truthsayer007:


Its obvious that you really like this guy. Or maybe the sex is blowing your mind.

The only way to motivate him is to break up with him. If its fine Yoruba boys in UK you need. They are plenty of them doing masters program lol. Just open your eyes.

Lool yes I do care for him and sigh... no we haven't had sex yet just waiting till marriage and I told him this already.

cummando:
Fila.shade chapter one verse 1 to 59

lol
na u type oh.

Filashade:


Loool sorry oo.

Its allowed jare

boiz2men:


OK suit yourself.

hahahah, my man no wan enter friend zone.

These girls don't knw what they want I swear !

Nma27:
Give him d idea that he's about losing you? The guy is pretty young and I think he needs a hard jolt to straighten him up.

Yes that is why I came here and I think he knows this and I told him this evening saying we need to talk and I told him it's about his ambitions etc and he said he understands and cares for me and he is ready to change and says he needs help improving his cv etc which seems like a good step so fingers crossed by I don't know if it's all talk but we will see how it goes.

cummando:
She say the boyfriend no dey work She say the boyfriend; He dey craze He dey mad He dey gbongbolo cigar He no go marry sis I He go marry orkpolo.... And she go soon kee am .....summarized

hahahahahahahahahahahahahha, you have made my night with this.

truthsayer007:


hahahah, my man no wan enter friend zone.

These girls don't knw what they want I swear !

Eheeeemmmmm. I do know what I want but I haven't broken up with him yet. Before you start calling me an a ashawo. I know how guys feel about been friend zoned and I will never lead a man on if I do see a relationship with him or if I don't like him that way. Plus again I am still with my bf. How would you like it if u found out ur girl is seeing another guy while with you? Please oga.

Filashade:


U dry vex? No be u naija men that say "these hoes ain't loyal" in Chris brown's voice.

Vex ke

Life is full of choices. You made yours

Nothing to vex for

boiz2men:


Vex ke

Life is full of choices. You made yours

Nothing to vex for

Good

truthsayer007:


hahahah, my man no wan enter friend zone.

These girls don't knw what they want I swear !

Bros that place nor dey fit me. I don try am tire but no way.



Check my signature joor

Don't even know what to type

sweetestjane:

hahahahahahahahahahahahahha, you have made my night with this.

At your service Mi lady

slimthugchimee:
now square it

9

cummando:

She say the boyfriend no dey work
She say the boyfriend;
He dey craze
He dey mad
He dey gbongbolo cigar
He no go marry sis I
He go marry orkpolo....
And she go soon kee am

.....summarized

Lmao! You forgot: "okpolo go give am belle"

Filashade:


Eheeeemmmmm. I do know what I want but I haven't broken up with him yet. Before you start calling me an a ashawo. I know how guys feel about been friend zoned and I will never lead a man on if I do see a relationship with him or if I don't like him that way. Plus again I am still with my bf. How would you like it if u found out ur girl is seeing another guy while with you? Please oga.

OK, good luck on your relationship, I hope all goes well eventually.

By the way, which kind of engineer are u. Mechanical engineer or software ?

Filashade:


That is why I am here coz he is a nice guy and I don't want to give up on him. But I have tried to but he changes then goes back to his old ways. I want him to be man and not a boy, I want him to grow or of his childish in asking me to do things for him and instead do things himself.

But what suggestions can you give to motivate him?

Have you finished motivating yourself? Have you finished motivating your brothers? With all your motivation, where has it gotten you? Don't you need motivation yourself? Are you read to keep mollycuddling a grown ass man?

Better wake up seriously and find your way otherwise you will keep spending money on an overgrown, immature teen. You have a veeeery long way to go in life and the last thing you need is a hanger on who is contributing nothing to your life.

One last thing: Why exactly are you dating this guy? Have you defined your relationship with him?

cummando:
At your service Mi lady

I need a plate of salad and chicken lap.
please add vanilla flavor ice cream to it

lol honestly i tried to read everything, buh from what i can deduce from your own side of the story. u love this guy and u really wanto put work for him, buh he's not appreciating it. buh there's no better way to say this, do u feel cause u haven't had s3x with him that's why he's acting up and annoying. cause some tend to act that way. uve tried to show him that u really have something to offer to the relationship more than the sex, if he's not pressurizing u bout the Bleep. then u can talk to him, if he's not ready to work on the relationship, y'all go ur separate ways, u said something bout him being lazy, i still feel u should talk to him about that, if hes not staying with hes parents how do he pay bills and other stuffs. 23 year old nigga aint no kid. u see him as a man u wanna build with. try and find out from what he really want in the relationship, hes plans for the future,,goals and where u stand

sweetestjane:

I need a plate of salad and chicken lap.

please add vanilla flavor ice cream to it

Salad korr ...... Sandalili ni?
Jokes at your service in o and snide remarks
Where I wan see money for salad.
Unless you go manage ofio and ekpa
With pure water tutu.
Recession dey

♣ • → I have seen shiîts like this only in Nickelodeon•
Girl u gattu wake up• ™ °°

Babe you're dating a fvcking asshole of a guy. It is obvious you turned yourself to his cash cow. Delete his phone number right now!

I repeat, delete his phone number right now! That guy is a prospective yahoo boy and you are the maga here.

