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We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by dukeokafor(m): 2:50pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
One friday in December 2016, my friend came to my room crying profusely like as if someone from his family died. At first, I was taken aback because he was the least person I expected to see cry. He has the whole macho thing going on for him, he's more built and taller than I am. So, ordinarily I just felt it would be hard for someone like that to shed tears. So, after I calmed him down, I then asked what made him cry. He told me it was his girlfriend that made him cry. She doesn't care for him, he doesn't think she loves him, he keeps trying to make her happy but it seems everything he does ain't good enough. He was even trying to talk to her and she walk out on him without saying a word even when she saw him cry. He added that he's not sure he could take it anymore. 'Wawu!' I felt his pain. He is in love. I asked him, "what do you want to do?". 'I no do again', he said. I said nothing, just kept telling him to calm down. Today, not up to 20 minutes ago, I saw him and the girl all loved up and I just shook my head with mixed feelings. Love, we give power to the people who hurt us, all in the name of love. Why do we have this fear that we are gonna lose them? At the end, we will. But, do we let them take a part of us too while they go? No. A love that makes us lose ourselves negatively in the process is not worth it. You are to lose yourself in order to grow stronger and not weaker. Take note. 1 Like |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by yhermmie(f): 3:08pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
That's true... |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by Nobody: 3:47pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
ajaga...i get this girl weh de for ajah...she de like to the travel agala...she de like to dance galala |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by kunlexy1759(m): 4:43pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
Power of love. |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by NevetsIbot(m): 5:09pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
lol.... Anygirl tha thinks i'll cry for her is on a long thing |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by TrapHedges(m): 5:23pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
Woe to the niggas tat cry over girls |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by Nobody: 5:32pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
NevetsIbot:You have not met your match |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by NevetsIbot(m): 5:34pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
Stupedinluv:cos there will never be |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by Nobody: 6:01pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
Stupedinluv: U want a guy, that wl cry for you.. .lol.?? Not here in Nigeria #YOLO |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by lodphil(m): 6:06pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
Who has time for that luv shit,that crap is non-existent.The luv crap is only another form of trade by barter |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by firstking01(m): 6:19pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
dukeokafor:At a point in our cylindrical lives we give power to people to hurt us which is why i define love as giving someone the opportunity to hurt us but trusting they won't. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by Nobody: 6:28pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
richommie:LMAO I must have been dreaming when they happened |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by Nobody: 7:24pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
Re: We Give Power To Those Who Hurt Us by TuneChi369(m): 9:25pm On Feb 05, 2017 |
True bro...Love Sha. |
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