We state talking 2013,met in 2014 and started dating,we were both in d same university. The love was strong dat we couldn't do without each other,even our friends envy us..both trouble started wen we were to go for youth service,he was posted to Lagos,I was posted to warri..he stopped having my time..nd even while we were in skul,whenever he goes home,we always fyts dat he won't even talk to me for weeks..I tot it was just his anger problem... Later after service I got to know he was a stepson in d family wu was being treated someow,I confronted him with what cldnt he tell me abt it,but he took a fite nd accused me of passing my boundary...since 2016,October he has dumped me..Dats d words he used... I have begged nd cried ..but he is still adamant... I have already zeroed my mind on him..I still chat wit him even though it is insult upon curses..I am 26+...I love him,BT my major problem is where do I start from..am not d outdoor type...nd all my mates are almost married..am depressed...please advice me

Trust me you don't want to cry your way into a mans heart, there's nothing worst than pity love... He's gone. look for love elsewhere..

Things fall into place when we least expect them to. So don't worry yourself.

But why did you go digging into his life. He has completely lost interest in you, so move on dear.

My dear u jst hv to move on, it is nt a most we settle down with some1 we hv spend years with.

Na relationship no be marriage

FORGET HIM, HES GONE. HE DOESNT DESERVE U. IF ONLY U CAN LOOK 4WRD. AM HERE DEAR

Love is foolish sometimes

Honestly, I ache for you Girl, leave him alone. Let him work out his own issues. If you mean something to him,
he'll come around. If not, it's not the end of the world either, you'll survive with or without him. Right now imo,
you're being a nuisance to him. Fall back & let him miss you or whatever. Another thing, don't bother yourself about what you think you should achieve at your age. Everything comes with time. You can't force divine timing, just like you can't force someone to care about you if they don't. Go on with your life. Being an indoor person doesn't mean fate has no plans for you. People have met through the phone, etc. You still go out, don't you? Perhaps you'll meet a nice, caring & respectful guy while running an errand. Your life is not tied to this one guy just because you spent some time with him. Bleep him! Excuse my French. But all I'm saying is, maybe things are as they should be, for now. Whatever will be, will be.

I know its hard but try to move. No use crying over who doesn't want u..I'm currently in ur shoes n that's what I'm doing

Thanks for all Dis encouragement, I know it is not worth it,have tried stopping myself,but all for love...I just sent him a final farewell message...I really don't want him again...I just need to control myself

Can't you just see the handwriting on the wall? Stop living in illusion called "LOVE"

i will urge you not to force yourself on him, what he is doing now, worse could happen in marriage. therefore, let go of him, work on your self-esteem, be confident. your man is coming your way soon.

At 26+ so what?.....regardless of any position u ar in life....you should thank God.......yet heaven helps dose who?...........you cant sit at home nd expect miracles......socialise yourself by meeting new people everyday....nd stop dwelling ur thots on one a$$hole who givs no fvck bou ur existence....@bolded...i dont mean social network...its crazy out here

My dear, if after you got married to him was when you knew what his background was, he would still change towards you, cos that's who he is.. Just be happy you got to know at this point in time, it's definitely for the good of it..

Your mates are getting married and so? Do you know what they are enduring in their various homes? Your time will come, just be patient...

I'm angry, very angry ooo

Aderola15:
I'm angry, very angry ooo

Maka y?

Aderola15:
I'm angry, very angry ooo

fúçkiñg why? yöu fúçkiñg menstruating töday?

The best revenge x 2b successful, why drool over a nigga,wen u can bring d best outta yuhself,work on yuhself n upgrade in every way possible,trust me u wouldn't v d tym 2fink bout his ass,while yuh on yuh way up...

life is just unfair

Hmmmmm...

edimolu:

Maka y?

Why in God's name would she allow a man treat her like that? She even sent him a farewell message, da fvck is the Nigga's no doing on her contact list sef?


Aunty Damilola, I'm glad you finally got the courage to let go of that mistake of a man. Focus on making yourself a better woman, dance till ya drop if you are bored, club, go for shows, just do things to make you happy. Trust me, that man will be back to beg and you'll laugh last. Call me to join you by then, I love laughing.

Damilola72:
Thanks for all Dis encouragement, I know it is not worth it,have tried stopping myself,but all for love...I just sent him a final farewell message...I really don't want him again...I just need to control myself

What exactly is your problem, what kind of love do you have for someone who doesn't care about you Why did you send him a final farewell message...... let me just tell you something
*Get hold of yourself, you are just 26+ for Christ sake
*You don't have to compare yourself to your friends, if he married you I can only imagine how miserable your life and that of your children will be.
Delete all his number
Concentrate on getting your self Esteem back because I can see it has been destroyed.
Now receive sense before

Fuckshiit:







fúçkiñg why? yöu fúçkiñg menstruating töday?

I'm fvckin pregnant

adorablepepple:

What exactly is your problem, what kind of love do you have for someone who doesn't care about you Why did you send him a final farewell message...... let me just tell you something
*Get hold of yourself, you are just 26+ for Christ sake
*You don't have to compare yourself to your friends, if he married you I can only imagine how miserable your life and that of your children will be.
Delete all his number
Concentrate on getting your self Esteem back because I can see it has been destroyed.
Now receive sense before

Exactly how i wanted to address the issue nd then i thought...dis one that people are committing suicide....hmmm

Dont kill yourself over a man, the right person will come at the right time, its not all relationship that leads to marriage, some are just like an eye opener

The problem here is you put all your eggs in one basket as you thought the hollywood romance you guys were having would lead to marriage now the disappointment is that he gave you tell tale signs that he's lost interest in you, yet you refused to decipher that.
What I'm trying to say is that a guy that still loves a lady wouldn't maltreat her and make her beg for his affections.
I don't know about others, but from your tone he's regetted you and you thought both of you should be married by now and like you said you're 26+ which means it took you time to build the relationship with him, well you're still young and like others adviced, you need to socialize more, that doesn't mean you should throw yourself at men and please try not to be desperate and watch and listen to the people you might encounter.
Men are deceitful, so many will promise you marriage just to get between ur thighs.
Be wise, leave that dude and think BIG. Look elsewhere and even a more suitable person is always around waiting for you. Shalom!

I actually needs all Dis words...u know wen u hear nd listen to some truth,it wakens ur death strength...nd Dats wat am getting now...even his family are worse...the step mom is like a living devil...d guy is being cheated nd treated badly...such a family isn't something I want at all

I actually needs all Dis words...u know wen u hear nd listen to some truth,it wakens ur death strength...nd Dats wat am getting now...even his family are worse...the step mom is like a living devil...d guy is being cheated nd treated badly...such a family isn't something I want at all[quote][/quote]

Aderola15:


I'm fvckin pregnant

Finally ! My fûçkiñg seed! (Fúçkshîît Jnr)

My dear op, almost everyone has gone through this emotional upheaval and rejection u are going through , Including me! So forget the guy , he doesn't deserve you and he's not the right man for u. God has jejely free u from tears and sorrow in the future and u are here crying to God why ?

If only u could see how miserable your life would have been , if u had end up with him. Someone by far better will stroll into your life as a friend first then later geared towards love.
So take heart ..u are still very young .
For me ? I don't use my mates to weigh myself. Some of my mates have teenagers as children ..not one ,not two but 4 children. So move on, delete all his numbers and make yourself happy . let no man weigh your spirit down.

Just reply your pms

Fuckshiit:





Finally ! My fûçkiñg seed! (Fúçkshîît Jnr)

Hahahaha

I see my Baeby killing sumbori