deolsisback:


I agree with you. As I said earlier you can't expect perfection from another human being. You will have the earlier times when you are trying to get used to each other's differences. Many challenges will come up. Your ability to deal with them will go a long way.

Agree.

Marriage can become obligatory

Al-Qurtubi said: if a person is able to marry and fears that he may be harmed or his religious commitment may be adversely affected if he remains single, the only way to prevent this harm is through marriage, and there is no difference of opinion among the scholars – they agree that marriage is obligatory on such a person.

Al-Mardaawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in his book Al-Insaaf: Part Three: the one who fears “hardship”. In the case of such a person, marriage is obligatory, and this is the unanimous opinion of the scholars… “Hardship” here means zinaa (fornication), according to the correct opinion. Or it was said that it means being doomed by committing zinaa… What is meant by “Unless he fears that he may fall into committing forbidden actions” means, if he knows or thinks that he will do that. In Al-Furoo’ it says: (marriage) becomes obligatory only when he is sure that he will do that. (Al-Insaaf, part 8; Kitaab al-Nikaah, Ahkaam al-Nikaah).

If he wants to get married but is unable to spend on a wife, then he should adhere to the words of Allaah (interpretation of the meaning):

"And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allâh enriches them of His Bounty” [al-Noor 24:33]

Read whole article
https://islamqa.info/en/5511

How do you feel when others around you get married?

Are you excited for them, jealous?

Think about it. It tells a lot about you.

deolsisback:
How do you feel when others around you get married?

Are you excited for them, jealous?

Think about it. It tells a lot about you.

It is the single ladies that get jealous seeing their mate getting married. To some guys marriage is like a burden, they are just satisfying the society.

deolsisback:
How do you feel when others around you get married?

Are you excited for them, jealous?

Think about it. It tells a lot about you.

I get jealous actually

deolsisback:
How do you feel when others around you get married?

Are you excited for them, jealous?

Think about it. It tells a lot about you.

excited for them and wish them well.

tintingz:
It is the single ladies that get jealous seeing their mate getting married. To some guys marriage is like a burden, they are just satisfying the society.

Do you feel like marriage is a burden?

Empiree:
I get jealous actually

It's time to stop being jealous. Be happy, wish them well and pray for yourself

Tefs:


excited for them and wish them well.

This is the right attitude because your time will come and you will get all the goodwill that you deserve.

deolsisback:


It's time to stop being jealous. Be happy, wish them well and pray for yourself

lol...im just kidding

deolsisback:


Do you feel like marriage is a burden?

Yes and No, to some men it is a burden.

deolsisback:
How do you feel when others around you get married?

Are you excited for them, jealous?

Think about it. It tells a lot about you.

It's usually a mixed feeling. I kind of envy the couple and at the same time wish them well.

kayword:



It's usually a mixed feeling. I kind of envy the couple and at the same time wish them well.

At least you are truthful

Make it halal

In your quest for finding the right partner, do make it halal.

It won't work out a number of times. What will make leaving a toxic relationship easy for you is because you have nothing to lose. But if you have shared nudes(highly unexpected here but a good example), it might be difficult to leave the relationship for fears of the other person leaking it.

and that's just an example. Keep it halal for Allah's sake. So much benefits from this that I can't all elucidate

kayword:



It's usually a mixed feeling. I kind of envy the couple and at the same time wish them well.

Sometimes you can't help being envious. But wishing them well and wishing yourself good as well.

This article makes so much sense. https://www.nairaland.com/3805032/when-beg-love

Ramadan Mubarak.

Ramadan is a great opportunity to seek what we want from Allah. May He answer all of our prayers. Aamin

deolsisback:
Ramadan Mubarak.

Ramadan is a great opportunity to seek what we want from Allah. May He answer all of our prayers. Aamin

I want you

Following.
Ramadan Mubarak to you all.

deolsisback:

What's your view on polygamy?

Salam alaykum

walaikum Salam

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Marriage marriage marriage..

yhermmie:
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Say Something... Salam alaikum

Afamed:

Say Something... Salam alaikum

Wa alaikum salam

deolsisback:
Salam alaykum. I want to start with the most famous thread I opened with my initial account.

At the time, I wasn't interested in being in a relationship. Everything was for the fun of it. This part of the forum was usually so calm with not much discussions going on. One of my attempts at getting the needed participation was that thread, which ended up being for the most part, a success.


I am opening this one as an addendum. Most of the discussions we had then still hold true. But my ideas do have some modifications.

Seriously! You are back? Hoping to see the IV soonest

AlamienDagash:
Asalamu alaykum
My name is Al-ameen, AGE 18, student,hausa, musician,writer,dancer and lastly single.

[/b]NB: am not searching for a wife[b].

Marriage.......completing half of one's deen......may Allah make it easy for us all

Afamed:

Say Something... Salam alaikum

Wa alaykum salam