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Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by leyemok(m): 6:24pm On Apr 23, 2017
eezeribe:
I am happy that Robert Kiyosaki has inspired you...
I will choose financial intelligence over intelligence quotient,any day,any time.
If you need more of his books(15 in number),Holla at me(free of charge).
Bros , I use God beg u, send me ALL his books! Soft copy preferably ..leyemok@gmail.com
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by spaggyy(m): 6:32pm On Apr 23, 2017
tochi8888:
3 years ago, I graduated from school, studied Computer Science and armed with a good grade, and a promise not to stay unemployed for more than six months, to me this school has just graduated one of it's best students. Oh!  poor school.
It was a sunny Tuesday afternoon, I stood at the gate of the school with my bags in hands and a mixed feelings of fulfilment and worries.

I was fulfilled that at last I was able to make my family proud that after all their efforts and prayers to get me through school-I made it.

The worries came because I know the next line of action was a job search,  going by the crisis of unemployment in the country and thousands of graduates every year in search for anyhow job.... well, I had just bought a high heeled shoe two months before graduation... maybe it's time for it to get to work now and keep my feet from tears.

I searched for job almost immediately(2 weeks after graduation) I was a hotcake, so i had thought.Requirements I got from prospective employers had to do with me having completed my one year compulsory NYSC program.
Oh!! Maybe those people that cried and shouted about been unemployed are either not with a NYSC certificate or not with a good grade(I laughed at them in my mind)

NYSC

My PPA was a school in a very local part of Ogun State, though I am an Igbo person but my fluency in Yoruba and my socializing abilities made it less stressful. Also as the President of my CDS unit it also made me more prepared to secure a job and also help me improve on my team work abilities, with the co-operation of me and some of my friends we were able to execute a small project in the local government spearheaded by me.
A year passed and am through with NYSC yes!!  Let me see who will say there's no job now
My homecoming after NYSC was like I have just won a reality TV show.. maybe BBN... the difference.. NO #25M price money. My friends and well wishers were around to welcome me. I felt like a hero who had just saved a princess from captivity.

One month later I hit the Labour market once again hoping that this time I am getting a good job. I cleaned and ironed my suit, polished my black shoes and a good tie to match. Having prepared for this interview I set out for the company I was in in high spirit.
I was one hour early for the interview, the early morning breeze from the companies 7th floor window was a trap to make me fall asleep or lukewarm probably, well... I did not fall for that.

The interviewer  was busy answering calls as I was busy answering his questions when he asked "Tell me about yourself" I stopped, He signalled for me to continue. Maybe I was not needed in the first place.... at times he would ask a question I had answered earlier. that hurts. So unprofessional of him.
"Thank you we would get back to you"... He said. Well... I have always seen that response to mean "get out of here that post is already filled up"

And after that, I have tried so many banks, companies, consulting firms, small businesses-even if am to be paid as low as #20K. The only offer I got for a #15, 000 was in a fast food restaurant (but at least you are sure of breakfast and lunch-a voice said to me) from then I knew the devil lies within-I need to move closer to God and silence that voice.

Fast forward to about 6 weeks ago I came across a book I once read when I was in school...This book changed my orientation about school then among other things and also working for someone, depending on things to happen so you can move forward instead of happening to things and moving forward.

This book:- Rich Dad,Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki


If you have read this book am sure you'd agree with me that you are far more bigger than unemployment and stagnation in life. You are bigger than recession and global economic meltdown.  You deserve the best because you now know the principles and ideas to be where you want to be in life.
If you will follow the recommendations and steps prescribed in his book.. Kiyoasaki's ideas will spur you to greater heights.

This book serves as a firm reminder that the more you put into your education, especially your financial education, the more financially independent you’ll become.
One of the book’s major thrusts is the fact that too many people get stuck in a rat race. They go to school to find a safe job with lots of benefits and a high ladder to climb, save their money little by little, pay their bills and expenses, and then spend what they have left over, only to repeat the same cycle for the rest of their working lives. But this hamster wheel never allows them to truly get ahead, or really become financially independent.

Robert Kiyosaki argues that there are other ways to become financially independent. Instead of working for money, you can make money work for you. He talks about real estate, the stock market, and high return-on-investment strategies. If you take the time to really learn a little bit about the finance game, it’s much more of a smart strategy than a gamble.
We all know money won’t make you happy, but it can certainly be a facilitator of dreams and opportunities.

So with this in mind I am saying goodbye to job search and unemployment and stagnation and pity and disrespect because joblessness means lack of everything including respect consciously or unconscious people will disrespect you because you are poor and unemployed not because you enjoy your present situation but because the system does nno noot support and encourage the needs of thousands of graduates every year.
Though assistance is needed... thanks

Some more wise words from Rich Dad,Poor Dad


"Unfortunately for many people school is the end, not the beginning.”

“...One dad had a habit of saying, ‘I can’t afford it.’ The other dad forbade those words to be used. He insisted I ask, ‘How can I afford it?’ One is a statement, and the other is a question. One lets you off the hook, and the other forces you to think.”


