lovelygurl:


Depends on you definition of corruption. Whether you like it or not, more ladies are thinking the way she is. Can you stop them noooope. And you know what? THEY are in Nigeria. Ouch

Where men are the head in every sphere of the society and have been since the birth of the human race

pocohantas:
A man is the head of the family, as said in the bible...but what if she isn't a christian?

Some people will come here to blast her.
She is even better than some of you.

The hypocrisy in Nigeria is something else, men will quickly see the part of the bible instructing women to be submissive, but they don'te". They tell lies, backbite, steal, sleep with their neighbour's wife, but want to be the head.

I saw a thread of some porhnstar, guys were attacking the ladies featuring in the video, but they knew the porhnstar's site for streaming porn videos. These same guys bend ladies with reckless abandon on top bed.

You that will come here to condemn her but fornicate in your closets and her are all sinners, you would all end up in hell.
No sin is greater than the other

For those that will quote me with pain, and tell me not to marry or call me a feminist, don't waste you time ooo. I won't respond

I love the fact that you do read your mentions but don't respond to your them. Good! Just read that gibberish u wrote up there again and see how obvious your senselessness is dimwit. What a Pathetic fool!

Why are you wasting your precious time! We see them in church every sunday and tuesday, praying aggressively for husbands.

Funnicator:


So long feminist, it is called a MAN's world for a reason. Run along and never forget that.

BUTTERBEER:
She's obviously a single mother hence the frustration, she don't want them teaching her daughter that she's missing a father figure

Please sir manage this.......

wristbangle:


If marriage is not everybody goals, why would ladies (feminists) conned a man into marriage with the notion to get kids out of the union, find some flimsy excuse to justify her reason to divorce him and take custody of the kids.

Definitely you will want to say she can adopt a child of which it may happen if she gets lucky to see one but somehow one day in her old age she will regret deeply on her stance not to get married.

Also for her kids (especially her daughters), would she advice them to live the kind of life she lived?

Now you seem to be educated unlike those quoting me, shouting as if they can change the way the lady thinks.


Why would feminists...? Feminists are INDIVIDUALS because they are humans. Feminism just means equality, not placing the man or the woman higher in EVERY aspect of life, even if it favours the lady.

A feminist can want to marry, have kids etc, another feminist might not want to. A feminist can be a house wife, another might not want to be 1. This is an INDIVIDUAL choice and has nothing to do with feminism. You can't put all in a nutshell because the only thing they have in similar is they believe in equality.

So about the getting married, finding a filmsy excuse to divorce etc, then that's because the lady decided to, NOT because she is a feminist or else all divorced women will be 1.

And about the choice of only wanting to have kids is again an individual choice. The fact that YOU think she'll regret it, doesn't mean she will. This is what makes humans individuals

To be honest my problem with this whole thing is the whinings. There's nothing to question about another persons' belief and thoughts because it's nothing you can change. Birds of the same feather flock together. If you can't deal with a group of people then don't deal with them, go for your kinds and stop whining around because they are different. I mean it's the same thing like mind your business. Live your life and let others live theirs

lovelygurl:


Depends on you definition of corruption. Whether you like it or not, more ladies are thinking the way she is. Can you stop them noooope. And you know what? THEY are in Nigeria. Ouch

my friend keep kwayet. You girls should stop deceiving yourselves.

BUTTERBEER:
She's obviously a single mother hence the frustration, she don't want them teaching her daughter that she's missing a father figure

How on earth did you guess this right!!! I did some research and this is just my findings. Majority of our so called feminist are either divorce, single mum or frustrated single ladies. As long as one is a christian, there's need to observe and obey what God had commanded. Though some men took things for granted hence the reason for all these feminists claims...

she forgot someone paid her bride price , well maybe she never marry sha

I agree it should not be taught at school, it's not 100% fact that a man is head of a family. Not all families have fathers and teaching kids without a father figure Something like that isn't right.
It's not a kid's fault daddy didn't marry mummy and in Nigeria illegitimate ( bul.ls.hit) kids belong to mothers how then can you tell such a happy kid without father figure at home that a man is head of family?

Man is the head of the family because women came from our rib.

Funnicator:


I get too busy to read your sh1t, keep in mind it's a man's world and we'll keep having our ways around, the only time you could influence our decision and be the decision-taker of the family is when hubby wants to cuum while you wanna pull out and you force him into saying that YES.

That forcing him to say yes part really got me laughing

Women no longer knows their place.

Women see your place according to my president

The living room
The kitchen and
The other room

lovelygurl:



They have arrived. The saints that are definitely going to heaven

It's when topics like this are being discussed about that they start shouting Bible

Hypocrites

She might even be an atheist because in her comments she said apart from the Bible which the WHITE MAN brought to us

Sister me, Nigeria women who question why men should be the head of a family amuse me.

You know why? because they want to enjoy all the benefits of African marriage and western marriage without touching the cons. How many of them who want equality in marriage can agree to get equal share of what it takes to start and run a family in Nigeria?

None, they want you to do everything as a man and then come in to say we are equal. Please note that a man being the head doesn't mean he has the upper hand nor is it to mean that a woman has no rights or is a second class citizen.

