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Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by MSpices: 3:33pm On Feb 23, 2017
Strange women
The world is increasingly going through the challenges of modernization throwing up pressure to marriages. Smart phones and other IT devices are delivery nudes, new wave of friendship down to the bedrooms of people. A man could be talking with his wife in the bedroom while he’s chatting with another woman without the knowledge of his wife. All these have piled up pressures on wives seeking to have stable marriages. Here are some ways to secure your husband from strange women and secure your marriage.

Serve Him What He Likes
During jokes or conversation your husband would have told you what he likes and without been told a wife should know what her husband likes. It is your duty to please him when it is within your power to do so. Some husbands loves sports to the extend they go outside to watch with their friends.
Hear this testimony: This woman said her husband was always leaving the house to watch football outside and the Spirit said to her she could make him watch it at home and wisdom came. She asked him the next time his club was going to play and he told her; and she prepared for that day, bought his kind of drink and put it in the fridge and fried some chicken. On that day as the husband was about going out again, she told him she was going to watch the game with him and he reluctantly agreed to watch at home. The game started and they were watching; and later she brought in his best drink and some fried chicken. He was surprised at the wife. While he supported Chelsea she supported the opposition and at the end Chelsea Football Club won and the husband was thrilled and from that day onwards, he stayed at home. If you can get him to stay at home most of the time, he will lose interest in other women. That will be your assignment. Every man has a soft spot and only a wise wife can know that.
Some husbands love sex. Hear this. A lady said while we were discussing that her husband can never date another woman. I was shocked and asked her what she meant. She said she discovered that her husband likes women and probably has women outside. She decided to go out of her ways to really please him sexually. In the morning while he was dressing for work, she would invite him for sex and satisfy him. She really gave it to him every time that she observed he no longer hide to receive calls and stayed at home most of the time. He even confessed when the other women disturbed him so much. According to her, there was a day he told her he could never do without her and requested if she would travel with him on official trip for a seminal, she gladly obliged him. That was her she regained her husband to herself.
I was in disbelief that a woman could go all the length to fight for her man. Woman, you too can be led be the Holy Spirit. Everything is not fight and quarrel. I have had course to tell some women seeking divorce, even if you leave him, and remarries, you would eventually be faced with the other man’s challenge. Divorce is not the answer in most cases.

Escort him to the Gate
Always try to escort him to the car or the gate and tell him ‘my angel is watching over you. Go and return to me safely. I love you’ then give him a kiss. Never leave your husband without a kiss in the public or private. Those prophetic words are arrows fired into the air and will not return to you void without fulfilling its purpose. We have a weapon in our mouth. We shouldn’t use it to destroy our families but rather use it to build them.

Don’t be too careless not to be observant
Women are talented in this area that they can sense another woman’s intention towards their men unless they chose to ignore it. In most cases the men hardly know or see it. The men always think it is a harmless hug, or friendship and not until it manifests before they begin to realize that their wives were right after all.
The challenge here is that most women are unable to manage the situation due to their emotions. My advice is simple, if you observe that a particular woman is too close to your husband, make friends with her and try to offer her what help she needs that draws her close to your husband. If it is prayer, pray with her. If it is counsel, sit down to understand her situation and counsel her. If it is money or other things within your power, give to her and you would be surprised you have rescued your husband. Woman to woman, she would understand your intentions and stay clear.
Don’t be too careless and say he is a Christian and he can take care of the situation. Some men of God have fallen to this trick and their ministries ruined. This counsel is particularly good for wives of ordained ministers and pastors because of their assignment in the house of God. Wives should help their husbands stay focus to their marriage, calling or assignment.

Don’t let jealousy take the better part of you
You must tame that leopard called jealousy. It has a way of roaring without control in women, so that things don't go out of hand. If your husband suspects you are jealous, he will watch your every move. Take control of the situation.

