Let's say you've been dating someone a while and you're discussing the prospect of having s3x for the first time together. You're naturally feeling pretty excited to take things to the next level, and the two of you are talking about how it will go down. So far, so good!

However, that's when things take an unexpected turn. She pauses, and then brings up an unusual complicating detail: she's never actually done this before. No, not just with you: she's never had s3x with anyone, period. Yup — she's a virg1n.

How do you proceed? What are the rules here? How do you make her feel as comfortable as possible, and make sure her first experience goes well?

Well, don't freak out, because this article has you covered. Read on for the top eight things to consider before sleeping with a virgin:
1. Society Has A Lot Of Strange Ideas About Virginity

The idea of "virginity" is treated in a variety of different ways in society and through the mainstream media, from an embarrassment to be gotten rid of at all costs to the ultimate state of purity and innocence.

In general, these contrasting conceptions of virginity divide down gender lines: men who are virgins are more likely to be thought of as deserving of sympathy for their "embarrassing" predicament, whereas female virgins are more likely to be considered the ultimate ideal in purity and innocence. Assuming that the virgin you're thinking of sleeping with is female, it's worth considering the whole host of societal pressure she is likely facing about the concept of her virginity, and what losing it means.

It's also worth factoring in the idea that it's the ultimate goal for men to "take" a woman's virginity. It's a pretty creepy way of looking at things, and it would be a good idea for you to reassure her that that's not your mindset.


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