Personally I don't buy the idea of absolute headship because it wasn't so in the family where I grew up but still yet it doesn't make sense to go into a marriage thinking everything will be fair and equal, the relationship won't last very long.

These women fighting themselves online in the name of opposing male headship in families are still the very ones who cannot pay on a first date because it's a man's responsibility.

They still believe that a man's money belongs to the family while their money is their money.

They still believe that women should work too to "support" their husbands.

Some women are shameless hypocrites.

missbronze:
I think the lady have complex issue.

I think the lady has complex issues.

pocohantas:
A man is the head of the family, as said in the bible...but what if she isn't a christian?

Some people will come here to blast her.
She is even better than some of you.

The hypocrisy in Nigeria is something else, men will quickly see the part of the bible instructing women to be submissive, but they don't see the "thou shalt not fornicate". They tell lies, backbite, steal, sleep with their neighbour's wife, but want to be the head.

I saw a thread of some porhnstar, guys were attacking the ladies featuring in the video, but they knew the porhnstar's site for streaming porn videos. These same guys bend ladies with reckless abandon on top bed.

You that will come here to condemn her but fornicate in your closets and her are all sinners, you would all end up in hell.
No sin is greater than the other

Now una remember African culture, is it African culture to be testing different chicks before marriage?

For those that will quote me with pain, and tell me not to marry or call me a feminist, don't waste your time ooo. I won't respond

They are still quoting me, very predictable beings

Forget Bible,lets face our traditional religion,A man is and will always be the head of the family,if you dont like it go and jump inside the lagoon

lovelygurl:


Now you seem to be educated unlike those quoting me, shouting as if they can change the way the lady thinks.


Why would feminists...? Feminists are INDIVIDUALS because they are humans. Feminism just means equality, not placing the man or the woman higher in EVERY aspect of life, even if it favours the lady.

A feminist can want to marry, have kids etc, another feminist might not want to. A feminist can be a house wife, another might not want to be 1. This is an INDIVIDUAL choice and has nothing to do with feminism. You can't put all in a nutshell because the only thing they have in similar is they believe in equality.

So about the getting married, finding a filmsy excuse to divorce etc, then that's because the lady decided to, NOT because she is a feminist or else all divorced women will be 1.

And about the choice of only wanting to have kids is again an individual choice. The fact that YOU think she'll regret it, doesn't mean she will. This is what makes humans individuals

To be honest my problem with this whole thing is the whinings. There's nothing to question about another persons' belief and thoughts because it's nothing you can change. Birds of the same feather flock together. If you can't deal with a group of people then don't deal with them, go for your kinds and stop whining around because they are different. I mean it's the same thing like mind your business. Live your life and let others live theirs

Nice comment. You gave a diplomatic view but what about this: In a situation where a feminist hang her boot when it comes to sharing bills in the family expecting her husband to do all these but other aspects such as decision making, moral standards, aspect of business, et.al, she expects equity, don't you think this is rather a selfish ambition? Is it also a personal opinion?

femolii:
Man is the head of the family because women came from our rib.

The man should have been man enough to over come the temptation.
Have you heard of lilly? The first woman created was equal to man and till date women are equal to man. Check Islamic scriptures for clarification.

missbronze:
I think the lady have complex issue.

a big one

pocohantas:

The connection with hell fire is for those who will come from the biblical part, you saw their posts but jumped on mine with selective understanding. Even the opening post is looking at it from religious aspect. A man is the head is your African culture?
It was also African culture to kill twins...draw ridiculous tribal marks etc

You have rejected gay bills, but gays are still thriving in Nigeria with some raping innocent young boys to death.

You all always quick to say two captains are never on a ship, it isn't even the captain that physically navigates the ship. Well, it aptly describes most Nigerian husbands, figure heads...the wife does most of the job.

But you vowed not to reply anyone that may quote you?

Ignoramus feminist. Why don't you father that your child yourself. Exactly why marriages crash every now and then. Simple submission they can't yet they want to be treated like a queen. Note the king is the head of a queen.

Funnicator:


Wetting concern hell fire concern the topic now? Abi winch enter your body today?


Any woman bent on being head of the family had better went West, Africa remains Africa and we never departing from our traditional ways. Guess again, why we have rejected gay bills, yes because this is Africa and we respect our heritage, traditional values and stick to them.

#No ship has two captains at same time.

#You don't serve two masters at same time.


A man is definitely the head of the family and NEEDS the wife by his side, to rule with him, SUBMISSIVELY.

be deceiving urself

lovelygurl:



Frustrated old single women? Heart broken ladies with complex issues? Well look at her picture I don't think so especially since she said MUM AND DAD are the head of the home. But then again, those are words you throw out at every lady who is not of your opinion. I wonder what your problem is. She's living her life, why not live yours and leave her alone? Why are you so worried, why do you care?

