I'm a female in her mid twenties.
I want to settle down but I can't seem to find someone who meets all my requirements.
But I don't want to settle for anything less.
My friends say I am asking for too much.
Here is my list.
1. He must have God.

But that's not the major dilemma.
These are:
I want to do these with my husband.
1. Rent his first flat with him.
2. Open his first mortgage account with him.
3. Build his first house with him.
4. Have his first child with him.
5. Buy his first car with him.
6. Start his first marriage with him.
... Just these
Am I asking for too much?

So if a guy already has a car and a house, he's automatically disqualified from being your husband?





















Please, permit me to call you a confused woman.

Na babe.....the requirements are fair enough. One question though what of if hes already built himself a house

No

Alero3Arubi:
I'm a female in her mid twenties.
I want to settle down but I can't seem to find someone who meets all my requirements.
But I don't want to settle for anything less.
My friends say I am asking for too much.
Here is my list.
1. He must have God.

But that's not the major dilemma.
These are:
I want to do these with my husband.
1. Rent his first flat with him.
2. Open his first mortgage account with him.
3. Build his first house with him.
4. Have his first child with him.
5. Buy his first car with him.
6. Start his first marriage with him.
... Just these
Am I asking for too much?

Yes you are, your conditions are unachievable for men who have already settled down and established roots.

I see you are not like the Slay Queen roaming the street looking for Already made man.
You want to struggle with your man.
Not to worry he will come your way soon
And NO you are not asking for too much.
God bless you and bless your heart real good

Exactly the question on my mind. Lol

K9Uneet:
So if a guy already has a car and a house, he's automatically disqualified from being your husband?





















Please, permit me to call you a confused woman.

Alero, Itshekiri babe, i think i like u already. Text me , 08139012462 or pm me. Am Delta igbo though

Alero3Arubi:
I'm a female in her mid twenties.
I want to settle down but I can't seem to find someone who meets all my requirements.
But I don't want to settle for anything less.
My friends say I am asking for too much.
Here is my list.
1. He must have God.

This is totally understandable

But that's not the major dilemma.
These are:
I want to do these with my husband.
1. Rent his first flat with him.

If he has a house of his own he's out of your league

2. Open his first mortgage account with him.

What if he doesn't believe in accounts like these

3. Build his first house with him.

What's wrong with building a second house?

4. Have his first child with him.

This is ideal but sometimes it doesn't work out, doesn't mean you can't have a good marriage with a man who already has a child

5. Buy his first car with him.

Out of the window if he already has a car or cars

6. Start his first marriage with him.

This is also ideal but there's no law saying a 30 year old widower with two kids can't make a good husband

... Just these
Am I asking for too much?

Just clarifying why some of your points are too extreme.

aiir2303:
Na babe.....the requirements are fair enough. One question though what of if hes already built himself a house

Am not sure I want To marry someone who already built a house.

JacksonD7:


Just clarifying why some of your points are too extreme.

In other words I'm asking for too much.

JacksonD7:


Yes you are, your conditions are unachievable for men who have already settled down and established roots.

Why settle down to establish roots and then marry?
What are you marrying me for again kwa?
To become a trophy?

K9Uneet:
So if a guy already has a car and a house, he's automatically disqualified from being your husband?






















Please, permit me to call you a confused woman.

If I was confused I don't think I will have a list.
I quite have my mind in its proper order.
I think your statement is rude though.
It may not be your ideology but its mine, the least you can do is respect it and ask questions not insult me.
Happy palm Sunday.

Alero3Arubi:


If I was confused I don't think I will have a list.
I quite have my mind in its proper order.
I think your statement is rude though.
It may not be your ideology but its mine, the least you can do is respect it and ask questions not insult me.
Happy palm Sunday.

No, my statement wasn't rude. I sought your permission before calling you confused. That's courtesy, lady.

Alero3Arubi:


Why settle down to establish roots and then marry?
What are you marrying me for again kwa?
To become a trophy?

Your line of thinking is a very wonderfully strange and weird one. May God help you shaa, although I don't believe you're serious.

I dunno...but its not important to be the first all the time...what more important in this world, you are the last ONE he will have in his life..

K9Uneet:






No, my statement wasn't rude. I sought your permission before calling you confused. That's courtesy, lady.

You courtesy to insult?
Na wa ooo
A lot has indeed decayed in our morals.
It's all good.
Bye.

QueenSuccubus:




I dunno...but its not important to be the first all the time...what more important in this world, you are the last he will have in his life..

Hmmmm
But what if....
Thanks though.

Alero3Arubi:

You courtesy to insult? Na wa ooo A lot has indeed decayed in our morals. It's all good. Bye.

Bye to you, too.









And goodluck in your strange search.

K9Uneet:





Your line of thinking is a very wonderfully strange and weird one. May God help you shaa, although I don't believe you're serious.

I am.
I want to know what I am in a Man's life.
I don't fancy wondering everyday what exactly I'm doing in our matrimonial home.

K9Uneet:




Bye to you, too.










And goodluck in your strange search.

Don't tell me good luck.
He lost the last election.

Alero3Arubi:


Don't tell me good luck.
He lost the last election.

Pick whatever luck you want, then. Your luck doesn't necessarily have to be good now, does it?

Why didn't you include "I want to be the first to fυck his dick"??

Alero3Arubi:


I am.
I want to know what I am in a Man's life.
I don't fancy wondering everyday what exactly I'm doing in our matrimonial home.

If you're indeed serious, then I'd advise you accept the love proposal from the next "houseless" and "carless" man you come across.

Babe.....I don't have a house,car or child......am I qualified?? :

ILoveToFuCcK:
Why didn't you include "I want to be the first to fυck his dick"??

Ur wicked fa!!!!

QueenSuccubus:




I dunno...but its not important to be the first all the time...what more important in this world, you are the last he will have in his life..

WORD!!!

luminouz:

WORD!!!

@Alero3Arubi

Strange and I love your ideology. While I think these requirements can be achieved, you may not be able to have patient at the end due to time factor or so. Think of that dear.

Your quest is fair enough tho, that's if you are being honest with your search.

Reasonable.. However its almost impossible for just ONE reason... Every guy wants to be a MAN before getting married... So, most of us want to achieve those things on our own.... If say that car and flat no dey the list, ehen, I for probably say maybe, just maybe you fit find.... But what business does a guy who can't rent a flat have with marriage anyway?


Shorten the list to God, first House, first marriage, first Mortgage (if you're outside naija o) and first Child, and suddenly there'll be a host of qualified dudes