I felt there should be a point about avoiding what he dislikes, especially any particular ones he keeps drumming about. Plus, be a positive enzyme to his aspirations, not an inhibitor. Never, Never swear curses upon your husband. This is especially for women with deep cultural backgrounds, who at heat of marriage pressures, would not hesitate to go outside, and Unclad at mid-night to place curse on the man who paid her bride price and in some cases, who is father of her children.

Richy4:
Sometime I just feel like we guys are being insulted by some of this write up....How do u feel u can secure an adult that got mind of their own.. we are not kids that could not differentiate between right or wrong...Any man that wants to be promiscuous did that with a sound mind...he has the right to say no to the so called strange woman assuming he wanted to...escort him to the gate?...As in kindergarten school levels..

Some times we hear things like she SNATCHED him away from her....Haba!!! just call men inanimate object now...that would have been cool...only some animal or inanimate objects can be snatched....Not someone that got a mind of his own..

Any man that wants to leave you....If you like cook chicken marsala daily for him, clean..wash till your hands got pilled.....Call him honey,sweetie, sugar etc...If he want's to go, no matter how secured u feel you have done on him, he will and some will roll with some one you are better than in all ramification ...I feel so sad seeing ladies fighting over a man...if he puts you in a difficult position, why not confront him instead of the other woman..........You ladies should stop treating guys as if we are fifth graders...we are Adults

Omg. You said my mind verbertim!

MSpices:


Source:
http://marriagespices.com/5-ways-secure-husband-strange-women/

I felt there should be a point about avoiding what he dislikes, especially any particular ones he keeps drumming about. Plus, be a positive enzyme to his aspirations, not an inhibitor. Never, Never swear curses upon your husband. This is especially for women with deep cultural backgrounds, who at heat of marriage pressures, would not hesitate to go outside, and Unclad at mid-night to place curse on the man who paid her bride price and in some cases, who is father of her children.

A man who will stay faithful, will stay faithful no.matter what you do or do not do as a woman. Truth is, give your best and be prayerful.
That's it ladies.Even if you are a tigress on the bed, he might still chase after a woman who is a novice on the bed.
Nothing will keep a man that doesn't want to be kept

A man who will stay faithful, will stay faithful no.matter what you do or do not do as a woman. Truth is, give your best and be prayerful.
That's it ladies.Even if you are a tigress on the bed, he might still chase after a woman who is a novice on the bed.
Nothing will keep a man that doesn't want to be kept

Richy4:
Sometime I just feel like we guys are being insulted by some of this write up....How do u feel u can secure an adult that got mind of their own.. we are not kids that could not differentiate between right or wrong...Any man that wants to be promiscuous did that with a sound mind...he has the right to say no to the so called strange woman assuming he wanted to...escort him to the gate?...As in kindergarten school levels..

Some times we hear things like she SNATCHED him away from her....Haba!!! just call men inanimate object now...that would have been cool...only some animal or inanimate objects can be snatched....Not someone that got a mind of his own..

Any man that wants to leave you....If you like cook chicken marsala daily for him, clean..wash till your hands got pilled.....Call him honey,sweetie, sugar etc...If he want's to go, no matter how secured u feel you have done on him, he will and some will roll with some one you are better than in all ramification ...I feel so sad seeing ladies fighting over a man...if he puts you in a difficult position, why not confront him instead of the other woman..........You ladies should stop treating guys as if we are fifth graders...we are Adults

Tell them ooohhhh

2dugged:
A man that will cheat will still do,as far as I am concerned, this writing up is meaningless to a man that sniffs anything with a vagina

...so whats ur remedy?....everything can be controlled or stopped no matter the habit....this is human psychology

LaEvilIMiss:
The hustle is real but the game has changed.
I respect @OPs' suggestions but they may not apply in this modern age where sensuality and sex are reaching far more girls from teenage to over 40.. Men have to contest with their focus for many beautiful, sexy, intelligent single and married females who are more desperate than you are and have more time on their hands than you do taking care of children and being a wife.

1: Learn to improve your knowledge each day - Read a profoundly life-impacting book other than the Bible or Quran, be abreast of important world-changing news, politically, economically and socially - The intensity of the attraction goes beyond just Sex.. a man will cheat on you but if he keeps going back to the same booty.. he has found something interesting enough for him to forget you for a while. IMPROVE YOUR MIND

2: Learn to talk properly and respectfully - A mature mind is demonstrated in mature speech. gather your thoughts and put them into what you say.. methodically and whimsically. Men identify not only with beauty but brains as well. It means you are better than a trophy-wife for him to admire like his car and things.. you are a relevant force in his eco-system. most women are comfortable with speaking in accusing tones rather than asking a honest question.. just as we can read in-between the lines, so can men.. but they need you to reinforce your statements before they are sure they know what you mean. questions like WHERE ARE YOU!? and others that elicit the same accusing feeling can be your downfall.. why not start with hey honey.. i was just reading about your company today; tell me what they said,is it true.? oh are you leaving the office soon? He might not be at the office but he is most likely to tell you where he is if you are not shouting WHERE ARE YOU!? He is not a kid anymore.

