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Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by IRALIFE(f): 12:28pm On May 02, 2017 |
Flawed values, insecurity,no sense of commitment e.t.c. This has nothing to do with the wife. If she is not good in bed, they should both learn and teach each other. They could used instructional materials ( 3d not pornography o). Men, learn from this REAL MAN. THE REAL MAN STILL EXISTS!!! *LADY ON FIRE* By Uncle Ebo He was having his evening beverage That's when she joined him. "Hi there handsome, you're looking good. So fine I can eat you up" she said sitting down. "I thought we agreed to keep away from each other? I am a married man" he told her. " Come on. I won't bite. You can't resist me, no man can" she said. "I am a married man" he told her. "Fight all you want but soon I will have you. I am way better than your wife" she told him. "You are nothing compared to my wife" he told her off. "Really? All this body. All these curves. All these sweetness. I bet your wife is not as good in bed as I am" she told him unbuttoning the top button of her blouse to reveal her cleavage then lifting up her skirt, just a bit. "If I was a lustful and unfaithful man, all that would move me. But I am too grown to be enticed by what you're showing off. I am a grown man, you think all that consumes my mind is sex? And for your information, my wife is actually great in bed" he told her. "How will you know unless you do me. Try me tonight. Let's drive in your black car to a romantic hotel, I promise you a night you will never forget" she told him. "You know what you are? You are lazy? A lazy woman" he told her then took a sip of his beverage. "How dare you call me lazy?! I am a high flying educated woman. Any man would give anything to have me" she said. "Fair enough. But would you give anything to make a man?" He asked. "What do you mean?" She questioned. "You look at me and find me attractive yet you disrespect the woman behind who I am, you want me to cheat on my wife, the woman behind my attractiveness" said he. He drank a sip and continued, "My wife is responsible for the man in me that you want today. When I had little, my wife believed in me. These suits you see me wearing, are my wife's idea, I ask for her advice on what to wear. My success has come to pass because she prays for me and puts up with my demanding work hours. She corrects me and moulds me and that has moulded my character. The Range Rover you see me outside driving that you fancy, I bought that with my wife. She and I invested to buy our house. I look attractive and pleasant because she treats me well and gives me peace. And now you want to have the man that she made out of me and dishonour her? You want to have the man that she has built for years? You are lazy?" Silence. "I see you turning down the single men who want you and yet you want me, a man that another woman has made? No, it doesn't work like that. Find your own single man, believe in him, pray for him, support him, nurture him and mould him to be the attractive man you want him to be. You women have a nurturing and helping gift, activate your gift. My wife has been busy building me and I will not leave her for a woman who has nothing to offer but her sexiness. So if you may excuse me, I need to drive home and take my wife on a date. She deserves the best" he said as he stood up and drank a last sip. He reached in his wallet and placed gh50 on the table. "Have yourself a drink as you think about your life and how you'll stop being lazy and find a single man you can build with. My generous wife and I have paid for the drink" he said. He walked away as she looked on. "I need to find my own husband" she thought to herself. (#copied for all men) 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by Blackblood247: 12:30pm On May 02, 2017 |
A friend of mine said "you can't be eating rice alone for the rest of your life. You're bound to want to have a taste of Amala, semovita or beans once in a while. It is just a natural phenomenon" 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by SmellingAnus(m): 12:30pm On May 02, 2017 |
bullabong:very true... The women also have their own blames in having a cheating husband 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by SmellingAnus(m): 12:33pm On May 02, 2017 |
biggestbros:hahahha reality that? |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by FKseun(m): 12:34pm On May 02, 2017 |
BLOODY LIE...concocted nonsense SmellingAnus: |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by Nobody: 12:34pm On May 02, 2017 |
SmellingAnus:well majority of the women are faulty while a few men are just feeling its their birth right or a Man's life style of which its wrong. |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by bullabong(m): 12:38pm On May 02, 2017 |
SmellingAnus:Of course women are to blame. With d level of desperate woman out there and yet you keep denying a man what he has paid for that plenty girls are ready to give him freely just to have a man to cuddle up to once in a while. Brother between u and I ,that marriage thing doesn't work. And gudluk but don't forget..... bang!!! Bullabong warned ya! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by SmellingAnus(m): 12:39pm On May 02, 2017 |
MDG007:i believe this is just the simple truth 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by olab059(m): 12:39pm On May 02, 2017 |
coolcatty: GBAM!!! You have said it all. |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by GregyT(m): 12:39pm On May 02, 2017 |
I am married, I don't cheat on my wife and I believe there won't be any likely-hood to do that. Its all about self discipline and total cooperation with the abundant grace of God. If there are still virgins (both sex), then don't doubt that there are lots of faithful men out there. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by jconsulting(f): 12:41pm On May 02, 2017 |
It takes the grace of God , not to cheat with all these boobs and butts parading up and down , is usually in the nature of men to cheat.....it has been like that since the days of old. Though am not supporting men who cheats... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by DirewolfofStark(m): 12:42pm On May 02, 2017 |
eleojo23: THE OTHER 999 TIMES, NOBODY FIT SUPPLY US WIT BETTER ANSWER 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by olab059(m): 12:42pm On May 02, 2017 |
olusola200: lol! I feel you jare. |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by Nobody: 12:43pm On May 02, 2017 |