“A plan is a bridge to your dreams. Your job is to make the plan or bridge real, so that your dreams will become real. If all you do is stand on the side of the bank and dream of the other side, your dreams will forever be just dreams. First make your plans real and then your dreams will come true.”



"In school we learn that mistakes are bad, and we are punished for making them. Yet, if you look at the way humans are designed to learn, we learn by making mistakes. We learn to walk by falling down. If we never fell down, we would never walk."


You’re only poor if you give up. The most important thing is that you did something. Most people only talk and dream of getting rich. You’ve done something.


"Workers work hard enough to not be fired, and owners pay just enough so that workers won't quit."


"They get up every day and go work for money, not taking the time to ask the question, ‘Is there another way?"


There is a difference between being poor and being broke. Broke is temporary. Poor is eternal.


“Take it or leave it.  I’ve got too much work to do to waste my time. If you can’t make up your mind decisively, then you;ll never learn to make money anyway. OPPORTUNITES COME AND GO. Being able to know when to make a quick decisions is an important skill”


“‘Will a job be the best solution to this fear (the fear of not having enough money) over the long run?’ In my opinion, the answer is ‘no’. Especially when you look over a person’s lifetime. A job is really a short-term solution to a long-term problem” 


“Mind your own business. Financial struggle is often directly the result of people working all their life for someone else. Many people will have nothing at the end of their working days”



Unemployment

Op I wish you all the best in life, you have chosen the best path, I graduated 2012, and till date I have never been employed and to the Glory of God, I have never lacked any good thing I desire, I own and run my own business

We can be friends if you do not mind 08067984710 whatsapp me


Adeboye olusegun spaggy is my name

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Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by martyns303(m): 6:42pm On Apr 23, 2017
ismart:
The book is not for people like you. That book was what changed my life and thinking by accident in 2007. I say by accident because i hardly read books that takes the form of foreign novels. My friend brought it to our room and the title caught my attention. I decided to go through it with hope of flinging it after 10 seconds but that never happened until i finished reading it.. Just face your job and leave people who can make use of it.

You will make a fine motivational speaker, "I came by the book by accident", you seem to have mastered a few lines. You don't have to sound smart just for a few likes. Please tell us which of those principles in the book u have used practically to achieve your objectives.

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Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by olamilokozzo: 6:45pm On Apr 23, 2017
[color=#000099][/color][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]wish You all success in all
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by bubbychis(m): 6:47pm On Apr 23, 2017
munex007:

There are three types of people, those who have failed to master society’s formula for success, those who successfully replicated (copied) this formula, and then there are the trend setters, the innovators. These are the people that have taken the formula of the generation, learnt from it and improved on it. 

The old formula was to study hard, get good grades and a degree, get a good job, work hard and earn your promotion to top management. These days, with everyone studying hard and getting good grades, and higher degrees, people have to find a new means to be exceptional. Some are spending decades and countless Naira pursuing post-post-post doctorate degrees. They spend most of their life preparing for life!. 

The workforce has changed too; nepotism, tribalism and other forms of preferential treatments are more prevalent and this makes promotion next to impossible for many people. Companies are also promoting people without the pay to match the name, so you find professionals or Ph.D. holders with fancy job titles struggling to pay basic bills...A lot of companies are owing their employees months salary..The ones being paid have nothing to show after deducing their monthly expenses

The joy of every graduate is to get job within a short period of time after university education, but with this list i don't think there is any joy in graduating from Nigeria Universities, except if you have a job waiting for you, or you graduate from Nigeria Defense Academy(NDA) that have
automatic job.

Wait, let even do a rough calculation of 1000
graduates from each university, that means we will be having at least 116000 graduates from the Nigeria university system alone, apart from Polytechnic graduates and college graduates, and even other Nigeria graduates from different foreign institutions around the world.


Furthermore, with less than 50000 recruitment every year in the labour force, that is not even enough for the 1/3 of university graduates alone. The police force 10000 recruitment, which is the highest recruitment this year received about a million applicant. If police can receive a
million applicant it shows how desperate graduates are.


I think the problem lies in our comatose education system..The system focus on profiting from boring niches, So many people today think that if they want to become a millionaire, then they need to do so by following boring, widely accepted niches. It will take ages for you to become a millionaire through traditional occupations like becoming a lawyer, doctor or banker (in fact, these occupations usually have earnings limits that are very difficult to break through).

Push past these pre-conceived notions of what it takes in order to become a millionaire. You don’t need to spend years in school to be a millionaire.


The Nigerian economy today is in a tailspin. What used to work has simply stopped working. The economic rules have changed but we seem to be playing by the old rules of the game. Crude isn’t our biggest resource as a nation and even if diamond strewn the entire landscape of Nigeria, it still will not be our most valued resource. Our most valuable resource is our mind.


It is time to defy the odds. To refuse to accept the status quo. To think differently and be different. To decipher abundant opportunities even in immense potential in such a great nation as ours. It is about lifelong learning. It is about building formidable network..

