
I gave her. It was when she sent me a
request on 2go that i realized she was cute
and all. Nothwithstanding, I just wanted to
leave us as friends so I was casual with our
discussions. While we were talking, she used to tell me about her relationship problems and I used to tell her the black truth that her man was cheating on her. She would flare up and give me the insults of my life. She later found out I was right and she promised to make up by paying me a visit so that we can hang out at my place.

I just pimped up my room and I didnt want
any chemistry to happen when she comes. I
decided I would scatter it so that her eyes
would not glitter when she sees how neat it
was. The day she came, we had a nice time.
We talked, watched movies, pillow fought,
strolled out my hood. After the day passed
by I paid her t.fare and she enrouted her
house. I started developing feelings at the
time but i didnt wanna rush things as she
just broke up with her man.

LET IT FLOW NATURALLY, U WILL ENJOY IT BETTER

okay

So what's d problem?

I waited a few months before popping the question. That was the period I felt what it meant to be friendzoned. There was nothing I did not do to appease her but all I get at the end of the day was 'I love yo so much... I really do.... but just as a brother'. Normally it would make me devasted but I always found something doing not to let it bother me.

Whenever she visit, there is no time I wont pay her tp and cook for her. She never agreed for me to make out with her, not to mention other things. She would blatantly refuse. Our main fight always happen when she tax me shopping money. I refuse to give cos I dont see the need making such investment when we are not dating.

I later found out from her friend that she has been refusing because of my polio condition. she felt I would be weak downstairs and be unable to use my condo to give her the knacking of her life.

I had a talk with her to convince her that even though my legs are paralyzed, I can still perform the same way other men do. but she still would not let me prove to her. I decided to forget about her existence when she told me 'what will be, will be'.

QueenSuccubus:



So what's d problem?

am still conjuring up the write up

When she said that, I decided it was high time I forgot about her existence and move on with my life. I finished my nysc and relocated to ilorin to see if I can start a life and school there for my postgraduate studies. that was in 2014. I was slugging things out and was also unable to get admission in 2014 n 2015. I was devasted and decided to spend a year in Kaduna to clear my head in 2016. I still did not bother about contacting the lady while I was in kaduna.

My cousin one day asked after her and I told her we had not spoken in years. It provoked her and said we had to visit her. I told her i will not have time but she already conived with her that we would visit a certain day. Since it was beyond her control, i just obliged for the sake of peace

One sunday like that, i drove my couz there and the lady glad to see me. First question she asked was 'so u drive?'. I dodged the question and we proceeded to her living room.

Her mum came to meet me and she was very nice. after we gisted a lil while, she started asking me to marry her daughter. I just smiled and the lady shouted 'shey it is u that dont want to ask me out' and i told her 'u no well'.

to cut story of that day short, I didnt stay at the house for long so I left my couz there and left. I picked her up in the evening and carried my wahala and went home. Only God knows what they must have talked about but I was least interested in knowing.

She buzzed me on whatsapp and thanked me for d day and all. She later started narrating how she missed d old days with me and her together and want us to be closer than ever. at this stage, I was being cautious cos I know how lady act when they see a man with a car, not to mention one who is physically challenged.

by october last year I gained admission to do my msc in unilorin. I told her about it and that I would be leaving anytime soon. that was when she was pleading that she must see me and I should give her a date she would visit.

I told her I would go on d 24th october and I told her to come on the 20th. When she came she ate food and watched movie. after that she started making seductive moves by unzipping the back of her dress and laid down.

too many things came to my mind but I decided I would not sleep with her, no matter what she did.

we were gisting and she asked me to cuddle her. I didnt object cos i made sure I was thinking with my brains and not my joystick. At about 6:45pm she want to go and she asked me to help zip up the back of her clothes. i did that n she fell on me. that was when i decided to ask her to kiss me. of cos we argued about it bt she agreed. I no go lie na she want am pass me, dey chop my mouth anyhow

When she got home, there was no love message she didnt tell me and told I should not ever forget her cos she is seeing a future with me.

now i am here wondering what to do.... be friends or date her

faruku104:
There was this girl that sent me a friend
request on facebook back in 2010. Usually,
whenever I see anybody without a profile
picture, I happily reject it cos I feel I should
not relate with a ghost. I mistakenly
accepted hers but decided to not to unfriend.
My thinking was that she might be one of
those who would set up an acct and
abandon ship.

Fast forward a weeks after that, she slid into
my DM and asked for my 2go username and
I gave her. It was when she sent me a
request on 2go that i realized she was cute
and all. Nothwithstanding, I just wanted to
leave us as friends so I was casual with our
discussions. While we were talking, she used to tell me about her relationship problems and I used to tell her the black truth that her man was cheating on her. She would flare up and give me the insults of my life. She later found out I was right and she promised to make up by paying me a visit so that we can hang out at my place.

I just pimped up my room and I didnt want
any chemistry to happen when she comes. I
decided I would scatter it so that her eyes
would not glitter when she sees how neat it
was. The day she came, we had a nice time.
We talked, watched movies, pillow fought,
strolled out my hood. After the day passed
by I paid her t.fare and she enrouted her
house. I started developing feelings at the
time but i didnt wanna rush things as she
just broke up with her man.

I am a specialist at this, let me give u a little tip...

Let her know that u understand that she just broke up with her ex and u don't want to look selfish. u've loved her right from your 2go days and don't know how to tell her or u've just been keeping your cool... e. t. c...

... if she won't agree, let me know

#thankmelater

heayernu56:

I am a specialist at this, let me give u a little tip...

Let her know that u understand that she just broke up with her ex and u don't want to look selfish. u've loved her right from your 2go days and don't know how to tell her or u've just been keeping your cool... e. t. c...

... if she won't agree, let me know

#thankmelater

bro kindly read subsequent post and see how the story progresses

lol see how your write ups seem like one nollywood movie.

anyways its obvious u have successfully gotten out of the friend zone: a dillema of most men. U r one bad guy sha.

all that remains is for u to decided what u want to make out of the relationship.

my take? study her and see if she is worth it before hopping the wagon

I stopped reading when I saw 2go

Money good

Marrtynze:
I stopped reading when I saw 2go

lol wicked.... that was in 2010 na. at least so he said. if he is still on 2go then something is wrong

Not like you have to marry her even if you date her. Probably worth a try, but the "u drive?" got even me a little suspicious so be ware.

The same old strategy for getting outta that zone: Delete her phone number and avoid initiating contacts with her; she will miss you, and after some time, feelings go surge pass power surge

Did i jst read this story to the end ? unbelievable

Marrtynze:
I stopped reading when I saw 2go

Me got disinterested at that point too but read on . Whatever that is....

AuroraB:
Me got disinterested at that point too but read on . Whatever that is....

Do you know there's a IndecentStar named AuroraB?..You're welcome.Edit: i said porrnstar..stop editing my shit

Slided in ur dm from Facebook... #wehdonsir

Hmmm...









That thought she had of you not being able to perform well may re-surface in future.
And don't overlook that...no matter what!

Hormoniyi25:
Slided in ur dm from Facebook... #wehdonsir

correct your english sire... no such word as slided

OP leave that lady alone .she doesn't love you she is just looking for last hope to hang on to after several disappointment.