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What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by Nobody: 11:35am On Feb 02, 2017
Let's learn..

In a family where the husband earns #150,000 every month, and the wife earns #1million every month and they both work in d same company, and the kids are lacking parental care and love. who among them should resign to take care of the kids?


Please reply with your answer and reasons behind your take.

Lets learn and improve our society.



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Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by jonaifame22(m): 11:38am On Feb 02, 2017
The wife should resign and go in2 business so that she can take care of the home front, money is not everything
Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by stuffsabouttara(f): 11:42am On Feb 02, 2017
Drabeey:
Let's learn..

In a family where the husband earns #150,000 every month, and the wife earns #1million every month and they both work in d same company, and the kids are lacking parental care and love. who among them should resign to take care of the kids?


Please reply with your answer and reasons behind your take.

Lets learn and improve our society.



#copied
It's all down to compromise. Husband should obviously resign first, get a job that allows him more quality time with the kids, and until he gets a new job (which we all know can be really hard and frustrating in this country of ours), the wife gets to be majorly financially responsible for the home, something that shouldn't be much of a big deal. Once the husband is back on his feet, time for the wife to resign too and get a job that allows her quality time with her kids. Parenting is not for one gender alone, both the husband and wife have vital roles to play, their jobs should never come first before the wellbeing of their children.

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Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by Nobody: 11:48am On Feb 02, 2017
jonaifame22:
The wife should resign and go in2 business so that she can take care of the home front, money is not everything


Resign with million as salary.
Ha!
Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by Nobody: 11:53am On Feb 02, 2017
stuffsabouttara:
It's all down to compromise. Husband should obviously resign first, get a job that allows him more quality time with the kids, and until he gets a new job (which we all know can be really hard and frustrating in this country of ours), the wife gets to be majorly financially responsible for the home, something that shouldn't be much of a big deal. Once the husband is back on his feet, time for the wife to resign too and get a job that allows her quality time with her kids. Parenting is not for one gender alone, both the husband and wife have vital roles to play, their jobs should never come first before the wellbeing of their children.


But our society regards the husband as head of tge family... Why should he resign... Moreso, the society frowns at a man who is jobless and probably at home tying napkin.
Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by Nobody: 11:57am On Feb 02, 2017
grin



Let the husband resign..end of the story.
Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by stuffsabouttara(f): 12:05pm On Feb 02, 2017
Drabeey:



But our society regards the husband as head of tge family... Why should he resign... Moreso, the society frowns at a man who is jobless and probably at home tying napkin.
The man's obligation is not to the society, but first to his wife and kids. If their jobs prevent them from having time for their kids, both of them should resign, just that the man should go first since the wife earns more, no need risking the family's financial security all in the name of society and male ego.
Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by babyfaceafrica: 1:07pm On Feb 02, 2017
They should employ nanny or bring grandma...no one should resign

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Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by Brown14: 1:11pm On Feb 02, 2017
If I am the man I would gladly resign and let my wife continue. But then again if the wife is collecting a million plus that means she must be at the head of the company so why not just pull some strings and promote the man with a bigger salary then resign.
Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by Nobody: 3:29pm On Feb 02, 2017
The husband should resign once the wife save enough money.she stop and use the money for another business that will give her time for the children.the husband should help at home for now.and also the wife should not disrespect the husband because she is making enough money.
Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by firstking01(m): 4:14pm On Feb 02, 2017
Drabeey:
Let's learn..

In a family where the husband earns #150,000 every month, and the wife earns #1million every month and they both work in d same company, and the kids are lacking parental care and love. who among them should resign to take care of the kids?


Please reply with your answer and reasons behind your take.

Lets learn and improve our society.



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Nobody resigns...let them employ a nanny jareundecided
Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by KingRex1(m): 4:22pm On Feb 02, 2017
The man should find another job.. Start a private business preferably, which would allow more time with the kids. The woman should also make conscious efforts to spend time with the family
Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by Nobody: 1:48pm On Feb 03, 2017
KingRex1:
The man should find another job.. Start a private business preferably, which would allow more time with the kids. The woman should also make conscious efforts to spend time with the family

But why the man.... Is he not supposed to be the head of the family?
Re: What Is Your Take On This Issue And Why? Let's Learn by Nobody: 1:55pm On Feb 03, 2017
I can be a nanny.

but should in case a nanny is not needed,the husband should resign.

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