chronic cheats will ignore this post and call it mumu post... don't worry, karma is coming for you. Berra turn a new leaf

NGELEBUBE:
No matter how overloaded a bus is,the driver's seat is always reserved.
what about Abraham?, he cheated!
what about David? he cheated!
what about Solomon? he also cheated!
and many more in the bible,
now I ask....did they make heaven or not ??
seems cheating, adultery or fornication has always been there since creation,
I ask again who started it all and who will end it

How dare you fail to keep the whole scenario in context, yes, Abraham cheated but the consequence of such has brought great terror which humanity will never recover and what about the others?

[quote author=VastFinder post=53312154]

Please note that you can avoid adultery in your marriage. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it.

Carelessness is one of the major causes of external affairs in marriage not the devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error. So abide with the following simple rules and you will never fall into adultery.

1. Never make a member of the opposite $ex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions.

2. Never be with a member of the opposite $ex at a time your spouse doesn’t know you are there.

3. Never speak evil about your spouse in the presence of anyone. They will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you insincere affections and give you what you lack with your spouse and destroy you.

4. Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife / husband you visited.

5. Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse because affairs thrive in secrecy.

6. Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite $ex, there should be somebody of your $ex you can talk to. Don’t dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.

7. Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from the opposite $ex. They will ask for $ex in return. They are not Father Christmas.

8. Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife. You don’t know what their spouses are enduring at home. What you see outside is just show biz, don’t be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you.

9. Divert all your $exual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.

10. Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other, only faces differ it is the same package.

11. Deal with any $exual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse, kill it before it kills you. $exual error doesn’t begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart.

12. Before traveling have $ex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have $ex until you come back. That decision may save your life and destiny.

13. Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and top imagining what is there. It is stupid, childish­ and dirty to do that, that’s called lust, what is there isn’t different from what your spouse has, please don’t misbehave sir.

14. Walk in the company of good and Godly men/women. If you keep company with adulterers, you will become adulterous.

15. Discuss your $exual desires with your spouse and let it be met at home, don't hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the best, get it at home.

16. Fill your heart with the word of God always, this will not give lust a chance in your mind.

17. Always count the cost of adultery, don’t just look at the pleasure, look at the pain, loss of integrity, how you will hurt your wife/­husband, children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.

18. Always remember that the enjoyment, pleasure and the thrills in $ex is just 8seconds or less, it can not be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trade eternity for 8 seconds, is there wisdom in that?

19. Pray regularly for your spouse and your marriage as well

Finally BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID.

God bless your marriage (Home). Share this until it gets to all married couples. You may be saving a soul or a family.


Source: https://vastfinder..com/2017/01/new-study-on-how-to-avoid-adultery-in.html

lalasticlala, Mynd44, Fynestboi, dominique, ishilove[/quote

Good one. I HAVE COPIED IT IN MY M.S. WORD

13 is impossible.... Just look, infact stare at them and let it end there.

I find the list very naive, unrealistic or even mischievous (except for No 19).

For instance, No says 'avoid looking as the back, front or.. of another woman - you should have suggested that men should go about in blindfold! Else how can this be possible when most women today go about half-clad and the full clad ones wear dresses that are transparent or so tight you can effortlessly configure their nudity in technicolour!

Another advise says you should not make a fellow of the opposite sex your best friend? They don't need to be best friends before they can compromise you, rather it is the casual ones that are most dangerous. The way to rule out any form of relationship with the opposite sex is to be gay (not recommended).

I could go on and on with each point. But the real truth is that marriages will continue to suffer and most likely run out of fashion with advancements in technology, pressure for gender equality and disorders in the natural hierarchy expected in societies.

Families today lack clear cut line of command with women demanding for equality with the men in marriages, whereas their can be not peace or good progress in any craft (aircraft, seacraft, withcraft, etc) where the line of authority is unclear!

Also, most humans are becoming more and more individualistic and self-centric, therefore limiting capacity to achieve the kind of unity that threatened the Heavens as in The Towel of Babel case study (The Biblical Book of Genesis Chap11 Vs 1-9)

The future of family life is predicted in the Biblical Book of Isaiah Chap4 V1 -that as things progress along this trajectory, seven women to one man shall be the norm and it will be a thing of shame for any unattached woman!

VastFinder:


Please note that you can avoid adultery in your marriage. It is within your power to do it, if you really mean it.

Carelessness is one of the major causes of external affairs in marriage not the devil in the real sense of it as many people always claim when they fall into error. So abide with the following simple rules and you will never fall into adultery.

1. Never make a member of the opposite $ex your best friend with whom you share intimate discussions.

2. Never be with a member of the opposite $ex at a time your spouse doesn’t know you are there.

3. Never speak evil about your spouse in the presence of anyone. They will know you are not happy in your marriage and take advantage of that by showing you insincere affections and give you what you lack with your spouse and destroy you.

4. Never visit a website you will not be proud to tell your children and wife / husband you visited.

5. Avoid keeping secrets from your spouse because affairs thrive in secrecy.

6. Avoid confiding in the people of the opposite $ex, there should be somebody of your $ex you can talk to. Don’t dig the grave of your marriage with your mouth.

7. Avoid collecting unsolicited gifts and favour from the opposite $ex. They will ask for $ex in return. They are not Father Christmas.

8. Avoid thinking that anybody is better than your husband or wife. You don’t know what their spouses are enduring at home. What you see outside is just show biz, don’t be deceived. Grass is only greener in the other compound because it is far from you.

9. Divert all your $exual fantasy towards your spouse. He or she is planted in to your life to satisfy you and keep you holy.

10. Always remember that whatever every woman or man has in his or her body, your spouse has it too and they are not different from each other, only faces differ it is the same package.

11. Deal with any $exual thoughts that is not directed towards your spouse, kill it before it kills you. $exual error doesn’t begin in the bedroom,it begins in the heart.

12. Before traveling have $ex with your spouse and put your mind to it that you will not have $ex until you come back. That decision may save your life and destiny.

13. Men, avoid looking at the front and back side of ladies and top imagining what is there. It is stupid, childish­ and dirty to do that, that’s called lust, what is there isn’t different from what your spouse has, please don’t misbehave sir.

14. Walk in the company of good and Godly men/women. If you keep company with adulterers, you will become adulterous.

15. Discuss your $exual desires with your spouse and let it be met at home, don't hunt for something that will hunt you later and hurt you deeply tomorrow, your wife/ husband has the best, get it at home.

16. Fill your heart with the word of God always, this will not give lust a chance in your mind.

17. Always count the cost of adultery, don’t just look at the pleasure, look at the pain, loss of integrity, how you will hurt your wife/­husband, children, friends and above all GOD the almighty.

18. Always remember that the enjoyment, pleasure and the thrills in $ex is just 8seconds or less, it can not be more than that but its repercussions can last for eternity. Why trade eternity for 8 seconds, is there wisdom in that?

19. Pray regularly for your spouse and your marriage as well

Finally BE FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DID.

God bless your marriage (Home). Share this until it gets to all married couples. You may be saving a soul or a family.


Source: https://vastfinder..com/2017/01/new-study-on-how-to-avoid-adultery-in.html

lalasticlala, Mynd44, Fynestboi, dominique, ishilove

This one pass 10 commandments