Nollywood actress, Mercy Aigbe who recently dropped her estranged husband’s name, Gentry after the alleged domestic violence case which resulted in her being hospitalized with CT scan showing she suffered a fractured skull has revealed the reason behind her stay in the abusive relationship.

The actress who took to her social media page to share photos of herself in blood revealed that the several cases of physical violence she suffered from her husband, Lanre Gentry has affected her sight and caused her to bleed internally.

The actress who finally spoke up on April 16, 2016 revealed that it took her a while to cry out because “I never for once came out to say that my husband did not beat me. The video people were referring to happened in 2013 when there were rumours of such and I did a video recording alongside my husband to debunk the claim. At that time I had to do it to protect his image and my marriage. I had to do a live video at that time.”

The actress in the recent interview revealed that she stayed in her seven-year-old marriage which is now in troubles because of her children and because she was a role model of some sort.



Mercy Aigbe said: “He beats me consistently I stayed because I loved him and because everytime he beats me, he begs and gets family and friends to beg me. He promised regularly to change but he never did. When my husband gets angry, he gets physical, not only to me but to anyone.

“He has done that with my house help who reported him to the Police years ago. I stayed because of my children and because a lot of people look up to me. I was a role model of some sort and I really wanted to keep it together. I just wanted a home.”

Revealing why she wants to abandon the relationship, the actress said: “It’s not like I wanted to walk away but I just feel like we need help. I spoke to my husband’s brother about it. I told him I was going to pack out for some time while my husband seeks therapy. I just wanted to feel safe, that is why I moved my things out. This last beating was brutal. I actually thought I was going to die. I’m still coughing and sneezing blood even after three weeks.”

Revealing what happened on the day of the incident which led to her social media cry out, the actress revealed that she had informed her husband that she was attending a burial of her colleague but he refused to grant her permission to go, a move which would have been unfair on the lady since she had earlier promised her appearance at the event.

She added that her refusal to pick her husband up while she was still at her designer’s place had infuriated him and thus led to the assault as he drove down to her designer’s place to beat her up.”

She continued: “Immediately, I opened the door, he kept beating me. I was begging him and asking why he was beating me. He said he would destroy my face such that no makeup would fix it and destroy my career. He was acting like someone who was possessed. I told him “Lanre, mo ma bi mo fun e” (“I have a child for you).

Source: http://ogashub.com.ng/why-i-stayed-with-lanre-gentry-despite-constant-domestic-abuse-mercy-aigbe/

Both of y'all are stubborn that's why

I wrote it here

SirMichael1:
You know something about women?? They love drama. That's why most watch telemundos and stuffs like that. You find a girl in a relationship (courtship, not yet married) with an abusive partner, yet they wouldn't wanna leave because they love him and think overtime he will change or maybe because he has enough money to take care of her.

If you ask me, I'd say most rich guys are found of beating their partners because they grew up in a home where anything they do goes free and it became part of them to the extent that they do things without fear or think of repercussions thereafter. But some women too are so stubborn to listen to advice. If he can beat you while dating, can he not kill you in marriage? Ask Mercy Aigbe and Tonto Dikeh

Do not marry a guy who feels his ways are the best. Those types don't ever listen to advice.

You know you're a stubborn lady and yet you're dating a stubborn guy. He gets annoyed and lays hands on you. Stubborn you lifts hands and lay on him too. He carry bottle knack your head wella and use 'pestle' break your skull but you don't wanna leave because you're stubborn and pride won't make you. You wanna come out of the relationship dauntless and having that feeling that you came out victorious and your friends be praising you. It is well o

Cos of money