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Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by saphhire: 4:57pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
1. Be secure The key to accepting your partner’s success is by being secure in what you do. Have faith in your work, your contribution to your work and in your talent. Being secure will require you to accept who you are and what you are. It will mean accepting your capabilities, abilities and being happy with who you are. Not too difficult a feat for a man’s man we think! 2. Be happy for her Seriously, why wouldn’t you be happy and proud of your partner’s success? In fact you must celebrate her success and appreciate her efforts and hard work. Wouldn’t you expect the same from her? 3. Channel the jealousy You are going to be jealous of your partner. You need to accept this negative emotion and channel it in the right direction. Face it, communicate this feeling with your partner without diminishing her success and ensure that something good comes out of it. 4. Involve yourself The chances of a rift are higher if you distance yourself from your partner and don’t participate in her success. Therefore, get involved. Be an active listener and participant in her success, her journey, her work. This will help bring you’ll closer together and strengthen your relationship. 5. Get inspired You can analyse your partner’s success and learn from it. Get inspired and try and incorporate her success mantras in your daily routine and work regimen. For all you know, success will knock on your door sooner than you imagined. To be honest, you shouldn’t have to learn to ‘deal’ with your partner’s success. You need get past your ego and embrace her success and celebrate it just like she would yours. SOURCE: thatbluebook.com.ng MORE LOVE AND SEX POSTS: http://www.thatbluebook.com.ng/love-sex |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by naijaboiy: 5:02pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
Okay. So what do we do when she tries to laud it over us because she's more successful. I'm more interested in that part. 1 Like |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by Nobody: 5:14pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
Acceptance should lead the way. You can't change or deal with something you don't accept. |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by Nobody: 5:16pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
naijaboiy:If talking to her doesn't help, its safe to walk away, but that should be done in a way that won't stain one's reputation. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by Akposb(m): 5:22pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
Fine advice. lastly be her biggest cheerleader. |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by Nobody: 5:41pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
Op abeg tell them O, very simple task Number 2 ::: some guys just can't handle it . |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by naijaboiy: 6:21pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
LadyAngelica:Do people easily walk away from marriages? |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by Nobody: 6:39pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
naijaboiy:it is an obvious character easily detected in courtship or dating. A divorced person is better than a walking dead, what's the use of living with someone without peace ? |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by naijaboiy: 6:53pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
LadyAngelica:You haven't answered my question miss. |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by Backinfront(m): 6:59pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
naijaboiy:You are never more interested in anything that is about you taking correction. Why would she want to laud her success over you in the first place. Does it not have anything to do with maybe your laziness and insecurity ? 1 Like |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by naijaboiy: 7:19pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
Backinfront:What is he saying? |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by Backinfront(m): 7:24pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
naijaboiy:Where is your brain? 1 Like |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by naijaboiy: 7:26pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
Backinfront:Lol...nigga swerve! |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by Backinfront(m): 7:33pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
naijaboiy: You should take your own words. Thread isn't for you. Go work on your esteem and then come back for better understanding. 2 Likes |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by naijaboiy: 7:39pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
Backinfront:When you're done "cümming" on my mentions you'll swerve. We get old to do certain shït these days bro. |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by greaterlove001: 8:11pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
FINALLY, DO NOT SHOW TOO MUCH INTEREST IN HER MONEY OR TRY TO BE IN CONTROL OF HER MONEY. |
Re: Men, This Is How You Deal With A More Succesful Partner by Nobody: 9:10pm On Feb 25, 2017 |
naijaboiy:Denial |
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