expensive2:
evening guys..pls help me
tosynetomuch,op,lalasticlala,seun
help me out please

naijaboiy:
Nothing is happening, it's perfectly normal. If you guys just got back from a break up then you shouldn't expect a speedy recovery to love fast.

It also depends on why you guys broke up. Did he hurt you badly and you have not really forgiven him? If that's the case then you may have to let go of the past so you can enjoy the future and present with him.

Asides that you should understand that it's perfectly normal and it's the collective effort from you both that will bring back that spark again if you really want it to work out. Talk to him about it and see if he feels the same way.

If you two can't work it out I'll suggest you end as friends or something casual. Maybe the relationship is not meant to be.

mazizitonene:
op should help u ?....sorry, have u taken ur drugs yet ?

expensive2:
most u say something insultive. if u can't help y not shut ur trap,m okay here

expensive2:
. tanx for this piece....i don't really want the relationship to be over .. deep down I love him.but wat sparks d feeling is missing..tanx a lot

expensive2:
evening guys..pls help me out. have been thinking of posting all this while i thought I could help myself but it not turning out well for me.i have been dating this guy for three years now ,tho we broke up in between but we decided to come back again........ it was not as if i was forced but i gladly reconcile with him...but i noticed that the feelings and passion is not der...tho i love him but d emotions are not der like before. i really love him and I wish we could get married but d feeling,passion,emotions is missing in me like i said earlier... pls help a sister out,wats really happening to me.
tosynetomuch,op,lalasticlala,seen
help me out please

naijaboiy:

You have to start doing the things you both were doing that you both liked. Those things that bring fond memories. Also try out other fun things that you'll both like.

Things like this will create the spark once again, slowly but gradually. But like I said tell him how you feel first so you can know how to go about it. If he also wants the relationship he'll be open and willing to bring back that spark again.

expensive2:
. tanx for this piece....i don't really want the relationship to be over .. deep down I love him.but wat sparks d feeling is missing..tanx a lot

dollyjoy:
you have probably seen someone better, someone you feel would treat you better than the way he is currently doing. Lol.

expensive2:
evening guys..pls help me out. have been thinking of posting all this while i thought I could help myself but it not turning out well for me.i have been dating this guy for three years now ,tho we broke up in between but we decided to come back again........ it was not as if i was forced but i gladly reconcile with him...but i noticed that the feelings and passion is not der...tho i love him but d emotions are not der like before. i really love him and I wish we could get married but d feeling,passion,emotions is missing in me like i said earlier... pls help a sister out,wats really happening to me.
tosynetomuch,op,lalasticlala,seun
help me out please

mofeoluwadassah:
dat means u dont love him...u dont av any feelings 4 him nd u're saying u love him.does it sound wel 2 u ehn!

Jman06:
Do u have feelings for your brothers? Don't you love them?

@poster, i think what you have for the guy might be the real love which lacks in many relationships. It is different from mere bodily attraction so many call love.

My advice, don't be too fast to quit. Give yourself time. Make sure you don't have another guy you are 'dying' for who may not even know you exist, because that might just be the reason for the way you are feeling. To help increase your feelings for him, work on your mind. Stop fantasizing about those guys who ain't worth it. See the guy as your one and only prince charming and you'll be fine.

FreeSpirited:
If you can put 'op' up there to help you out.......It means your love is as confused as your sef....Back to the question....U guys should Start fvcking very well again...Make him increase the dose and frequency of how he fvcks you.....good and great sex has a way of bringing emotional connection/bonding........

expensive2:
tanx for the advice.... i wish this can be easily done.. we are both always busy with work.....we just try to see probably at weekend

expensive2:
evening guys..pls help me out. have been thinking of posting all this while i thought I could help myself but it not turning out well for me.i have been dating this guy for three years now ,tho we broke up in between but we decided to come back again........ it was not as if i was forced but i gladly reconcile with him...but i noticed that the feelings and passion is not der...tho i love him but d emotions are not der like before. i really love him and I wish we could get married but d feeling,passion,emotions is missing in me like i said earlier... pls help a sister out,wats really happening to me.
tosynetomuch,op,lalasticlala,seun
help me out please

expensive2:
this is really nice of you... tanx xo much...i will do wat u said..m sure it will work out well

expensive2:
. tanx for this piece....i don't really want the relationship to be over .. deep down I love him.but wat sparks d feeling is missing..tanx a lot