Source:
http://marriagespices.com/5-ways-secure-husband-strange-women/

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Dyt(f): 3:57pm On Feb 23, 2017
MSpices:


Escort him to the Gate
Always try to escort him to the car or the gate and tell him ‘my angel is watching over you. Go and return to me safely. I love you’ then give him a kiss.




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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by slimmdree(m): 4:04pm On Feb 23, 2017
Lmaooooo cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Ayofaks(f): 11:03pm On Feb 23, 2017
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by carammel(f): 11:07pm On Feb 23, 2017
Cool story.

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by serenegroup(m): 11:55pm On Feb 23, 2017
The best I have read so far on keeping your husband. wives do more than reading oh. Act on this write up.

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Nobody: 11:36am On Feb 24, 2017
The only way to secure your husband is to make him controllably in love with you. How do you do that....? Know who he is and give him what he wants.

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Nobody: 2:07pm On Feb 24, 2017
Is it not men??














They will still cheat!angry

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Richy4(m): 2:22pm On Feb 24, 2017
Sometime I just feel like we guys are being insulted by some of this write up....How do u feel u can secure an adult that got mind of their own.. we are not kids that could not differentiate between right or wrong...Any man that wants to be promiscuous did that with a sound mind...he has the right to say no to the so called strange woman assuming he wanted to...escort him to the gate?...As in kindergarten school levels..

Some times we hear things like she SNATCHED him away from her....Haba!!! just call men inanimate object now...that would have been cool...only some animal or inanimate objects can be snatched....Not someone that got a mind of his own..

Any man that wants to leave you....If you like cook chicken marsala daily for him, clean..wash till your hands got pilled.....Call him honey,sweetie, sugar etc...If he want's to go, no matter how secured u feel you have done on him, he will and some will roll with some one you are better than in all ramification ...I feel so sad seeing ladies fighting over a man...if he puts you in a difficult position, why not confront him instead of the other woman..........You ladies should stop treating guys as if we are fifth graders...we are Adults

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by sisisioge: 2:46pm On Feb 24, 2017
grin grin grin grin

Do all these and he won't still be "secured" if any girl wanna be on his case. Na subtly them go take unsecure him since e be your first pikin.

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by KanwuliaExtra: 4:00pm On Feb 24, 2017
Give him STDs! cheesy

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Mskrisx(f): 4:10pm On Feb 24, 2017
KanwuliaExtra:
Give him STDs! cheesy

K Mama I missed u much! Na ur name wey I see I take open this thread abi needle sef.

Muchechecheche! grin

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by KanwuliaExtra: 4:14pm On Feb 24, 2017
Mskrisx:


K Mama I missed u much! Na ur name wey I see I take open this thread abi needle sef.

Muchechecheche! grin

Thank you joooooooooor!
I am very honored! cool
Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Nobody: 6:16pm On Feb 24, 2017
Richy4:
Sometime I just feel like we guys are being insulted by some of this write up....How do u feel u can secure an adult that got mind of their own.. we are not kids that could not differentiate between right or wrong...Any man that wants to be promiscuous did that with a sound mind...he has the right to say no to the so called strange woman assuming he wanted to...escort him to the gate?...As in kindergarten school levels..

Some times we hear things like she SNATCHED him away from her....Haba!!! just call men inanimate object now...that would have been cool...only some animal or inanimate objects can be snatched....Not someone that got a mind of his own..

Any man that wants to leave you....If you like cook chicken marsala daily for him, clean..wash till your hands got pilled.....Call him honey,sweetie, sugar etc...If he want's to go, no matter how secured u feel you have done on him, he will and some will roll with some one you are better than in all ramification ...I feel so sad seeing ladies fighting over a man...if he puts you in a difficult position, why not confront him instead of the other woman..........You ladies should stop treating guys as if we are fifth graders...we are Adults

I'm so glad this is coming from a man. It is insulting to men. An adult should be able to control their own body.

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Olasco93: 6:23pm On Feb 24, 2017
Very insightful... This are the kind of value based post that should flood front page. lalasticlala, come and see this.

