Hello every body,please help.
One thing i noticed is that just like me, he saves and invest like crazy but he does it more than me to a point i feel he is stingy, when i call him stingykoko, he will say he is not, that he is saving for the future, that when we gets married he will be giving me allowance and all that... i am like cool, but loving and giving starts now.
Another thing , the way he talks can be very off, very localized stuffs like ha, i an marry you or na me go marry you last last.
Most times i feign bad network and end the call, before i vomit . My major ish is the way he talks, not even stinginess, I have my own money. HE is well educated, , his mum is a doctor, parents are chiefs, so he is well educated, his siblings are not like this but his speech is so warrish, i feel like i would die. In all of this, he is a good man, GOD fearing and he has plans. He has saved money for his kids to be able to Harvard , remaining small, he will open trust fund for grand kids. I know bout his income, finances and business.
The problem now is he has been there for long, what if i have been chasing him away and he is actually the one meant for me like my cousin jokingly said. What if he is?
Am i being picky? He said he wants to get married this year.Its his resolution to do introduction and stuff this year. Been thinking of going with him, but forever No.
My current boo is young, loves me, says he will be ready finance wise this year and half but...I am scared , i'm in a dilemma.
I am not a bad person , just someone who has her heart shattered and is trying to be careful, please help, how do i pick?

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