As you may already know sex is not just a physical act but also a spiritual one and it binds two people together, but for some reasons some do not enjoy that full impact and excitement that comes with the act, We’re always hearing that we could be having better sex, a better orgasm, or a better relationship. But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist based in San Francisco, to help us out with the details. below are some valid points to help us achieve great sex and enjoy the act more.

#Make Small Changes To The Act

If there’s one thing I want you to take away from this entire article, it’s that small changes can produce big results! So many people think that “spicing things up” means doing something as intense as donning full-body bondage gear or participating in an orgy. Not the case! Here are a few super small, simple ideas that can be a lot of fun:

Have sex at a different time of day than you usually do.

Get down in a new room or on a new surface, like on the stairs, in your kitchen, or on top of the washing machine.

Use pillows beneath your butt to create new angles in your favorite sex positions.

Try having sex for different lengths of time, like going for quickies or spending an entire afternoon being intimate.

#Play With Your Senses

One great way to brainstorm changes to make is by thinking about your five senses. Sight is one of the senses that offers the most possibilities. Try making eye contact while you’re being intimate. Or try having sex with the lights on, with the lights off, or with candlelight only. You can also watch porn before having sex or during the deed.

To play with your hearing, listen to music, or try talking dirty to each other. For your sense of smell, light a nice musky candle to set the mood. Invite your tastebuds to the party by really paying attention to what different parts of your partner’s body taste like, or by spending time kissing each other slowly and deeply.

To engage your sense of touch, try teasing each other with unique textures, like silk ties, fuzzy scarves, or soft feathers. Or try caressing your partner’s body in two different ways, and asking them to pick their favorite. You can also try cutting off your senses, like using a blindfold or trying not to touch each other with your hands....Read More Here >>> https://lovefactory.com.ng/2017/02/5-ways-to-make-sex-more-fun-and-interesting-in-your-relationship-long-term/

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