I’ve been dating this guy for the past 5 weeks and although we are not officially in a relationship things have moved fairly quickly between us.


I had been a dancer/stripper for the past 2 years and when I had met him I had actually left the industry and hadn’t been back for a couple of months. I am working on setting up a new business that is launching next month but I had a couple of financial issues and have been working 2 nights a week just to keep me going until my business is up and running.



He has no idea about this and I didn’t tell him when we first met that I used to dance and I just feel terrible! He so far is the most amazing guy I’ve ever met and I feel like I am really betraying him and feel so guilty for lying.



A guy I dated previously ended things with me when I told him I was a dancer so I feel there is no way I could ever tell him as I am scared of losing him but at the same time I also feel like a fraud and like he doesn’t really even know who I am.


He is a very traditional guy who comes from a good family (as do I) and I just couldn’t see him being ok with it. I’m only planning to dance for the next month or so until I have money coming in from my business then ill never go back but am I wrong for not being 100% honest with him?


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Bea just keep it low ...you must not tell all ya dirty secrets to him .even if he loves you .he is gonna use it to haunt you later ...take this advice..new relationship new Guy ,new you ..old things are passed away and should be forgotten ..just focus on ya new relationship and be the best you can be ...besides that was then and this is now.

Don't tell him and your stripper days will come back to haunt you. Let him judge you in your truth.

Tell him,if he is fated for u he wil understand and forgive u.

Ashawo crew pls stay off this thread.

i will tell him

it's better you tell him the truth now, trust me you don't want him to find out from another source cos shit will surely hit the fan.

If loves you he will help you stop it.


Note: you can't hide the truth from him for long.

eventually the truth will come out and he will know. why not just tell him now so that he will decide whether or not to go ahead with you.

hun... I love 'em strippers
where can I watch you stripping ma'am?

Do wht ever will make u happy nd be @peace with yr hearth

Your boyfriend deserves to know the truth. Tell him NOW. It's gossamer but it's either he retains you or he leaves. It's hard but you have to tell him.

He will find out later and dump your ass....then you will open another thread and say men are wicked..if you tell him now and he leaves,is it not better?.....

marlvis:
Bea just keep it low ...you must not tell all ya dirty secrets to him .even if he loves you .he is gonna use it to haunt you later ...take this advice..new relationship new Guy ,new you ..old things are passed away and should be forgotten ..just focus on ya new relationship and be the best you can be ...besides that was then and this is now.

Smh, Is this an advice??

Don't tell him. Save up the money u av in mind. A stripper is even better than those girls that go out there to do runs codedly and fucvk all sorts because of money and their bf will still marry them.
After a month like u said, leave the stripper thing and focus on your new biz.

If perchance someone brings up the issue to your man.. He will feel bad but at the end he will forgive u.. After u sincerely apologize and make him realise why u went into it the first place. There's no free lunch anywhere babe! And everyone knows that.

If he's matured in thinking and knows u ain't cheating on him. He will eventually forgive u. When one is inlove it's not that easy to break away like that. He will feel hurt no doubt but he will still come back.
But for now? Don't say a word. Shhhhhhh!

Maychang:
I’ve been dating this guy for the past 5 weeks and although we are not officially in a relationship things have moved fairly quickly between us.


I had been a dancer/stripper for the past 2 years and when I had met him I had actually left the industry and hadn’t been back for a couple of months. I am working on setting up a new business that is launching next month but I had a couple of financial issues and have been working 2 nights a week just to keep me going until my business is up and running.



He has no idea about this and I didn’t tell him when we first met that I used to dance and I just feel terrible! He so far is the most amazing guy I’ve ever met and I feel like I am really betraying him and feel so guilty for lying.



A guy I dated previously ended things with me when I told him I was a dancer so I feel there is no way I could ever tell him as I am scared of losing him but at the same time I also feel like a fraud and like he doesn’t really even know who I am.


He is a very traditional guy who comes from a good family (as do I) and I just couldn’t see him being ok with it. I’m only planning to dance for the next month or so until I have money coming in from my business then ill never go back but am I wrong for not being 100% honest with him?


Source- dearcupid.org

Tell him d truth,if he truelly loves u,he nva leave u.

He just might have a thing for strippers. Tell him, you never could tell e fit love you more

If he asked or intrested to know then you tell him,there's no point lying in a relationship..

But if he is not intrested in know my dear keep it to yourself simple

marlvis:
Bea just keep it low ...you must not tell all ya dirty secrets to him .even if he loves you .he is gonna use it to haunt you later ...take this advice..new relationship new Guy ,new you ..old things are passed away and should be forgotten ..just focus on ya new relationship and be the best you can be ...besides that was then and this is now.

Women are passing through a lot.
Either way she looses.

AvsGot007:
hun... I love 'em strippers

where can I watch you stripping ma'am?

Dis is wat happen when u bought phone for underage kid,u people don't know how to talk

undefeateds:

Dis is wat happen when u bought phone for underage kid,u people don't know how to talk

oh my bad! I made that post long time ago... I mean I'm now a changed and grown man! I'm sorry once again brother

Safiaa:
Don't tell him and your stripper days will come back to haunt you. Let him judge you in your truth.

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