Delete his phone number right now before 12 midnight.


Abeg babes make una no dey date assholes who pose as nice guys.

Ishilove:

Lmao! You forgot: "okpolo go give am belle"

Chai....NNE u too much

Ishilove:

Have you finished motivating yourself? Have you finished motivating your brothers? With all your motivation, where has it gotten you? Don't you need motivation yourself? Are you read to keep mollycuddling a grown ass man?

Better wake up seriously and find your way otherwise you will keep spending money on an overgrown, immature teen. You have a veeeery long way to go in life and the last thing you need is a hanger on who is contributing nothing to your life.

One last thing: Why exactly are you dating this guy? Have you defined your relationship with him?

What she's doing with the guy is just too annoying.
Op, if you like ignore this advice.

What a frustrating relationship!.

cummando:
Salad korr ...... Sandalili ni? Jokes at your service in o and snide remarks Where I wan see money for salad. Unless you go manage ofio and ekpa With pure water tutu. Recession dey

lol

ikp120:
Babe you're dating a fvcking asshole of a guy. It is obvious you turned yourself to his cash cow. Delete his phone number right now!

I repeat, delete his phone number right now! That guy is a prospective yahoo boy and you are the maga here.

Delete his phone number right now before 12 midnight.


Abeg babes make una no dey date assholes who pose as nice guys.

You dis guy...you are funny I swear

Kuku buy ticket and travel to UK, locate the babe and delete the number from her phone. As she no wan delete am.

truthsayer007:


You dis guy...you are funny I swear

Kuku buy ticket and travel to UK, locate the babe and delete the number from her phone. As she no wan delete am.

I seriously wish say I fit hack her phone, heart, mind and soul right now and delete everything about that guy from there.

ikp120:


I seriously wish say I fit hack her phone, heart, mind and soul right now and delete everything about that guy from there.

Ishilove:

Have you finished motivating yourself? Have you finished motivating your brothers? With all your motivation, where has it gotten you? Don't you need motivation yourself? Are you read to keep mollycuddling a grown ass man?

Better wake up seriously and find your way otherwise you will keep spending money on an overgrown, immature teen. You have a veeeery long way to go in life and the last thing you need is a hanger on who is contributing nothing to your life.

One last thing: Why exactly are you dating this guy? Have you defined your relationship with him?

Thanks for your advice. I have been contemplating breaking up with him for a while now but since ai dont date that much and since I am young and naive, I just wanted the opinion of the grown ups first.

ikp120:


I seriously wish say I fit hack her phone, heart, mind and soul right now and delete everything about that guy from there.

Loool. U are free to do that but u will never guess my passcode plus u also have to bypass my biometric finger print too

Joke aside, I have listened to everyone's advice and I knew deep down, I was mummying or rather babying a grown ass man.

How I wish I never met him and fell for his niceness and how I wish the first day I met him, I could see all his traits everything.

Filashade:


Loool. U are free to do that but u will never guess my passcode plus u also have to bypass my biometric finger print too

Joke aside, I have listened to everyone's advice and I knew deep down, I was mummying or rather babying a grown ass man.

How I wish I never met him and fell for his niceness and how I wish the first day I met him, I could see all his traits everything.

Lol.

Babe stop wishing and start ignoring him. Just ignore him. I repeat ignore everything about him. He is probably one of those Nigerian fraudsters and playboys who know how to deal with babes over there.

I see you as a sister and cannot watch you waste your life with an asshole who might even have at least 3 other girls he's currently dating, who are also his cash cows.

Next time when you start off knowing a guy, always ask him deep questions about his past, present and future plans. That's the only way to really know a person.

ikp120:


Lol.

Babe stop wishing and start ignoring him. Just ignore him. I repeat ignore everything about him. He is probably one of those Nigerian fraudsters and playboys who know how to deal with babes over there.

I see you as a sister and cannot watch you waste your life with an asshole who might even have at least 3 other girls he's currently dating, who are also his cash cows.

Next time when you start off knowing a guy, always ask him deep questions about his past, present and future plans. That's the only way to really know a person.

Aww thank you for your advice. I have started to ignore him already. Yes I always think so too coz I always wondered where he h=gets his money from to go to school etc coz once u reach over the age of 18 in the UK u dont get no more free travel pass anymore and it aint cheap so I knew something was off but assumed his brother might be giving him money. But anyways, thanks so much bross. Really can count on nairaland(my home and motherland).

I though asking guys deep questions means spells trouble?

Filashade:


Aww thank you for your advice. I have started to ignore him already. Yes I always think so too coz I always wondered where he h=gets his money from to go to school etc coz once u reach over the age of 18 in the UK u dont get no more free travel pass anymore and it aint cheap so I knew something was off but assumed his brother might be giving him money. But anyways, thanks so much bross. Really can count on nairaland(my home and motherland).

I though asking guys deep questions means spells trouble?

Hmmm. Good you've started ignoring him.

No, it doesn't really spell troubles. It will reveal how honest and open the guy is with you. No girl should be dating a guy who is not honest and open with her.

The problem is that most girls hardly ask really deep questions that have the potential to reveal the guy's real nature.

As for me, I'm even the one who asks the questions most of the time when I'm trying to get to know a girl. That's really the only way to see through a person.