Anyone saying married women cheat more than men is a hypocritical liar. Definitely not in Nigeria...where you see time? Hehehehehehehe. The average Nigerian woman has kids, a job, no help, even the husband is a big baby_ when will she see time to pursue man? Except it's emotional cheating, most married women can't maintain a relationship outside for long. As to why married men cheat, because they want to cheat. They know they can get away with it. It's just plain wickedness and selfishness to cheat on your spouse, ignoring the plenty STDs out there. Plain wickedness... If you're tired of your wife, divorce her. That excuse of sex deprivation is rubbish, do you know how many women are sexually deprived? Go to antenatals and hear stories. Abroad husbands, husbands working in another town, even the ones that don't just like to do. What do people advise her? Focus on your kids. Men too should learn to focus on their kids, not their dicks. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by SPOILT9JAOLOSHO(m): 12:44pm On May 02, 2017 |
Point of correction, why do most married men cheat on their wives.. not all men cheats, I know what am saying |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by Nobody: 12:44pm On May 02, 2017 |
Gbemishile1:Does being a man include cheating?. If it's ok, those of you who cheat won't have to hide it from your wives and kids. If it's ok you'd just bring bring your concubine home and introduce her to your wife and kids like there's nothing wrong in it. Why do people who do bad things hide to do so, because they know it's wrong. So please, spear me of that "Do you know what's like to be a man?". 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by Esepayne(f): 12:44pm On May 02, 2017 |
tgmservice:but who are they cheating with 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by willibounce1(m): 12:46pm On May 02, 2017 |
marriage is for people who are highly disciplined. To be highly disciplined is to be able to starve yourself of negative things you like to do. Sacrifice is the key. Unfortunately a lot of people lack discipline, that's why men will cheat on their wives and vice versa. Even the highly respected men who act holy and pretend to have high morals cheat. If God decides to start playing videos of every married people, plenty people go faint. Some people will open their mouth in surprise for like 1 month. A man wants to feel different women. He wants to press small, medium, big brea.sts and slam/squeeze small,medium,big yansh. It is not easy at all to look away. I have seen guys who while driving will park just because they see a girl with a jiggly as.s on the other side of the road. They'll cross over to go collect number meanwhile the real intention is to see how the ass juggles while slamming from behind. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by jericco1(m): 12:47pm On May 02, 2017 |
It's a natural thing. |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by FreeSpirited: 12:49pm On May 02, 2017 |
Cheating has no cure.......Nature didnt design anybody to sleep with only one person, including women. We came to this world to form values and culture about sexuality. We think we are bound by just mere words of vow or obligation to have sex with only one person in marriage, whereas marriage is an invention of man Abeg. If you so program your conscience by the dictates of the society or one religion , you may have problem with the simple fact that we are made to be polygamous about sexuality.... If you can see beyond , u will know its all sham. Bye |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by miketayo(m): 12:50pm On May 02, 2017 |
fufuNegusi: Dats not true even pastors cheats .. Wat abt Solomon and David. It's all abt morals than religion, if u respect ur spouse u won't cheat 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by Bamgboseomotoyo: 12:51pm On May 02, 2017 |
Some say it's because their wives's vaginal ain't tight anymore....and u know men's Penis never die 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by olab059(m): 12:53pm On May 02, 2017 |
Esepayne: Last Christmas, I met this lady when I went to Lagos for the holidays. One thing led to another, and we ended up having sex. When I returned to my base, I was bored one day and decided to search her number on Facebook. I nearly fainted when I found out that she was married. I saw her pics with her husband and all, and they just got married a few months before our encounter. When I confronted her about it, she apologized and said if she had told me, I won't have slept with her. Men! I have started fearing women more than men these days. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by Caramelemperor: 12:55pm On May 02, 2017 |
Chiefpriest1:Word!!! |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by Nobody: 12:56pm On May 02, 2017 |
Bamgboseomotoyo:The wife's 'vaginal' ain't tight anymore? Some men are very stupid o... A woman goes through labour, sometimes with tears...if only these randy men know what it feels like to have one's vagina stitched, their problem won't be tight vagina. I would only understand if he is cheating with a mother too. If it's a single girl, she should born_let's see how tight the vagina will be. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by SmellingAnus(m): 12:57pm On May 02, 2017 |
elaigwusimona:I kind of agree with you bro... |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by youngreezy(m): 12:57pm On May 02, 2017 |
men cheat,men beat women men r born liars men dis men dat make we pack comot for earth ni?na firewood em cheat wit?no be woman?evribodi dey cheat joor make una leave men hand abeg.weda dem go legalize gay marrage sef make we dey marry awr selves make evribodi rest shikena 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by Mujtahida: 12:57pm On May 02, 2017 |
CanadianNurse:I concur. Read the article on this link http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1211104/Think-men-unfaithful-sex-A-study-shows-WOMEN-biggest-cheats--theyre-just-better-lying-it.html |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by nkemjacob2(m): 12:57pm On May 02, 2017 |
The man spotted the huge different between the akwa- ibom girl and his wife. So he has no option Dan to cheat |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by SmellingAnus(m): 12:58pm On May 02, 2017 |
bullabong:hahaha much thanks.. I appreciate 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by Nobody: 12:58pm On May 02, 2017 |
Sinz the traffic is here... |
Re: Why Do Many Married Men Cheat On Their Wives? by phr33man(m): 1:00pm On May 02, 2017 |
we all cheat not only men. na men ego dey freak us wey no dey make us care. and woman, our culture and environment na him no permit them. |
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