Men, to experience and share great sex with your partner, be sure to use some of these sexual pre-intimacy tips. There is an art to pre-intimacy. Don’t just grab and squeeze, or head straight for her privates.

pre-intimacy is not about…

•Kissing

•Breasts and

•Intercourse …. all in five minutes!

In actuality, pre-intimacy is really about courting and wooing your woman’s sensual responses and sexual arousal.


Before we get into the tips and suggestions, let’s review the all important basics of pre-intimacy:

pre-intimacy is part of the preparation phase of lovemaking. pre-intimacy is focusing on helping your partner come to sexual arousal. pre-intimacy must not be rushed. Spend at least 20 to 30 minutes on pre-intimacy.

Okay, let’s get to the “mechanics”of pre-intimacy…


PHASE 1: Sexual pre-intimacy Tips to Use BEFORE You’re in the Bedroom

•kiss her gently in public
•touch her face and stroke her hair
•tell her you love her
•hold hands or put your arm around her in public
•tell her she’s beautiful


PHASE 2: Tips to Use When WARMING UP

•Slowly start undressing hergive her

•Tender kisses on the lipsgently stroke her face

•Take time to give her a full body or shoulder massagegently caress all parts of her body (not just the typical “sexual” parts)

•Whisper and tell her how beautiful she is and how good she feels

•kiss her softly all over her bodyinterlace your fingers with herscaress her tummy (don’t tickle though!)

•Touch and handle her

•Keep talking about how much you love her (unless you’re kissing)

•Try to discover new touch points on her body that are sensitive and bring sexual arousal

•Keep looking at her