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Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
Guy na you carry yourself enter wahala Because of parental blessing and tribe you go marry wahala My cousin's husband didnt get any parental blessing because she was not from their tribe. Rhe guy went ahead and married her. Now 7years later they are happily married, blessed with some lovely kids and now his parents are the ones calling her 'our daughter' |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Ishilove: 8:49pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
Plankton2017:What were those attributes that made you love her enough to marry her? Bro forget all these white wedding nonsense. You're already a married man in the eyes of God and man. Stopping the church wedding will not make her stop being your wife 1 Like |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Ishilove: 8:51pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
HolySteph:He should study his wife well? Didn't he study her before marrying? Anyway love is blind but na inside marriage eye dey clear. |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Titilayooni(f): 8:57pm On Mar 30, 2017 |
The most important career choice is who you marry....that decision makes or mar your destiny... A broken engagement or a hell marriage? Choose |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by SURElee(f): 1:45am On Apr 02, 2017 |
hopeforcharles: Hahahahahahaha. Eeya. So guys go through this? So sorry for this dude. This wife of his wants IG popping wedding, I'm wondering why she hasn't brought up destination wedding ( Dubai, France)since her papa dey sponsor every. Mschewwwww! This dude but you Bleep up, you couldn't convince your folks on just tribal difference between you and your ex, how will he handle this high end wife you already married traditionally?Kai! Am laughing but my heart aches knowing the emotional distress you're in right now. 1 Like |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by SURElee(f): 1:47am On Apr 02, 2017 |
BUTCHCASSIDY: Real wahala o! - |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Juliearth(f): 4:35am On Apr 02, 2017 |
Plankton2017: If you can put up with the nagging and shenanigans,then go ahead with the wedding,else,run for your life. |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by mrsfavour(f): 12:24pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
SQLmastar:well said because he is entering into hell, better to break up now, its not the right woman to spend the rest of ur life with. 1 Like |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Ngokafor(f): 12:35pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
....Op sorry but she is clearly way off your league..You had better look for your ex,beg and marry her if you know whats good for you.. ...but i can smell your type from miles away..You wanted to upgrade yourself and not mingle with 'hungry' ladies who will 'disturb' you for recharge card abi??. Ndo is your name now. 2 Likes |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Ngokafor(f): 12:45pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
automatix: ...Point of correction..He allowed the girl's tribe and WEALTH to cloud his eyes ....He had a caring,understanding girlfriend but threw it away on the alter of tribe and selfish interest...Now he is being burned,he is crying. ..The op was simply myopic with his spousal decisions..period. 1 Like |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by joycesims(f): 12:45pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Between you and her, there was/is dishonesty somewhere now see Well, except you get as rich or richer than her father, you may forever be at loggerheads! Even if you decide to end it, she may have a brain reset and calm down! But still, Happiness is key! You may never be happy in this Pray you make the right decision for both of you! |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by bigcp(m): 1:22pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
My guy I'm gonna advice u like a brother...if u continue woth this so called marriage...you'll die b4 ur time and she'll probably cheat on u with high class dudes.. (that's if she ain't doing it already)..she has no respect 4u...she's a spoilt Bratt...With all these complains abt our girls...i ain't sure if I'm gonna get married at all...cos i like my stressless life... my guy cut ur coat according 2 ur size....this one is oversized coat oo....read d handwriting on d wall....NO MAKE MISTAKE WHEN OTHER DEAD GUYS DON MAKE... u beta let her go.....a million responsible girls r out there that will appreciate ur effort...this one go kill u with nag....like they say 'HELL IS WAY MORE BETTER THAN AN UNHEALTHY MARRIAGE'....a word is enough 4 d wise...GOOD LUCK... 1 Like |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by bigcp(m): 1:26pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Flexherbal: bross i get u...but in this case counseling ain't gonna work..this is who she is....bross u beta opt out b4 d rain of regrets pour on u.... what r u still doing there....I THINK BEING SINGLE AS A MAN IS THE BEST THING THAT CAB EVER HAPPEN 2 ANY BROTHER....most women nawadays no de add anything 2 a hustler life |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by shanicemel(f): 1:38pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Hmm bros, don't ever allow the bride family to sponsor your wedding or else your nightmares will have no end. I am a living example. ASAP. The rest is history now. A man will always be a man, dnt allow any one take that from you. 1 Like |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Missmossy(f): 5:50pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Obviously you didn't go for your level, i see hell on heaven with this picture you created. With how her family feel you can't carry the responsibilities that comes with a white wedding. Nawa oo it is well. |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Alennsar(f): 9:14pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Pleaseeeeeeee put THE WEDDING ON HOLD OR YOU CAN QUIT. SHIKENA.... |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Nobody: 10:55pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