Considering the high level of expectancy ratio of we Nigerians especially students. Blue collar jobs are what we all popularly call Entrepreneurship while the white collar jobs are the opposite,obviously the relationship that exist between them categorically is just one being the giver while the other the receiver or taker. The problem I have detected so far is our life style,Lack of motivational forces to propel us to want to leave where we are today to the promise of better tomorrow, No body wanting to starve his/herself today for a better consumption tomorrow,The fear to do something new,procrastination, bluffs ,students going after attraction neglecting the aftermath of Their action to be distraction and finally rejection.E.t.c let us always live to remember that we’all wil get a Fraction of any sort of friction we cause ourselves or others. Start something today no matter how small it is,Save money so that you can save yourself your Tomorrow, Don’t wait for the government to provide jobs and the fundamental human needs cos you are the govt of your destiny

Think deep, think wealth, Stop thinking jobs
Your word just changed my mind set God bless you plenty

Think Entreprenuership

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Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Spidermon: 6:50pm On Apr 23, 2017
The animal that survives is not the strongest but that which can adapt the most.

Look around you and be blunt.

Crime pays.

M joking ooo. Wait first, am I ?
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by OLAFIMIX(f): 6:51pm On Apr 23, 2017
I need pls, I don holla you
eezeribe:
I am happy that Robert Kiyosaki has inspired you...
I will choose financial intelligence over intelligence quotient,any day,any time.
If you need more of his books(15 in number),Holla at me(free of charge).
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Stevenbright(m): 6:55pm On Apr 23, 2017
tochi8888:
3 years ago, I graduated from school, studied Computer Science and armed with a good grade, and a promise not to stay unemployed for more than six months, to me this school has just graduated one of it's best students. Oh!  poor school.
It was a sunny Tuesday afternoon, I stood at the gate of the school with my bags in hands and a mixed feelings of fulfilment and worries.

I was fulfilled that at last I was able to make my family proud that after all their efforts and prayers to get me through school-I made it.

The worries came because I know the next line of action was a job search,  going by the crisis of unemployment in the country and thousands of graduates every year in search for anyhow job.... well, I had just bought a high heeled shoe two months before graduation... maybe it's time for it to get to work now and keep my feet from tears.

I searched for job almost immediately(2 weeks after graduation) I was a hotcake, so i had thought.Requirements I got from prospective employers had to do with me having completed my one year compulsory NYSC program.
Oh!! Maybe those people that cried and shouted about been unemployed are either not with a NYSC certificate or not with a good grade(I laughed at them in my mind)

NYSC

My PPA was a school in a very local part of Ogun State, though I am an Igbo person but my fluency in Yoruba and my socializing abilities made it less stressful. Also as the President of my CDS unit it also made me more prepared to secure a job and also help me improve on my team work abilities, with the co-operation of me and some of my friends we were able to execute a small project in the local government spearheaded by me.
A year passed and am through with NYSC yes!!  Let me see who will say there's no job now
My homecoming after NYSC was like I have just won a reality TV show.. maybe BBN... the difference.. NO #25M price money. My friends and well wishers were around to welcome me. I felt like a hero who had just saved a princess from captivity.

One month later I hit the Labour market once again hoping that this time I am getting a good job. I cleaned and ironed my suit, polished my black shoes and a good tie to match. Having prepared for this interview I set out for the company I was in in high spirit.
I was one hour early for the interview, the early morning breeze from the companies 7th floor window was a trap to make me fall asleep or lukewarm probably, well... I did not fall for that.

The interviewer  was busy answering calls as I was busy answering his questions when he asked "Tell me about yourself" I stopped, He signalled for me to continue. Maybe I was not needed in the first place.... at times he would ask a question I had answered earlier. that hurts. So unprofessional of him.
"Thank you we would get back to you"... He said. Well... I have always seen that response to mean "get out of here that post is already filled up"

And after that, I have tried so many banks, companies, consulting firms, small businesses-even if am to be paid as low as #20K. The only offer I got for a #15, 000 was in a fast food restaurant (but at least you are sure of breakfast and lunch-a voice said to me) from then I knew the devil lies within-I need to move closer to God and silence that voice.

Fast forward to about 6 weeks ago I came across a book I once read when I was in school...This book changed my orientation about school then among other things and also working for someone, depending on things to happen so you can move forward instead of happening to things and moving forward.

This book:- Rich Dad,Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki


If you have read this book am sure you'd agree with me that you are far more bigger than unemployment and stagnation in life. You are bigger than recession and global economic meltdown.  You deserve the best because you now know the principles and ideas to be where you want to be in life.
If you will follow the recommendations and steps prescribed in his book.. Kiyoasaki's ideas will spur you to greater heights.

This book serves as a firm reminder that the more you put into your education, especially your financial education, the more financially independent you’ll become.
One of the book’s major thrusts is the fact that too many people get stuck in a rat race. They go to school to find a safe job with lots of benefits and a high ladder to climb, save their money little by little, pay their bills and expenses, and then spend what they have left over, only to repeat the same cycle for the rest of their working lives. But this hamster wheel never allows them to truly get ahead, or really become financially independent.

