FreeSpirited:
All men fall into one of these categories.....Avoid all men??

HateU2:
I dedicate this space to Mrcork . Happy Val to you cork heaf
And to my sweetheart, my Bestie of life, my sweet sis from another mama. Yeah, I met her on NL. She's has been the best girlfriend so far. Happy Val to you love. I appreciate you.

kolaitan:
Majority of our girls also fall into this categories.
We will start avoiding them.
No val today

TheSlyone2:
thornapple, why are you so stringent about your choice of men?

Could it be because you despise relationship as a whole or you're being careful not to make a wrong choice??

In an event where all your admirers ( those accessible to you) possess atleast one of this qualities, bearing in mind that this guy in question has some outstanding and superb qualities to compensate for the ones he's lacking, would you rather knock him off your raider and continue the search for "Mr. Right" knowing fully well that they are very hard to come by this days, that is if they even exist? Or would you accept him, work on him to ensure his strength (those outstanding and impressive qualities) are taken to good and profitable use??

Your thought on this ma'am

thornapple:


I happen to know one that doesn't

thornapple:


Your guess is as good as mine.......first panel beat him to fall in place before acceptance. i've found a convincing one though.

McBeee:

Let me guess The one u are dating currently
Actually he falls into number 2, cos he's still in pretence

thornapple:

lol, why number 2.
We are pretty close now. The closest i've ever drawn to a guy.

thornapple:


I happen to know one that doesn't

TheSlyone2:

My experience with girls over the years shows how confused and indecisive they could be (No disrespect tho)..

I so much believe that a girl hasn't found a convincing and best match til she's got the ring on that amazing finger.

Even after marriage, some gurls after meeting a cool guy incessantly nags about her making a hell of mistake in choosing him. How confused?

My point exactly, not until that one you are with proves himself worthy by taking you to the alter, his just as good as your other admirers... No speciality

FreeSpirited:
You better run for dear life

thornapple:

Why?, he can't hurt a fly.

thornapple:
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Majority of girls are as cool as cucumber.

FreeSpirited:
All is well...its obvious u have idealised him....

thornapple:


maybe lol

thornapple:


You are pretty right but he's one i also deeply admire myself. His charisma, intelligence, understanding, gentility, composure, etc, all fall in place.
I don't know if anything will come out of our relationship. If he's the hobby i had been waiting for, time will tell.

McBeee:


Every guy exhibits a little bit of one of those at least and if it's not obvious it's definitely number 2

TheSlyone2:

Don't jump into hasty conclusion ma'am. The deceptive and adventurous mind of men would make you not wanting to trust any man (Applicable to female folks as well)

Now, after meeting you, there are possibility that his view and Perspectives of you is limited at that point in time. Yes, you didn't make mistakes choosing him. But have you heard directly from him?

Most times, so many factors ranging from lusts, misplaced feelings and emotion, pride and integrity could lead him to making advances at you or yielding to your green light. What happens if he step up his game?

Like I did said, Human mind expecially men are adventurous. They always want to taste, experience anything new. With the exception of a few, they get bored with same old. So what happens when he's got enough of you?

I'm insistent, don't ever think his the one til he finally make it to the finish line...

And again, don't be limited by your sight. Look beyond you, there exist so many distinguished gentlemen. You just have to look well and stop making prejudices

thornapple:


Thanks for your brotherly advice.
The guy hasn't been in any meaningful relationship. He seems a learner like me so we are both learning together.
What we have between us can't yet be described as a relationship but he's really cool to be with. My instincts have never failed me before and i trust him.
Though time and again there are signs another girl occupies his heart.

TheSlyone2:

Lerner won't remain a Lerner forever. What happens after he finished learning? Wouldn't he want to practicalize the skills he acquired over time?

"There are signs another girl occupies his heart". Do you seriously wanna be in a competition with other girls?

Well if what you feel for him isn't borne out of misplaced emotions, then you should stick to your guns. Time and space will tell.

thornapple:

You seem to have a lot of experience. Do you mind sharing?.

Lastpharoah33:
Summary of this epistle.... Op is dating our Lord jesus

TheSlyone2:

believe me, am a learner just as you. But we can always learn together