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Nobody: 7:39pm On Feb 24, 2017
mtcheeeeeeeeeew
Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Nobody: 8:21pm On Feb 24, 2017
grin grin grin grin
Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Jaytecq(m): 8:22pm On Feb 24, 2017
do everything to marry a God fearing man.










That solves it

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by maberry(m): 8:23pm On Feb 24, 2017
Op in a perfect world, these your points would be valid
But I be man... we no dey hear word o

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Adesiji77: 8:23pm On Feb 24, 2017
The hustle is real cheesy
Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Tpave(m): 8:23pm On Feb 24, 2017
Story for the gods

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Ishilove: 8:24pm On Feb 24, 2017
Mscheeew. A man is an adult, not a toddler that needs to be 'secured' with a leash, neither is he a piece of stationery, gadget or accessory that can be 'snatched' or 'stolen'. A man who wants to misbehave will misbehave.

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Nobody: 8:24pm On Feb 24, 2017
Richy4:
Sometime I just feel like we guys are being insulted by some of this write up....How do u feel u can secure an adult that got mind of their own.. we are not kids that could not differentiate between right or wrong...Any man that wants to be promiscuous did that with a sound mind...he has the right to say no to the so called strange woman assuming he wanted to...escort him to the gate?...As in kindergarten school levels..

Some times we hear things like she SNATCHED him away from her....Haba!!! just call men inanimate object now...that would have been cool...only some animal or inanimate objects can be snatched....Not someone that got a mind of his own..

Any man that wants to leave you....If you like cook chicken marsala daily for him, clean..wash till your hands got pilled.....Call him honey,sweetie, sugar etc...If he want's to go, no matter how secured u feel you have done on him, he will and some will roll with some one you are better than in all ramification ...I feel so sad seeing ladies fighting over a man...if he puts you in a difficult position, why not confront him instead of the other woman..........You ladies should stop treating guys as if we are fifth graders...we are Adults


Thank you! You've said it all!

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Nobody: 8:25pm On Feb 24, 2017
Keep deceiving yourself...

Some men just like STEALING get cheating implanted inside their D.N.A,so except you fit carry surgery...YOUR NAME NA SORRY

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by oluwayimika123: 8:25pm On Feb 24, 2017
Nice 1 op

Buh Op even if a woman does 10ce of Dis 4 dier husband, It still doesn't stop him 4rm cheating


The only feasible way is 2 go Traditional. Like ẹ̀fọ́ riro things and if him catch u na ur own cup of tea b d@
OYO is ur case

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Pavore9: 8:25pm On Feb 24, 2017
How can an adult be secured? Anyone who chooses to be promiscuous should be held responsibility for the path taken.

A man is not an infant, he knows the difference between right and wrong; he is responsible for the rewards and consequences of his decisions and actions.

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by dingbang(m): 8:25pm On Feb 24, 2017
Simple thing... Know what he really wants and give to him na wahala to these dumb ladies...
Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by LAFO: 8:25pm On Feb 24, 2017
Thanks OP,



Nice tips.









This doesn't guarantee absolute faithfulness though.


But the woman has got to do her own part too.


Nice one

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by ekems2017(f): 8:26pm On Feb 24, 2017
What ever you do, a cheating husband will always cheat

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by rattlesnake(m): 8:27pm On Feb 24, 2017
No one can trap the wind

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by Nofuckgiven: 8:27pm On Feb 24, 2017
A man who can be kept from cheating is a man who doesn't want to cheat! Be careful because women are also learning fast!! tongue

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Re: Ways To Secure Your Husband From Strange Women by ejikeme(m): 8:28pm On Feb 24, 2017
Harbosede02:
Is it not men??















They will still cheat!angry


no. please don't put all in that category. thT you may have been hurt does not mean every guy out there is out for such. and man is a rational creature. what will be for him will be. unless mother nature decides
yours will come.
work on your temper

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