Don't tell me you are SCARED and INSCURE of and about people like her and her beliefs because I don't see how it's your business. I mean can you stop her? NOOOO

You still think that marriage is everybody's goal. Wake up. More and more people don't give a f about marriage, all people care about are kids

And I was enjoying everything you posting, I believe you're smart, cuz you have a point to prove

But wait,

How can you judge someone state of being based on social media picture, you referring to her was very shallow and Lil bit dumb

lovelygurl:


Obviously you know nothing about the election because then you'd know more people voted for Clinton but the system there is different. It all depends on the 'election men'

So you mean the masses voted Clinton and the electoral college voted trump

Babe you sound stupid

When you don't know about some things you keep quiet and learn

CzarChris:
This woman is definitely not a well human being. I love it when I hear feminist talk this trash,ask her to share the bills of the home now, she will be like "honey it's your responsibility to take care of the finances of the home." Anyway, I see single motherhood in someone's future.


That Beijing women's conference of 1995 is the genesis of all these rubbish.

yes whoever bring that idea of the conference need to be murder

jejemanito:
Before I forget, egbon OP, please change that "A Teachers" that's causing me chest pain here

That is a 4 hit combo u gave ops there ooooo.
Savagey.. you jus weak me

Kondomatic:

Sister me, Nigeria women who question why men should be the head of a family amuse me.

You know why? because they want to enjoy all the benefits of African marriage and western marriage without touching the cons. How many of them who want equality in marriage can agree to get equal share of what it takes to start and run a family in Nigeria?

None, they want you to do everything as a man and then come in to say we are equal. Please note that a man being the head doesn't mean he has the upper hand nor is it to mean that a woman has no rights or is a second class citizen.

Personally I don't buy the idea of absolute headship because it wasn't so in the family where I grew up but still yet it doesn't make sense to go into a marriage thinking everything will be fair and equal, the relationship won't last very long.

These women fighting themselves online in the name of opposing male headship in families are still the very ones who cannot pay on a first date because it's a man's responsibility.

They still believe that a man's money belongs to the family while their money is their money.

They still believe that women should work too to "support" their husbands.

Some women are shameless hypocrites.

But the thing is you are putting everyone in a nutshell. You don't know if she's like the others who only want equality when it favours them. We all have different views of life. Those women you listed above are hypocrites but you don't know if she's 1

lovelygurl:



They have arrived. The saints that are definitely going to heaven

It's when topics like this are being discussed about that they start shouting Bible

Hypocrites

She might even be an atheist because in her comments she said apart from the Bible which the WHITE MAN brought to us

So your ancestors believed differently?

wristbangle:


Nice comment. You gave a diplomatic view but what about this: In a situation where a feminist hang her boot when it comes to sharing bills in the family expecting her husband to do all these but other aspects such as decision making, moral standards, aspect of business, et.al, she expects equity, don't you think this is rather a selfish ambition? Is it also a personal opinion?

It's the man's duty to pay bills, saying that, paying bills is nothing to compare to a woman's duties

abescom:
I can't blame her until I know who are father is. It is possible that the father is a useless man and it is the mother that rules.

you are right

And this one has a p**sy. She is prolly tired of d**k heads..and she moans too...

AnthonioAlsaid:


So you mean the masses voted Clinton and the electoral college voted trump

Babe you sound stupid

When you don't know about some things you keep quiet and learn

ahonye15:
May she is one of those children given birth to without father, no home training, no fatherly care because her mum doesn't know who the father his. Let us pitty her for her childish statement

true talk

lovelygurl:


Now you seem to be educated unlike those quoting me, shouting as if they can change the way the lady thinks.


Why would feminists...? Feminists are INDIVIDUALS because they are humans. Feminism just means equality, not placing the man or the woman higher in EVERY aspect of life, even if it favours the lady.

A feminist can want to marry, have kids etc, another feminist might not want to. A feminist can be a house wife, another might not want to be 1. This is an INDIVIDUAL choice and has nothing to do with feminism. You can't put all in a nutshell because the only thing they have in similar is they believe in equality.

So about the getting married, finding a filmsy excuse to divorce etc, then that's because the lady decided to, NOT because she is a feminist or else all divorced women will be 1.

And about the choice of only wanting to have kids is again an individual choice. The fact that YOU think she'll regret it, doesn't mean she will. This is what makes humans individuals

To be honest my problem with this whole thing is the whinings. There's nothing to question about another persons' belief and thoughts because it's nothing you can change. Birds of the same feather flock together. If you can't deal with a group of people then don't deal with them, go for your kinds and stop whining around because they are different. I mean it's the same thing like mind your business. Live your life and let others live theirs

A man needs respect and the wife needs love. This is what is lacking in today's generation else, there won't be need for this feminism. When we talk about equality is it limited to our roles in the home alone? Can we also be equal when it comes to responsibilities in the house? What then is the need for a man going through hell just to fulfil some marital rites(in some cases run into debts in the process)? Before agitating for equality, do we have the same mindset, ability to deal with issues correctly and efficiently? As much as I frown on women being second best in their homes, I think this issue of equality is really making most of our ladies see themselves as "all sufficient". Marriage is not a ground for claiming our rights, , it's a place where two persons comes together to act as ONE body. Anything outside this is going out of God's plan for marriage. We are to complement one another and not claim any right.