Robert Kiyosaki argues that there are other ways to become financially independent. Instead of working for money, you can make money work for you. He talks about real estate, the stock market, and high return-on-investment strategies. If you take the time to really learn a little bit about the finance game, it’s much more of a smart strategy than a gamble.
We all know money won’t make you happy, but it can certainly be a facilitator of dreams and opportunities.

So with this in mind I am saying goodbye to job search and unemployment and stagnation and pity and disrespect because joblessness means lack of everything including respect consciously or unconscious people will disrespect you because you are poor and unemployed not because you enjoy your present situation but because the system does not support and encourage the needs of thousands of graduates every year.
Though assistance is needed... thanks

Some more wise words from Rich Dad,Poor Dad


"Unfortunately for many people school is the end, not the beginning.”

“...One dad had a habit of saying, ‘I can’t afford it.’ The other dad forbade those words to be used. He insisted I ask, ‘How can I afford it?’ One is a statement, and the other is a question. One lets you off the hook, and the other forces you to think.”


“A plan is a bridge to your dreams. Your job is to make the plan or bridge real, so that your dreams will become real. If all you do is stand on the side of the bank and dream of the other side, your dreams will forever be just dreams. First make your plans real and then your dreams will come true.”



"In school we learn that mistakes are bad, and we are punished for making them. Yet, if you look at the way humans are designed to learn, we learn by making mistakes. We learn to walk by falling down. If we never fell down, we would never walk."


You’re only poor if you give up. The most important thing is that you did something. Most people only talk and dream of getting rich. You’ve done something.


"Workers work hard enough to not be fired, and owners pay just enough so that workers won't quit."


"They get up every day and go work for money, not taking the time to ask the question, ‘Is there another way?"


There is a difference between being poor and being broke. Broke is temporary. Poor is eternal.


“Take it or leave it.  I’ve got too much work to do to waste my time. If you can’t make up your mind decisively, then you;ll never learn to make money anyway. OPPORTUNITES COME AND GO. Being able to know when to make a quick decisions is an important skill”


“‘Will a job be the best solution to this fear (the fear of not having enough money) over the long run?’ In my opinion, the answer is ‘no’. Especially when you look over a person’s lifetime. A job is really a short-term solution to a long-term problem” 


“Mind your own business. Financial struggle is often directly the result of people working all their life for someone else. Many people will have nothing at the end of their working days”



Unemployment
The next book you need to also read is "The Success Principles: How to Get from Where you are to Where you Want to Be" by Jack Canfield. After that you can go get and devour Napoleon Hill books. As for Napoleon Hill books, I can give them to you for free in eBook format. Just let me know if you need them.

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Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by gotousa2013: 6:55pm On Apr 23, 2017
eezeribe:
I am happy that Robert Kiyosaki has inspired you...
I will choose financial intelligence over intelligence quotient,any day,any time.
If you need more of his books(15 in number),Holla at me(free of charge).

Please I need his books. Can you please email it to oluwafemiade@yahoo.com

Thanks in anticipation
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by bigiyaro(m): 6:58pm On Apr 23, 2017
redcliff:
With a post this long just to tell us why you are going to startup a business and no more look for a job maybee the reason why employers never take you serious... you talk too much
u r a typical African black man. if reading wuld have made u rich, u will be extremely poor, long post indeed.

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Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Jabioro: 7:00pm On Apr 23, 2017
I loved your decision,you be like me, a rough rider, a street learner and a died hard fellow, who has refused No as an answer to my quest for Financial independent.. apart from rich daddy, try to read the the The Mafia manager.. you will thank me later
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Nobody: 7:15pm On Apr 23, 2017
H2Ossss:
Good luck... But not every1 is meant for business... That is a point not everybody understands... Some people are entrepreneurs while some are meant to be professionals.
I agree with you. Just to add to that, I personally believe that professionals would stand out with their career paths; for example if all the op has is a computer science bachelor's degree, that would appear too generic to employers. Then prospective employers would not be as impressed as they would have been if he had some other more specific qualification under the Information Technology world like JAVA Script writer Certification (I just made that up by the way).
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Preciousseed(m): 7:21pm On Apr 23, 2017
Quinn22:
And if you don't have money to open your own business nko? What next?
My dear, most times you don't need money to start a business. The first thing is to build a customer base, by creating awareness. When served in 2013, I sold mtn data. Will you believe that I never bought the data to resell? I just informed my friends that I sell data. when they place order, I will buy from my supply then send to the buyer. I make a margin of #300 for every 1gig bought. I didn't spend a dine. all I need do is for my WhatsApp to be active.

