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Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by jamesbridget13(f): 11:39pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
skypeme:I like dat op tell them. Prophet of doom every where Back to issue. Have a heart to heart talk with ur wife n let her know she did wrong, very wrong. I can never try such. The money u are giving to her is over enough for her for crying out loud. She just has to apologize. If she is adamant, let her be. Her conscience will do d work |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by MisterKings(m): 11:57pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
You obviously did not marry a virtuous woman. This one can pack her load and go the day u turn broke. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Shygirl1989(f): 12:51am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Zoharariel:Say hi to your mum,sister and female relations |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Sierusvirus(m): 12:53am On Mar 25, 2017 |
She is not to be trust. Reduce the money you do give to her and monitor her movement, u might be disappointed by trusting she ain't cheating on you. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by naturefellow(m): 12:55am On Mar 25, 2017 |
skypeme:Gbi gba. Life of students |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Freestainworld(m): 1:25am On Mar 25, 2017 |
my dear friend, normally most wives likes to behave like that, I will say it is a women thing. just thread carefully. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Presh555(m): 1:26am On Mar 25, 2017 |
skypeme:She is very ungrateful. Some person's SALARY is not up to that amount. I would suggest you sit her down and talk calmly to find out what is her reasons for acting the way she did. Does she want the family to succeed or she wants to pull it down? I would also suggest you make her work for her money, like getting a job for her even if it's part-time, that way she will truly value whatever you give to her. And lastly if all of the above didn't work, pray for her and then involve someone she fears and respect to talk to her. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by tomdon(m): 4:24am On Mar 25, 2017 |
skypeme: So 22k for your family is what is giving you so much emotions?? You're worse than your wife go and read your bible able man providing for family |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by lonelydora: 4:52am On Mar 25, 2017 |
NoToPile: It's called 13th month. Lol |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Rilwan20(m): 6:32am On Mar 25, 2017 |
dragonking3:That's where you get it wrong, Muslims don't pay tithe and even if they'd pay any form of alms or offering, it's strictly on the payer volition not being compel or induce using scriptural quotes. By the way they should choose T.B Joshua path at least in fund collection. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by pressplay411(m): 6:47am On Mar 25, 2017 |
sasko: Our mothers did the same thing. It's not necessarily trust issues. It's called Womanhood. Her rudeness though, terrible defense mechanism. Instead of the sanction matrix sir, kindly issue her query first, explaining under 48 hours her gross indiscipline and act of insubordination and why disciplinary measures shouldn't be taken against her. 1 Like |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by ugooo88(m): 6:50am On Mar 25, 2017 |
kimbra: I'm surprised most of you are comfortable with dishonesty. it's normal to inflate bills? your husband/wife o. I thought marriage is a we we something. if you need more ask nicely,....please? and say why you do need more. just talking things honestly will save many marriages. I'm not sure how I'll take my PARTNER cheating me out of stuff kimbra: I'm surprised most of you are comfortable with dishonesty. it's normal to inflate bills? your husband/wife o. I thought marriage is a we we something. if you need more ask nicely,....please? and say why you do need more. just talking things honestly will save many marriages. I'm not sure how I'll take my PARTNER cheating me out of stuff |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by derato: 7:24am On Mar 25, 2017 |
skypeme:why did u even bring dis issue to Nairaland,so u expect to get positive response abi,don't just pray n sort out ur marital issues urself,continue bringing dem here.,instead of sitting ur wife down to ask questions u bought matters of d heart to Nairaland.continue |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by toye440: 7:34am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Chai one chance oooooo eao eao eao, tor there's God. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by natureboy2(m): 7:51am On Mar 25, 2017 |
lilmax: Because she is greedy, selfish, self-centred, disrespectful, lacks wisdom, not supportive, confused, etc.. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by realvenc: 8:04am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Don't ever say this bro... Unless of course you no longer believe in your marriage which from your earlier posts I think you still do. What your wife did is not good but do not turn it into an act of war or show of strength by denying her of any support as it is your responsibility. You have the arsenal, physical and financial strenght plus intelligence to win so nothing to prove or gain. For a solution in an issue like this, call your wife and talk to her as you would to your paddy wey fall your hand. Let her know what she did was wrong and not in your principle.......Don't scold her as you would a kid. She is your partner not your subordinate. In marriage it is all in your hands to either scatter or mend. Gain respect or lose it as things unfold because humans are never perfect. skypeme: |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by sucobaba(m): 8:09am On Mar 25, 2017 |
NoToPile: 13th month bonus lol |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by realvenc: 8:23am On Mar 25, 2017 |
He claimed he called the hospital to complain about the bill and not because of distrust for the wife... That, I believe is normal.. gbishman: |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Nobody: 8:37am On Mar 25, 2017 |
skypeme:What that dude said is reality. Forget Jesus name thing here. If she didn't apologize till now it's a sign she is arrogant and arrogant people do arrogant things. If you are not playful then this is time to pray ceaselessly for Jesus to change her. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by realvenc: 8:48am On Mar 25, 2017 |
The submission in your last paragraph was deduced from just this single incident or you know this couple before now. Na wa aribisala0: |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Atk1nson(m): 9:52am On Mar 25, 2017 |
Praktikals:Not yet, why? |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by aribisala0(m): 9:57am On Mar 25, 2017 |
realvenc:Are you literate at all or you just choose to open your mouth and start spitting in the air forr no reason. What couple? I suspect the story is a fiction and that is what I said .If you don't like it look for something hard like a mortar and knock your head against it till you see coconut water then drink some |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by realvenc: 10:23am On Mar 25, 2017 |
In your third paragraph you made a clear submission based on the write up. Which is what I asked you how you came about it. And instead of a logical explanation you fly into an insulting rage like a hot headed kid. Does not matter what you claim you suspect... Even your first and second paragraphs all made direct criticism of the OP for his IJN...If not backed by action... Which I felt was a good point. aribisala0: |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by aribisala0(m): 10:37am On Mar 25, 2017 |
realvenc:You are illiterate. What I suspect was the conclusion of my post. It is my opinion and you don't have to like it . I did not invite your reaction. If you do not like it go and lie in the middle of the road . Go and play with your coevals and stop forming intellectual. You are empty |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Narldon: 11:26am On Mar 25, 2017 |
My only problem is the 17.2% where did you get the point two? |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Jman06(m): 12:15pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Billyonaire:Only a few people, i mean a very few can afford to buy private jets. Nigerians need to be encouraged to live within their means,otherwise corruption will continue to thrive. Private jets and other such luxuries are for certain class of people who have utilized their talents to make wealth for themselves. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Sampunk(m): 1:03pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
skypeme:Oga you too lik abreviating words..... Nawao... |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by pally123: 1:24pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Believe me, she's not your wife bro. No wife will do that. Don't be surprised she's sending some money to someone else |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by Nobody: 1:31pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Jman06:Allow him to make the decision to be poor or to be complacent in nothing. If you choose to be complacent with so little, then dont discourage others who are pushed by my draconian motivations, it works for me, it can work others. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by jabojafa(m): 1:50pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
kimbra:am in support of payin ur wife whether is working or not but a wife dt can infiates hospital bill to d tune of #11200 den every oda tins in life life are all infiated period. For her own pikin again she dey put price, abeg dt is corruption. I wonder if u wud b happy ur driver u sent on an errand infiated d prices of d items u sent him. Honestly matters in marriage no mata how small d moni is. |
Re: 17.2% Of My Monthly Salary Goes To My Wife & Yet... by jabojafa(m): 1:51pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
skypeme:op hope say u dey pay tithe oooh if not devourers will continue to devour ur finances. |
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