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| How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by helinues: 6:08pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
When you discover you've been cheated on you feel a range of emotions -- shock, anger, hurt, just to name a few -- and often at their extremes. At some point everyone shifts from feeling to thinking and wants to know how do cheaters feel. Is he or she feeling any pain like I am? So, how do cheaters feel? Some feel really bad, others not so much. But no matter how much guilt or remorse a cheating person expresses outwardly, everyone feels it inwardly to some extent. A common ability of cheaters is to separate themselves from their feelings and consciousness. In order to continue to act in a way they know is wrong, cheaters tell themselves lies – she deserves it, he doesn’t love me anymore anyway, I deserve to he happy (true, but not in this way). All of us have ways our minds can justify wrong behavior. A developing trend in our society today that's making it easier to cheat is the acceptance of broken promises. Making promises just doesn't have the shame and consequences associated with it that it used to have. As our society makes it more and more acceptable to break a promise, it makes it easier and easier for anyone to cheat with very little guilt or remorse. I've found that most cheaters really do have a conscience. Many people who cheat didn't set out to do so. A lot of time cheating just develops out of one bad decision followed by another bad decision. Before the person knows it, they're cheating. Once they've crossed that line, it's easier to justify it in your mind, keep on cheating, and enjoy the ride while it lasts, more than it is to admit the mistake and face the consequences. If you've been cheated on, it's important to recognize that your feelings may be different than your cheating partner's. However, that doesn't mean your partner doesn't have negative feelings about cheating -- they'll probably just not show them. Burying feelings is how cheaters live with themselves. The majority of men, and women, who cheat aren't bad people. They've just made a series of bad decisions. If you've been cheated on you might think I'm being too kind here. But the truth is the majority of cheaters do feel bad about cheating. Source: https://web.facebook.com/forum9ja/posts/1404504766277986 |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by Splinz(m): 6:44pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
They feel the same way cold blooded murderers feel. |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:33pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
I've never cheated and will never cheat. It is the height of wickedness and irresponsibility which can never be justified in any book. May I end up with a loyal lady... 1 Like |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by helinues: 7:37pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista: Boss, I hail sir |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by naija1stpikin: 7:38pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista:was not expecting anything different from a politician. Beautiful lies 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by Flexherbal(m): 7:39pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista:Amen! |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:41pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
naija1stpikin:I'm first a human before being a politician. Beside, I'm in politics for your sake, to serve you and see that your/our tomorrow is better than today. Politicians are selfless and noble people irrespective of the actions of a few! #I-Rep-PDP |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by helinues: 7:42pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
naija1stpikin: Mama Nkechi, help me serve my guy 2 plate of peppersoup with one crate of origin.
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| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:43pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
Flexherbal:But on a serious note, there is a brutal way to deal with Cheating partner that will psychologically and emotionally wreck them! I won't say it though |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by naija1stpikin: 7:45pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista:another lie  1 Like |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by naija1stpikin: 7:45pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:47pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
naija1stpikin:Where is the lie? |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by naija1stpikin: 7:49pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista: This; "Beside, I'm in politics for your sake, to serve you and see that your/our tomorrow is better than today." |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:57pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
naija1stpikin:Brother, there is no lie in that comment. I am awake while you are sleeping thinking of how to make the society better for you. Our lives are sometimes on the line for the sake of this country and our tomorrow. You Sir, should appreciate the patriotism and sacrifices of politicians. |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by naija1stpikin: 8:02pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista:which future? The politicians in this country have successfully ruined the present and future. They worked so hard and even sleepless nights to ruin our futures just to secure their children's. Nobody stays awake for my sake. They all stay awake to share the yam and further impoverish us. God will judge them and 1 Like |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 8:08pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
naija1stpikin:Boss! Yes most politicians have failed in their noble responsibility but it doesn't take away the nobility of the vocation. Make we no derail thread jare, have you cheated on your other half? |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by CaptainRahl(m): 8:18pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
naija1stpikin:this guy dey vex seriously  he may not be far away from the truth. |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
but a number of ppl who cheat do it pleasure na .or how can u explain a guy who is a serial cheater be calling himself a yoruba demon or lady sleeping around her numerous boyfriends and sugar daddiesand be saving their numbers on her phone as mugu25,maga50,oilbloc4,paradise sugardaddy,oil boom papa,carrotboy,corruptvirgin,my daddy atm etc |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by yorhmienerd(m): 8:46pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
I will MAY forgive a cheating partner but will NEVER forget. I will still REVENGE though. |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by OluwabuqqyYOLO(m): 8:55pm On Feb 21, 2017 |
No one voluntarily wants to lose whom he/she loves, I repeat, no one! If there's love, he/she won't cheat. If he does, there's no love. However, define cheating, please. |
| Re: How Do Cheaters Feel About Their Cheating? by naija1stpikin: 12:08am On Feb 22, 2017 |
TonyeBarcanista: yes sir. That has always been my wrong doing. I'm loving and caring but I always find myself cheating. I think it's the devil |
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