amacastel:

So to work now is dishonour, I pity ur wife.

ola808:


The fact that I mentioned something that isn't in the article should have told you I probably know something you don't.
The problem with Nigerians is that the media feed you half truths and you grab it like your lives depends on it. That's why you praise your corrupt leaders ,see tribes, sleep on foolish issues like BBN while your economy is dying. The youths are online typing trash and insults instead of rising to become leaders and hold their leaders accountable.

eyinjuege:

The man did admit things became difficult for him, and he had to move to Badagry. What you'll not hear him say is possibly the numerous nights they went to bed hungry, especially the children.The numerous times they were sent home from school for failure to pay school fees. They say she is a mother of 4 children, so the boy in question is not their only child.
The other children are possibly with their mother, and she's looking after them. She also said he left all the financial responsibility to her. Now that she's solely catering for the other 3 children, he would find it easier to look after only one child- the boy in question.

In short, all this I've just typed is to let you know the man wasn't handling the financial aspect of the home properly.
She shouldn't watch her children suffer, and be sent home from school because of failure to pay school fees, and what not. Its only sensible she takes up a job. She's an adult , not disabled/ incapacitated and really has no excuse for not working and going hungry.
Better to work than going around neighbors and family begging for money or asking to borrow money that'll never be paid back.

adorablepepple:

Because my opinion doesn't match your programmed thought makes it shameful ehn Anyway I won't argue with you, you can pray all you want,if you like fast and ask God to send a Mike Tyson husband my way , lol. This brain you have is for reasoning, use it

Culin:


Just like you're using yours. A pity.

Apina:

Seems You are delusional. What has our leaders, BBN which I don't watch and tribe got to do with a domestic issue? Instaed u went on to assume that I should have known that you had inside info. If you have contrary information which u feel is superior in truth to what has been said, y didn't u independently without having to mention me bring forth such information so as to correct any misconception that might arise from it? Chairman! Is that how u used to do?

Apina:

Seems You are delusional. What has our leaders, BBN which I don't watch and tribe got to do with a domestic issue? Instaed u went on to assume that I should have known that you had inside info. If you have contrary information which u feel is superior in truth to what has been said, y didn't u independently without having to mention me bring forth such information so as to correct any misconception that might arise from it? Chairman! Is that how u used to do?

ola808:


I was about to submit a response when I decided to just check your previous comments in the forum. And from what have seen so far, you are not worth the time.

victorjoe:



The head of the family stated that he does not want you to work. Even of na garri we de drink, don't work.

The best she should have done is to cajole him to agree before she started work.

Some people ehn! Imagine you telling your wife bit to do something and she goes ahead.

samtol4:
Why is the head doesn't want her to work ? Telling your wife to do something and she refused u became angry but when he advise you or tell you something u rejected it outrightly ! Why because you are the head ?bro marriage is sweet when both parties are CO pilot that is friends ,not BOSS and maid

victorjoe:



This is why we all need to attend marriage counseling before we venture into marriage.

Yes they are Co pilots. But on this particular matter he said no! And he has his reasons. Whatever they are it's not your business. It's his house. If she knows her husband well she will look for the right time to present the issue again with reasons. Not to go and do against his will.

All these modern day ideologies weak me.

So are you saying that God was wrong when he told wife's to honour and obey their husbands?

The Bible cannot be wrong abeg.