3: Eat right and Exercise right - It is true Women age poorly and far more quickly than Men. Add decades of creams and make-up and lack of exercise and free-food; you will realize that you look 5-8 times your real age and the race to cover that up with make-up and more make-up begins. STOP, RELAX and EXERCISE.. with enough exercise and a proper diet.. you will recover some of that sexiness your man use to come home for. STAY IN-SHAPE or GET-IN-SHAPE

4: Dress Chic and Modern - Yes It is good to look like a Pastor's wife or a career business-woman. unless you are constantly in board meetings and live in your office.. dress chic, if you have been doing your exercises and eating right.. you won't have to augment with Butt-pads and waist-trainers..look like that Intelligent, Sexy and young office chic every man is crushing on.. Yes.. I have heard it from a credible source.. Working Married/Single men talk about sex and who they crush on at the office every single day. It is a steamy Mind-sex parlor outside the home .. you do not need your man's attention to wander and stay outside- Be the chic he crushes on when he is not with you

5- Use KOBNOMI- if all else fails - JaZz him like a mofoka

Very, very true...but remove the KOBNOMI abi you want to create a society of Zombies? Also, none of these would work if there ia a fundamental incompatibility from the start. So it's going to be like: Jump in, walk out

All men are cheats have that at the back of your mind,now if you are lucky to find a man who decides to quit the game for your sake, consider yourself lucky. But turning yourself to a monitoring spirit won't stop him o. And there are millions of olosho in girls clothing out there.

mvem:
...so whats ur remedy?....everything can be controlled or stopped no matter the habit....this is human psychology

there is no remedy, he is an adult with a mind and a conscience, the op creating this thread is like trying to blame a woman for her husband's infidelity, he is not a baby, I have seen married men shamelessly hit on single ladies, the only remedy as a wife is to face your children and protect yourself self incase he decides to bring std home as souvenir

Dat football strategy....use it on me forever u don charm me be dat lol

Why does it look like our sole purpose on earth as women is to hold down a man ?. I agree you have to do your own part as a woman in a relationship but some ladies do more than this and yet get cheated on. You can't hold down someone who does not want to be held down, it is that simple. Two people are in a relationship and should work to sustain it . Do your part in a relationship and your partner should do the same

Mtcheeww so a woman should kill her self cos she doesn't want her man to cheat. What Is d world turning into? They dont teach men how to keep their d**k in their pants, but give women reason to develop HBP. Ladies listen! NO MATTER WAT U DO, A CHEATING HUSBAND WILL STILL CHEAT vice versa. Let dis men be, think of d bright side of life and how to make urself happy. Life is too short for this nonsense.

I hear una advice but am speechless,how could someone brought a car without a spare tyre

Only jobless woman will have time to observe these. How do you expect a working class woman who divides her commitment to job and home to do all these. We are goats, if you bring sex to us at work, if we want to misbehave we will. The best is just ignore us so you can have your peace.

geekybabe:
Yea. Its our duty to keep securing men so they cant cheat. Sigh. I hate this kind of posts.

A means of education and yet u turn zero to the topic, i guess u r of d "do me i do you" class. if he cheat i cheat, i wonder what moral lesson u have to pass to d upcoming generation.

LadyAngelica:
The only way to secure your husband is to make him controllably in love with you. How do you do that....? Know who he is and give him what he wants.

wow, nice respond 4rm a married lady if am nt mistaken?

So u want to secure a man only to yourself. Nawaoh you are greedy. Just check it out, woman are x10 of men's population. For equitable distribution a man should get at least 15 women to mop up the excess supply. Shey una think say our forefathers were fools to have married 4 to 8 wives. They hardly cheated coz they were busy satisfying each of their wives on their assigned days.

Then Christianity came with the One man One wife bullshit, acculturating us with alien way of life. It has hit the wall and has rebounded with cheating up and down. Thats the price we have to pay

Harbosede02:
Is it not men??















They will still cheat!

Dats not true cos some men still have integrity n will never cheat on their wives.