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Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Mann11: 7:27pm On Apr 23, 2017
eezeribe:
I am happy that Robert Kiyosaki has inspired you...
I will choose financial intelligence over intelligence quotient,any day,any time.
If you need more of his books(15 in number),Holla at me(free of charge).
Oga na beg I take beg you I need am. Give me @ habsquare11@gmail.com. Thanks
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by InfinixMine: 7:29pm On Apr 23, 2017
Stevenbright:

The next book you need to also read is "The Success Principles: How to Get from Where you are to Where you Want to Be" by Jack Canfield. After that you can go get and devour Napoleon Hill books. As for Napoleon Hill books, I can give them to you for free in eBook format. Just let me know if you need them.

pls kindly forward those books to me... seun_bolaji@yahoo.com

thanks
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by jist2day: 7:31pm On Apr 23, 2017
mrsirdam:

I agree with you. Just to add to that, I personally believe that professionals would stand out with their career paths; for example if all the op has is a computer science bachelor's degree, that would appear too generic to employers. Then prospective employers would not be as impressed as they would have been if he had some other more specific qualification under the Information Technology world like JAVA Script writer Certification (I just made that up by the way).
My dear, keep on working hard to please employers,that is how it will be till you retire or you kpeme.
Face the bull and take it by the horn or get crushed.We live in perilious times,this is not the time for self pity.
How many years will you spend acquring certificates upon certificates to plrase one lauzy miserable employer.
I thank so for the endless opportunity in the network marketing industry

Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Mann11: 7:36pm On Apr 23, 2017
kuchikau1:
sex is womens greatest weapon against men. Do u no dat if a gal decide to kill a man, it already done. My brother, every i see guy doing all sort of tin just to gain a gals love, they follow tis gals like sheep witout a shephered, making dis gals feel like queen elizabeth. See hw undaage gals no longer have respect for adults,simply because dey are ben beged and chase by idiot who call demselves guys/men. I came to hate gals wen i knew about d chemistry of their menstral process and hw dey have enslaved men. Imagine a guy tinks hw to bed a gal just merely looking at her and these gals has taking adventage of this to manupulate men, kill great men, destroy d future of young guys.
please enlighten me more on how they kill great men and how they destroy the future of young guys. Knowledge is power. Thanks in anticipation.
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by kuchikau1: 7:47pm On Apr 23, 2017
Mann11:
please enlighten me more on how they kill great men and how they destroy the future of young guys. Knowledge is power. Thanks in anticipation.
am writing a book on dat.
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Bakason247(m): 7:48pm On Apr 23, 2017
eezeribe:
I am happy that Robert Kiyosaki has inspired you...
I will choose financial intelligence over intelligence quotient,any day,any time.
If you need more of his books(15 in number),Holla at me(free of charge).

Kindly send soft copies of these books to my mail: diamondcrestintegrated@gmail.com or climaxvetagric@gmail.com
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by RealityShot: 7:50pm On Apr 23, 2017
Stevenbright:

The next book you need to also read is "The Success Principles: How to Get from Where you are to Where you Want to Be" by Jack Canfield. After that you can go get and devour Napoleon Hill books. As for Napoleon Hill books, I can give them to you for free in eBook format. Just let me know if you need them.
STOP READING SUCCESS EBOOKS!

go to Agriculture and Business sections of this forum and read about
WORKING BUSINESSES IN NIGERIA

how to start and rudiments are discussed daily

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Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by redcliff: 7:50pm On Apr 23, 2017
bigiyaro:
u r a typical African black man. if reading wuld have made u rich, u will be extremely poor, long post indeed.

You must be a foolish hediot.... what do you know about being poor or rich? Peasant
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Horleey: 8:13pm On Apr 23, 2017
tochi8888:
3 years ago, I graduated from school, studied Computer Science and armed with a good grade, and a promise not to stay unemployed for more than six months, to me this school has just graduated one of it's best students. Oh!  poor school.
It was a sunny Tuesday afternoon, I stood at the gate of the school with my bags in hands and a mixed feelings of fulfilment and worries.

I was fulfilled that at last I was able to make my family proud that after all their efforts and prayers to get me through school-I made it.

The worries came because I know the next line of action was a job search,  going by the crisis of unemployment in the country and thousands of graduates every year in search for anyhow job.... well, I had just bought a high heeled shoe two months before graduation... maybe it's time for it to get to work now and keep my feet from tears.

I searched for job almost immediately(2 weeks after graduation) I was a hotcake, so i had thought.Requirements I got from prospective employers had to do with me having completed my one year compulsory NYSC program.
Oh!! Maybe those people that cried and shouted about been unemployed are either not with a NYSC certificate or not with a good grade(I laughed at them in my mind)

NYSC

My PPA was a school in a very local part of Ogun State, though I am an Igbo person but my fluency in Yoruba and my socializing abilities made it less stressful. Also as the President of my CDS unit it also made me more prepared to secure a job and also help me improve on my team work abilities, with the co-operation of me and some of my friends we were able to execute a small project in the local government spearheaded by me.
A year passed and am through with NYSC yes!!  Let me see who will say there's no job now
My homecoming after NYSC was like I have just won a reality TV show.. maybe BBN... the difference.. NO #25M price money. My friends and well wishers were around to welcome me. I felt like a hero who had just saved a princess from captivity.