Ngokafor: Hungry ladies make bad wives too why not just decent ladies ? |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Apr 02, 2017 |
shanicemel:I don't get you mean your family's giving your husband tough time or calling shots. Am curious about this |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
Hmmm |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by 234GT(m): 10:55pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
@ Plankton2017 something tells me your babe does not work. Jobless ladies are the hardest to please because they don't know the value of money. You are doing fine. Find a working class lady who will appreciate you. |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Nobody: 11:27pm On Apr 09, 2017 |
eyinjuege:Op, this ^ Take it. Wait and watch. It will either calm her down or make her leave. |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Nobody: 9:50pm On Apr 27, 2017 |
Hmm |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by maclatunji: 12:11am On Apr 28, 2017 |
This wife is not mature. As for those saying: 'this is how daughters of rich men are/should be', abeg, tell us something else. The first time you tell me you miss Lekki is the day I will let you know that Lekki was once a bush and show you swampy waterfront areas to reset your brain. Figurative. |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Nobody: 2:36pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by malaria(f): 3:10pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
Poster your wife is just a spoilt brat , what does she love about you then, if she can't stoop low to your level. Abeg find a woman of your class that will cherish your effort. Else you will be answerable to her family for the rest of your life. The girl is still living in wonderland of her parents. Hope she is earning a living though |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by YesNo(m): 3:58pm On Apr 28, 2017 |
OP. INSTAGRAM BIG GIRL na im you wan marry. someone that can frustrate your whole life just so that she can take a picture and post it on Insta and FB. and.......... there is no where in this story that you mentioned about how you love her or she loves you and you guys really want this marriage. I am going to assume that you will not leave her even if we give you 1000 pages of advice. fasten your seatbelt sir, you are in for a very LONG ride, and her dad is the driver. |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by udysweet(f): 11:23am On Apr 29, 2017 |
Nawa this is looking like a DOA marriage. May God help us all. Why parents still have to impose on their in marriage still baffles me. Yea they want your overall interest but shouldn't be to the detriment of both parties. You guys need to reach a decisive conclusion before it goes out of hand. And your fiancee needs to adjust, it's marriage we're talking Here, it's a together forever affair o, na till death do us things. That's why I say even to myself that marriage is a long time affair to be hooked up with the one who makes life unbearable |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Nobody: 1:47pm On Apr 29, 2017 |
Dude I don't know if you can see this but send me an email if you can...was in a similar situation ...let's talk . I feel you man ...take it easy . |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Nobody: 7:10am On Apr 30, 2017 |
Your wife is too materialistic, forget the fact that she is from a rich family, I know women that married muddle class men and yet they are from rich family, they humbled themselves and they are happy with their husband the way he is She doesn't love you enough, she wants to impress people and that kind of life is very bad. I will advice you to tell her that you don't want the wedding again, that you can't cope with her materialistic nature, and you won't kill yourself trying to make her happy. If she change, go on with the wedding but don't accept any help from her people, you will be insulted later if you do accept it. cc: Plankton2017 1 Like |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by Nobody: 9:12am On Apr 30, 2017 |
my dear,as a woman like her,these attitude you are seeing now will never change, we naturally nag(either to make or mar you),it will continue until you grant her request,she will kip making references,comparing and complaining, why not sit her down and talk to her,she thinks you have the money and doesn't want to spend it.She seems to me like one who doesn't think of the future due to her background, I advised my husband then "my dear,don't spend all your money on a day celebration,after the wedding, we will start begging for food to eat,no one will render help even the so called family and friends you were trying to impress" TALK TO HER,THE RESULT WILL DETERMINE YOU DECISION |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by automatix: 12:56pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
Ngokafor:Ah... Thanks for the correction ma'am |
Re: HELP!!! Should I Break Off My Engagement Or Go On With My Wedding?? by automatix: 12:59pm On Apr 30, 2017 |
eyinjuege:Married ke... I just pray I do not jam this kind of woman ooo. Na that day she go know say... anything that has a beginning has an end. Period. |
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