Men cheat because they want to taste different pumpum. It is plain and simple. No matter how much you take care of a man, he'll cheat just because he wants to enjoy that different pumpum from his wife.. na so men be but they can pretend die.

Outofsync:

Fixed. You're welcome

thanks didn't proof read it. Thanks man

The ideology that all men are polygamous in nature and are cheats is a TOTAL FALLACY. A man cheats because he wants to and not because he has to. If you have self control and respect for your spouse, then it would be hard for you to cheat on them. ENOUGH SAID.

LaEvilIMiss:

coffee liquor with suya - Saturday evenings only

Correct lady. Meet me at your street junction tomorrow. hmm?

Wow! Good for the Family

Will these wives listen and do the needful.

LAFO:


I'm not married yet.

Oh really?!

blont:
A means of education and yet u turn zero to the topic, i guess u r of d "do me i do you" class. if he cheat i cheat, i wonder what moral lesson u have to pass to d upcoming generation.

I dont care about any moral lesson for any next generation. This generation needs to get things right and stop teaching women to worship men and take their shit.

In the end, the woman will still do everything and the guy will still waka. Please dont educate me. I dont need it

MSpices:


Source:
http://marriagespices.com/5-ways-secure-husband-strange-women/

hhere i was thinking op was gonna say somthing like cook his lunch with menstral blood or padlock his organ. Soundest advice so far, make sense

LaylaAli:


I'm so glad this is coming from a man. It is insulting to men. An adult should be able to control their own body.

please read the topic and content of the post, it is most applicable to a good husband, to men that can be carried away, not to a man who desire to have 12 wife from his youthful age, not to the man like to attack, {for dragon they say can not be tamed}

A good husband can fall into the hands of a strange woman when he get from the strange woman what the wife does not give. this method is called enticement.

ESCORT HIM TO THE GATE: seeing a husband off to the gate can be seen to some men as concern and many men love it, hence the man may not be carried away if this comes from a strange woman.

SOME HUSBAND LOVE SEX: the reason why some men cheat on their wife is because of the inability of the wife to give or satisfy them sexually, so if a woman can go on with this and be the caro of wizkid then she has the man to herself.
(voice of wizkid)
Caro dey fire pass motor
Caro dey fire pass Ferrari
Caro dey give me every morning
Caro dey do she no dey tire
Caro dey want am every minute
Caro dey make me feel the lazy
Caro dey make my head dey bang
Caro dey make me wan dey craze

[Chorus]
But I'm still looking for Caro...ehba...

talking about men got mind of their own, without being bias and with dew respect to men, men got mind, but not all are able to differentiate btw good and bad, some got mind and can make use of it when needed.

please, i rather you add to what OP has posted than for you to remove, his mode of application is also on point.

Well some men want us to believe otherwise.
Promoting Bullshyte like the one in the OP helps them not accept responsibility for their own actions.

Richy4:
Sometime I just feel like we guys are being insulted by some of this write up....How do u feel u can secure an adult that got mind of their own.. we are not kids that could not differentiate between right or wrong...Any man that wants to be promiscuous did that with a sound mind...he has the right to say no to the so called strange woman assuming he wanted to...escort him to the gate?...As in kindergarten school levels..

Some times we hear things like she SNATCHED him away from her....Haba!!! just call men inanimate object now...that would have been cool...only some animal or inanimate objects can be snatched....Not someone that got a mind of his own..

Any man that wants to leave you....If you like cook chicken marsala daily for him, clean..wash till your hands got pilled.....Call him honey,sweetie, sugar etc...If he want's to go, no matter how secured u feel you have done on him, he will and some will roll with some one you are better than in all ramification ...I feel so sad seeing ladies fighting over a man...if he puts you in a difficult position, why not confront him instead of the other woman..........You ladies should stop treating guys as if we are fifth graders...we are Adults

Harbosede02:
Is it not men??

They will still cheat!

Have you ever been married?

If the wife satisfies him at hime, where's the motivation for him to cheat outside the home?

Lots of comment have been made regarding this thread. We all have varying views the truth is... We all have conscience, whether it is alive or killed intentionally. The tips to keep a man is FANTASTIC... thumps up to that post.
We need a generation of MEN that will train REAL MEN... our forefathers later regretted their deeds of having several wives... lots of chaos and witch-hunting.
Any sane man should remain faithful to his wife... esp when he gets all he desires.
Love seeks to treat the other person right... men treat your wife good too.... Don't wait ... be the first to take a step. A loving wife will give you twice of what you give her.
Talk love, sex and how to make your union get better. The woman out there will destroy you and make you a piece of bread... my one kobo advice