Hire a harlot, but love my wife

" Goodevenin sir pls am bothered about something, am n a relationship and am tryn nt to be stupid as n sleep wit him buh he told me he cant do without sex, as i write dis he s got himself another lady dat wil satisfy him sexually and he actually told me wen he did dat,and funny enof he stil claims dat he loves me, i dnt knw wat to do your timely advise is needed am confused"

MY RESPONSE
There are a new breed of men who boldly tell you that they are sex addicts. They tell you upfront that they cannot do without sex. I have taken time to study these breed of men:

1. They once picked up an innocent habit of masturbation, after some encounters with pornography.
2. The rise and rise of pornography meant the rise and rise of masturbation and soon, all they see in a woman are series of holes to pass through and series of soft inflated zones to be massaged.
3. Their grove is between their legs and they have made a clear distinction between having sex and falling in love. For them, sex is integrated inside love and they can't love you without having sex with you.

As these young men become youth leaders in churches, they clearly tell you that the grace of God understands why this aspect of their lives is acceptable and a pre-condition for marriage. And when you take a good look at them, you would say, they are honest, caring, kind, but they are sex addicts !!!

These loving caring sex addicts now boldly tell you that they can "hire a harlot" for their needs while they donate their love to you.
Listen to me as I raise a stern warning to all who read this post:

1. The sex addict who hires a harlot while in love with you, will also hire your house-girl when you are unavailable at home.
2. The sex addict who can't do without sex today, will also not do without sex whenever he travels outside the country, or when you traveled for a one month short course.

I am worried about these new breed of men, especially when they hide under nice positions in churches, offices and educational institutions.

I am not just a critic. I am a solution provider and I give a challenge to any young man out there who is addicted to sex and honestly seeks to be free. If you can chat me up privately, I promise to mentor you over the next few months through a detailed program that will break this addiction.

Ladies, if your guy is an addict and he truly seeks to change, ask him to chat me privately.

Sadly, there will be no sex addict if some other lady out there is not "servicing" your fiancé. Ladies, stop crying wolf about your guy when you are "serving" another guy.

Hear me, if 70% of the ladies in this forum, read this post and determine to be celibate, these new breed of men will have no "serving" options. They will go extinct, and we will raise our godly men again.

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"Heavenly father, a generation guided by lust and immorality will die in a wilderness of greed and family decay. No civilization has risen above its moral family creed. I pour out my heart in intercession for the new generation of young men, who put breast before values, like you saved me, save them; like you sent me help, send me as help, like you raise me, raise more voices that will provide practical solutions, and rather than seek shortcuts in dark room corners burning with lust, never satisfied between two legs of greed, rather than this hell.....rather than this pleasure of a moment, .... grant us the sweet aroma of true love that places values before pleasure, and God before mammon, and let a new generation of young me, who will uphold grace and truth be birth in Jesus name...."

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