One month later I hit the Labour market once again hoping that this time I am getting a good job. I cleaned and ironed my suit, polished my black shoes and a good tie to match. Having prepared for this interview I set out for the company I was in in high spirit.
I was one hour early for the interview, the early morning breeze from the companies 7th floor window was a trap to make me fall asleep or lukewarm probably, well... I did not fall for that.

The interviewer  was busy answering calls as I was busy answering his questions when he asked "Tell me about yourself" I stopped, He signalled for me to continue. Maybe I was not needed in the first place.... at times he would ask a question I had answered earlier. that hurts. So unprofessional of him.
"Thank you we would get back to you"... He said. Well... I have always seen that response to mean "get out of here that post is already filled up"

And after that, I have tried so many banks, companies, consulting firms, small businesses-even if am to be paid as low as #20K. The only offer I got for a #15, 000 was in a fast food restaurant (but at least you are sure of breakfast and lunch-a voice said to me) from then I knew the devil lies within-I need to move closer to God and silence that voice.

Fast forward to about 6 weeks ago I came across a book I once read when I was in school...This book changed my orientation about school then among other things and also working for someone, depending on things to happen so you can move forward instead of happening to things and moving forward.

This book:- Rich Dad,Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki


If you have read this book am sure you'd agree with me that you are far more bigger than unemployment and stagnation in life. You are bigger than recession and global economic meltdown.  You deserve the best because you now know the principles and ideas to be where you want to be in life.
If you will follow the recommendations and steps prescribed in his book.. Kiyoasaki's ideas will spur you to greater heights.

This book serves as a firm reminder that the more you put into your education, especially your financial education, the more financially independent you’ll become.
One of the book’s major thrusts is the fact that too many people get stuck in a rat race. They go to school to find a safe job with lots of benefits and a high ladder to climb, save their money little by little, pay their bills and expenses, and then spend what they have left over, only to repeat the same cycle for the rest of their working lives. But this hamster wheel never allows them to truly get ahead, or really become financially independent.

Robert Kiyosaki argues that there are other ways to become financially independent. Instead of working for money, you can make money work for you. He talks about real estate, the stock market, and high return-on-investment strategies. If you take the time to really learn a little bit about the finance game, it’s much more of a smart strategy than a gamble.
We all know money won’t make you happy, but it can certainly be a facilitator of dreams and opportunities.

So with this in mind I am saying goodbye to job search and unemployment and stagnation and pity and disrespect because joblessness means lack of everything including respect consciously or unconscious people will disrespect you because you are poor and unemployed not because you enjoy your present situation but because the system does not support and encourage the needs of thousands of graduates every year.
Though assistance is needed... thanks

Some more wise words from Rich Dad,Poor Dad


"Unfortunately for many people school is the end, not the beginning.”

“...One dad had a habit of saying, ‘I can’t afford it.’ The other dad forbade those words to be used. He insisted I ask, ‘How can I afford it?’ One is a statement, and the other is a question. One lets you off the hook, and the other forces you to think.”


“A plan is a bridge to your dreams. Your job is to make the plan or bridge real, so that your dreams will become real. If all you do is stand on the side of the bank and dream of the other side, your dreams will forever be just dreams. First make your plans real and then your dreams will come true.”



"In school we learn that mistakes are bad, and we are punished for making them. Yet, if you look at the way humans are designed to learn, we learn by making mistakes. We learn to walk by falling down. If we never fell down, we would never walk."


You’re only poor if you give up. The most important thing is that you did something. Most people only talk and dream of getting rich. You’ve done something.


"Workers work hard enough to not be fired, and owners pay just enough so that workers won't quit."


"They get up every day and go work for money, not taking the time to ask the question, ‘Is there another way?"


There is a difference between being poor and being broke. Broke is temporary. Poor is eternal.


“Take it or leave it.  I’ve got too much work to do to waste my time. If you can’t make up your mind decisively, then you;ll never learn to make money anyway. OPPORTUNITES COME AND GO. Being able to know when to make a quick decisions is an important skill”


“‘Will a job be the best solution to this fear (the fear of not having enough money) over the long run?’ In my opinion, the answer is ‘no’. Especially when you look over a person’s lifetime. A job is really a short-term solution to a long-term problem” 


“Mind your own business. Financial struggle is often directly the result of people working all their life for someone else. Many people will have nothing at the end of their working days”



Unemployment


Now, can u tell us d story of how u started ur company!!!

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Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by munezo(m): 8:14pm On Apr 23, 2017
So what exactly do you do? Which business have you set up?

tochi8888:
3 years ago, I graduated from school, studied Computer Science and armed with a good grade, and a promise not to stay unemployed for more than six months, to me this school has just graduated one of it's best students. Oh!  poor school.
It was a sunny Tuesday afternoon, I stood at the gate of the school with my bags in hands and a mixed feelings of fulfilment and worries.

I was fulfilled that at last I was able to make my family proud that after all their efforts and prayers to get me through school-I made it.

