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How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Nobody: 12:24pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
HOW MUCH MUST A MAN HAVE TO BE READY FOR MARRIAGE? Pls, nairalanders, what thinkest thou a Naija man would need in his bank account before he can be said to be financially ready for marriage? |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by elecktra(f): 12:37pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
all the "greens" in the world baby |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by whitelexi(m): 12:39pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
I havent been in naija for ages but still think a respectable marriage can be planned with about N5m. . . dunno if thats right or wrong though, u will need a 2nd opinion on that. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by jaybee3(m): 12:44pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
whitelexi:OP is asking us to pluck a min figure that a man must have at his disposal from outer space. @OP You don't have to av a set bank balance before u marry. All you need is a constant job, accommodation and ability to provide food on the table for your fam. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Babylove1(f): 12:47pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
^ u just spoke my mind, constant job is highly necessary |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by r231(m): 12:48pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
whitelexi: you are right btw N3 - N5m for big ones from N100K for a low budget i guess |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by chibenwa(m): 12:57pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
@r231,why spending such amt of money? thats crazy.i dont need all nigerians for a wedding. just hav smthing doing and spend meaniful money. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Pennywise(m): 1:13pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
@OP Do you mean being ready for marriage as an event or marriage as a status? As an event, N350k can still buy you sth good certainly not great. As a status, you need nothing really. Una just dey manage unaself dey go provided there is love. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by justwise(m): 1:13pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
whitelexi: N5m for marriage? Typical 9ja show off, after that they live mouth 2 mouth. Why not spend N1.5m and invest the rest so as to provide for that marriage? |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by jaybee3(m): 1:14pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
Babylove1:chei we are constantly thinking on same wavelength. r u my twin? |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by tkb417(m): 1:22pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
jay bee:mrfcking woman wrapper when will u change? wedding? the only people tht will attend are my immediate family members so i aint spending a kobo to be ready, u need a crib, job, a car and what else? when i remember ill come back |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by freecocoa(f): 2:01pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
A man's gotta hav like 50 mill aside go di.then 5 mil 4 the wedding,2 mill 4 the honeystar,5 exotic cars & 20 million 4 macelleneous(is dt the spelling?cos am not sure) expenses,he should be gud to go wt this(just kidding)all a man needs is to have a constant job like an earlier poster said,if he thinks he can provide 4 his intented family then he's ready. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Lacuzy: 6:56pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
for me luv you, a steady job and a house |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Busybody2(f): 7:08pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
tkb417: As long as you throw in a private jet to take that "our immediate family members" to somewhere exotic like the Maldives, Seychelles, etc to have that low-key wedding, for a fortnight with accommodation in at least a 4* hotel for them and 5* hotel for us, then i'm with you on that and on your side like your loyal obedient wife - we don't need a large wedding - and the millions that we save from not having a massive wedding can be put towards my designer wardrobe which i am gonna need to look good beside you, I am such a considerate wife |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
A stable Job and a positive outlook, thats not much to ask right? 1 Like |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by deji2009(m): 7:52pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
Busy_body: Oh yes ! lol |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by naijaguy2(m): 8:19pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
Why must you spend as much as 5Million for marriage as far as there is love between the two 350K can do 1 Like |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Sauron1: 8:21pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
obongproff: A proper wedding in Lagos should cost about 10 million Naira. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by justwise(m): 8:41pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
~Sauron~: Are u wedding Jesus chris? |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Sauron1: 9:37pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
justwise: Things are expensive in Nigeria and for one's special day - an event that can never repeat itself till one dies. . . .I think 10 million is about right. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by justwise(m): 9:42pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
~Sauron~: U must be joking right? U will be spending about £40,000 for a wedding in Nigeria, honestly our value system is so wrong. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Sauron1: 9:47pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
justwise: When was the last time you went to Naija? The venue alone will gulp 1/10th of that budget. Food and Drinks. . . . .Nigerians don't drink once and ignore. . . . They wanna GO all night so that one nor be beans. Then you have to accommodate your guests flying in from near and far. U don't want your colleagues at work kidnapped in Naija so adequate security must be ensured. What about costumes, cake, wedding ring, stretch limos and other miscellaneous? U better buckle your belt and start working your arse off. If you think £2000 pounds will host a decent wedding, you will be shocked. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by justwise(m): 9:54pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
~Sauron~: Don't worry when i find virgin mary to marry then i will spend that much. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by r231(m): 10:04pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
~Sauron~: £2000 what even the halls in london cost more dan dat these days |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Sauron1: 10:07pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
r231: Justwise prolly thinks it's beans to wed. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by justwise(m): 10:14pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
~Sauron~: I'm not saying £2000 or £4000 is enough but spending £40,000 for a wedding is madness. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Sauron1: 10:16pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
justwise: Anything less than that and the wedding will be crappy. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by justwise(m): 10:20pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
~Sauron~: Cos u want it to be crappy, after spending that much on wedding the woman becomes ur personal property. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Sauron1: 10:22pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
justwise: Whose property would she be before? Yours? Are you high on Shepe? |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by justwise(m): 10:25pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
~Sauron~: She is not ur personal property, she is allowed to do her own thing, even walk out of the marriage when things get worst. U don't own her just cos u spent £40,000 for the wedding |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by Sauron1: 10:30pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
justwise: I am 100% my bride would slap your face for uttering the above statement. Cheese. . . . .I don't own her because of the amount i am spending. . . . .I own her cos she's the one i am taking to the altar. |
Re: How Much Must A Man Have To Be Ready For Marriage? by justwise(m): 10:33pm On Jan 13, 2010 |
~Sauron~:. Ur bride will even agree with me. |
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