SSpeter:
I am talking about a lady of 25 and above. I might be wrong, but sincerely I have not seen a 25 year old lady who would say she is single! Unless online. Seriously when people talk about "Single ladies" do they mean ladies who are not in a relationship at all or those in a relationship path that is void of marriage? (I am just thinking out loud). Every lady in this world has got someone somewhere rendering either emotional, physical or financial support!!! I might be naive in the art of relationship but I have never met any single grown up lady. "Single" in all context!...seemingly every grown up lady has a boyfriend...perhaps the single lady got separated yesterday...just thinking...perhaps I don't understand the female version of being single...can someone elucidate on this subject...

Gluthatione:

You are very wrong man, there are millions of single ladies out there, I mean those who are not in any form of relationship and not yet married.

Acidosis:


There are no mature single ladies anywhere in world.

Look at the keywords according to the OP: emotional support, financial support and physical (sexual) support.

A lot claim that they're single. Of course, that's what any mature lady will say especially when they're not married or engaged to a serious single man.

But directly or indirectly, that single lady has someone giving her at least one or more of the supports other engaged ladies get. Some are in frequent emotional communication with at least 2 exes yet they claim to be single.

This is why many guys enter into relationship only to discover the number of issues they have to deal with. When a girl tells you she's single and you decide to enter into a relationship with her, just prepare your mind to deal with a lot of issues that bothers on the kind of communication she has with men. Its even worse these days when you can easily flirt with anyone online regardless of the distance.

Some have like 10 'suitors', go out with at least a new guy every weekend, talk to at least 20 'suitors' per day, and yet CLAIM to be SINGLE. These are stuffs married people don't even get to enjoy, yet you do it every other day under the canopy of "single-hood". Its even craz.y when people that maintain frequent s..ex use that single line.

There are no entirely mature single ladies anywhere in the world. If you doubt me, let the so called single ladies come forward to argue my points.

shaybebaby:

I actually do know who is single in every sense of the word. She is too busy parenting a young child of preschool age to have time for such. Ofcourse that may change as her child gets older and starts school but for now, she just doesn't have the time.

UIA04:

It's a pity the world has bastardiZed friendships and relationships and sex is So easy to get at the bart of an eyelid

nenergy:

Really? Then why ain't I getting any? Sex is not easy for demisexuals like myself. Its hard!!!!

UIA04:
Wonderful

So you are saying that if a lady has a male platonic freind whom she ccan leean on in times of emotional, financial or even ssspiritual distress she is Not single I don't agree op

It's a pity the world has bastardiZed friendships and relationships and sex is So easy to get at the bart of an eyelid


Now I understand what my ex was saying when I asked him why he liked me and thought himself lucky to have have me one of the things he said' “B***A you don't have problem at all ”
At 22 He was the first guy I let into my life as confidant and later boyfriend

bukatyne:


The bolded is what the OP is talking about....

A woman who has men who give emotional, financial or sexua.al support is not 'single'... She is enjoying what a lady in a relationship enjoys and claims she's single? That's eating her cake and having it right there.

It is like a woman co-habiting claiming that she is not 'married'. She might not be legally married however, she is a wife to the man.

UIA04:



You know it already your kiNd are rare so I wasn't referring to your type

Gluthatione:

You are very wrong man, there are millions of single ladies out there, I mean those who are not in any form of relationship and not yet married.

UIA04:
Wonderful

So you are saying that if a lady has a male platonic freind whom she ccan leean on in times of emotional, financial or even ssspiritual distress she is Not single I don't agree op

It's a pity the world has bastardiZed friendships and relationships and sex is So easy to get at the bart of an eyelid


Now I understand what my ex was saying when I asked him why he liked me and thought himself lucky to have have me one of the things he said' “B***A you don't have problem at all ”
At 22 He was the first guy I let into my life as confidant and later boyfriend

jhudit:
I don't know why anyone will want to change the definition of being single!

bukatyne:
@OP:

I think a truly mature single lady is rare.

shaybebaby:

I actually do know who is single in every sense of the word. She is too busy parenting a young child of preschool age to have time for such. Ofcourse that may change as her child gets older and starts school but for now, she just doesn't have the time.

SSpeter:
What is your definition of "Platonic"? there are several ladies in a... NO SEX, NO ROMANCE...relationship will you also classify them as single?

darbeelicous:
yes naw y??

Where ma single ladies at....
All ma single ladies...*in beyonces voice* put your hands up.......
Aderola15
Twaci.....
Jodha baby


But I'm not single sha...

Aderola15:


Ma everyday Nigress! We single ladies dey gallant ooo.


Mesef get Baeby ooo

darbeelicous:
haaah..... We should be asking if single guys exist.....

hehehehe.... Don't mind them, its always the same story..."something happened, we re not together anymore" and me I'll be like.. "this is super stooooryyy"


Just wait, a counter thread z on d way

Aderola15:


Lmaooooooo

Haaaaa, those ones are forever single na even the married ones.

Aderola15:


Lmaooooooo

Haaaaa, those ones are forever single na even the married ones.

SSpeter:
You 're objective and unbiased!!

darbeelicous:
yes naw y??

Where ma single ladies at....
All ma single ladies...*in beyonces voice* put your hands up.......
Aderola15
Twaci.....
Jodha baby


But I'm not single sha...

SSpeter:
I am talking about a lady of 25 and above. I might be wrong, but sincerely I have not seen a 25 year old lady who would say she is single! Unless online. Seriously when people talk about "Single ladies" do they mean ladies who are not in a relationship at all or those in a relationship path that is void of marriage? (I am just thinking out loud). Every lady in this world has got someone somewhere rendering either emotional, physical or financial support!!! I might be naive in the art of relationship but I have never met any single grown up lady. "Single" in all context!...seemingly every grown up lady has a boyfriend...perhaps the single lady got separated yesterday...just thinking...perhaps I don't understand the female version of being single...can someone elucidate on this subject...