The worries came because I know the next line of action was a job search,  going by the crisis of unemployment in the country and thousands of graduates every year in search for anyhow job.... well, I had just bought a high heeled shoe two months before graduation... maybe it's time for it to get to work now and keep my feet from tears.

I searched for job almost immediately(2 weeks after graduation) I was a hotcake, so i had thought.Requirements I got from prospective employers had to do with me having completed my one year compulsory NYSC program.
Oh!! Maybe those people that cried and shouted about been unemployed are either not with a NYSC certificate or not with a good grade(I laughed at them in my mind)

NYSC

My PPA was a school in a very local part of Ogun State, though I am an Igbo person but my fluency in Yoruba and my socializing abilities made it less stressful. Also as the President of my CDS unit it also made me more prepared to secure a job and also help me improve on my team work abilities, with the co-operation of me and some of my friends we were able to execute a small project in the local government spearheaded by me.
A year passed and am through with NYSC yes!!  Let me see who will say there's no job now
My homecoming after NYSC was like I have just won a reality TV show.. maybe BBN... the difference.. NO #25M price money. My friends and well wishers were around to welcome me. I felt like a hero who had just saved a princess from captivity.

One month later I hit the Labour market once again hoping that this time I am getting a good job. I cleaned and ironed my suit, polished my black shoes and a good tie to match. Having prepared for this interview I set out for the company I was in in high spirit.
I was one hour early for the interview, the early morning breeze from the companies 7th floor window was a trap to make me fall asleep or lukewarm probably, well... I did not fall for that.

The interviewer  was busy answering calls as I was busy answering his questions when he asked "Tell me about yourself" I stopped, He signalled for me to continue. Maybe I was not needed in the first place.... at times he would ask a question I had answered earlier. that hurts. So unprofessional of him.
"Thank you we would get back to you"... He said. Well... I have always seen that response to mean "get out of here that post is already filled up"

And after that, I have tried so many banks, companies, consulting firms, small businesses-even if am to be paid as low as #20K. The only offer I got for a #15, 000 was in a fast food restaurant (but at least you are sure of breakfast and lunch-a voice said to me) from then I knew the devil lies within-I need to move closer to God and silence that voice.

Fast forward to about 6 weeks ago I came across a book I once read when I was in school...This book changed my orientation about school then among other things and also working for someone, depending on things to happen so you can move forward instead of happening to things and moving forward.

This book:- Rich Dad,Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki


If you have read this book am sure you'd agree with me that you are far more bigger than unemployment and stagnation in life. You are bigger than recession and global economic meltdown.  You deserve the best because you now know the principles and ideas to be where you want to be in life.
If you will follow the recommendations and steps prescribed in his book.. Kiyoasaki's ideas will spur you to greater heights.

This book serves as a firm reminder that the more you put into your education, especially your financial education, the more financially independent you’ll become.
One of the book’s major thrusts is the fact that too many people get stuck in a rat race. They go to school to find a safe job with lots of benefits and a high ladder to climb, save their money little by little, pay their bills and expenses, and then spend what they have left over, only to repeat the same cycle for the rest of their working lives. But this hamster wheel never allows them to truly get ahead, or really become financially independent.

Robert Kiyosaki argues that there are other ways to become financially independent. Instead of working for money, you can make money work for you. He talks about real estate, the stock market, and high return-on-investment strategies. If you take the time to really learn a little bit about the finance game, it’s much more of a smart strategy than a gamble.
We all know money won’t make you happy, but it can certainly be a facilitator of dreams and opportunities.

So with this in mind I am saying goodbye to job search and unemployment and stagnation and pity and disrespect because joblessness means lack of everything including respect consciously or unconscious people will disrespect you because you are poor and unemployed not because you enjoy your present situation but because the system does not support and encourage the needs of thousands of graduates every year.
Though assistance is needed... thanks

Some more wise words from Rich Dad,Poor Dad


"Unfortunately for many people school is the end, not the beginning.”

“...One dad had a habit of saying, ‘I can’t afford it.’ The other dad forbade those words to be used. He insisted I ask, ‘How can I afford it?’ One is a statement, and the other is a question. One lets you off the hook, and the other forces you to think.”


“A plan is a bridge to your dreams. Your job is to make the plan or bridge real, so that your dreams will become real. If all you do is stand on the side of the bank and dream of the other side, your dreams will forever be just dreams. First make your plans real and then your dreams will come true.”



"In school we learn that mistakes are bad, and we are punished for making them. Yet, if you look at the way humans are designed to learn, we learn by making mistakes. We learn to walk by falling down. If we never fell down, we would never walk."


You’re only poor if you give up. The most important thing is that you did something. Most people only talk and dream of getting rich. You’ve done something.


"Workers work hard enough to not be fired, and owners pay just enough so that workers won't quit."


"They get up every day and go work for money, not taking the time to ask the question, ‘Is there another way?"


There is a difference between being poor and being broke. Broke is temporary. Poor is eternal.


“Take it or leave it.  I’ve got too much work to do to waste my time. If you can’t make up your mind decisively, then you;ll never learn to make money anyway. OPPORTUNITES COME AND GO. Being able to know when to make a quick decisions is an important skill”


“‘Will a job be the best solution to this fear (the fear of not having enough money) over the long run?’ In my opinion, the answer is ‘no’. Especially when you look over a person’s lifetime. A job is really a short-term solution to a long-term problem” 


“Mind your own business. Financial struggle is often directly the result of people working all their life for someone else. Many people will have nothing at the end of their working days”



Unemployment
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Nobody: 8:15pm On Apr 23, 2017
EgunMogaji:
I'm tired of telling Nigerian youths to stop looking for nonexisting jobs and instead find a publics need, propose a solution and create a niche.

But that is the real question. Do any of these entrepreneur evangelists actually have a plan beyond thrashing paid employment?

Do they have any skill or idea that can be commodified?

Or is their plan just the usual open a shop or kiosk and sell Chinese knockoffs?

Most biz ideas require capital. We don't do venture capitalism here, and even if we did, how many people actually have well fleshed out ideas?

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Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Generalsamm(m): 8:23pm On Apr 23, 2017
ismart:
I am almost done selling a product i bought for 35k, 25 pcs and making me 180k in return. Next is to buy 50 pcs and rinse again. I was hinted last night that someone wants 76pcs of the said product and if all goes well, I would be 300k richer when the deal is sealed and delivered. When you tell people they think you are talking nonsense.
Pls enlighten me sir. I promise to be loyal...show me the way!***winks***
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Kelvin1019: 8:25pm On Apr 23, 2017
Good inspiration 4d youth
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Generalsamm(m): 8:27pm On Apr 23, 2017
eezeribe:
I am happy that Robert Kiyosaki has inspired you...
I will choose financial intelligence over intelligence quotient,any day,any time.
If you need more of his books(15 in number),Holla at me(free of charge).
Big boss abeg, help me send am, pls, my gmail is generalasam@gmail.com
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Kaysalas(m): 8:27pm On Apr 23, 2017
eezeribe:
I am happy that Robert Kiyosaki has inspired you...
I will choose financial intelligence over intelligence quotient,any day,any time.
If you need more of his books(15 in number),Holla at me(free of charge).
hey brov I need his books
Kaysalas at yahoo don come

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Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Generalsamm(m): 8:34pm On Apr 23, 2017
Quinn22:
And if you don't have money to open your own business nko? What next?
**laughing in spanish"**
but I think that's why its meant for tough people, see, there has never been money, even if someone dash u one million naira today and a business idea of 200k comes in, there will still not be money because that's when excuses will come,"what is the probability of me getting the money back sef" "what if the business crashes" AND off you go, to BLOW it out as usual, but I can give you testimonies of people who even borrowed just to start a business and today, their creditor back then is their employee today, that's what makes the difference, ma
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by mangala14(m): 8:38pm On Apr 23, 2017
eezeribe:
I am happy that Robert Kiyosaki has inspired you...
I will choose financial intelligence over intelligence quotient,any day,any time.
If you need more of his books(15 in number),Holla at me(free of charge).
ayokade@yahoo.com. Thanks bro
Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Generalsamm(m): 8:45pm On Apr 23, 2017
RealityShot:
PLEASE OP..

DONT FORGET TO READ THE OTHER BOOK
from Robert Kiyosaki...

its called: BEFORE you QUIT your JOB.


understand this:
You need capital to start even shoe cobbler business.

so you should look for capital first.
thats why you must work first at any where no matter how small the pay..

as long as you can save something..

(the other option is to beg for capital
or render services that require Zero capital)
OP, capital is good o but u can keep looking for capital from now till the next seven years, to what this young man posted up here, add determination and focus...that's what will clear your way to where your gold is.
it u are determined and focus, capital will always come to u because u live your life in a way that attracts capital to u.

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Re: Employed Vs Self-Employed: I'm Giving Up On Job Search, Starting My Own Business by Student125(m): 8:51pm On Apr 23, 2017
After submitting few applications and no invites, and also considering the number of graduate released every year, I concluded within me that the way forward is being self employed.
I asked myself, what can I do.. on reflection I realized I use to love drawing which triggered my decision to go to art class in the begging of SS1 but I considered science cuz I know I can still express my drawing skill there.
I also remembered my interest in computer, phone especially configurations for free browsing pushed me to apply for computer science but was given an option to study agriculture which I accepted cuz I dnt wanna waste that admission year.
I tried graduating well few point below first class and hoping to get job. no job is coming, my little savings from services is going down, I can't continue to demand for cash to maintain my self and as the first born with jnr once, I gat to take some responsibilities.
Then I started playing with coreldraw, after a while I started looking for tutorials both online(YouTube) and offline with lots of practices. I started getting little job from friends who later introduced me to people cuz of how satisfied they are with my attempt.
Today I am proud to call myself a graphics designer. I always look out to satisfy my customers.
In all, I am happy I started then but still have a regret, I didn't start earlier. Wish myself luck.

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