Please Nairaland should always censor the name of the poisonous substance used to commit suicide ....This way we will not be aiding potential suicide victims

Such a young soul lost!

Though your problems may overwhelm you sometimes, suicide is never the answer. For where there is life, there's hope!

R.I.P

IdeyFindWife:
Took time to read through the story and realised young people are getting so crazily bold in the wrong way these days; a reflection of serious problems in the society?

When life was even more analog, monochromatic and more arduous; people thrived on necessity being the mother of creativity making ways where obstacles existed. What if Mandela threw himself off the rocks? Or Abraham Lincoln, Winston Churchill? Or do we think our own Azikwes, Awolowos etc didn't face their fair share of life's challenges?

Sometimes, we need to call spades by their names and face up to the fact that a lot of suicides are perpetrated by people who simply blew up their personal issues out of proportion. Challenges are part of the human condition and we will all get our fair share of problems.

Adversity breaks some men, yet the same Adversity makes some other men rise to Break Records!

I'd wanna ask who was her bf, who were her friends, was she her own person or who were her major decision influencers, what was her home life like, did she have any emotional troubles, was she the brooding type, how did she process past disappointments, what were her expectations from/of life (how did she process them) etc.

It's not enuf to waste RIP's when some other teenager is planning to snuff himself next week; issue's how to get proactive and mitigate or cease the causative factors altogether!

Bro you have said it all. Our world is changing very fast and we're all getting closer and closer.... Living nearly.

Young people like us need to look beyond our present circumstances and see what's ahead. I know it's easy to say but is death the only way out? Is death even a way? Do we even know what awaits us on the other side?

Jostico:
what a pity. but wait so before anything happen now a days they go on social media and give their last word. thank God I never update on any social network

This your post now wey you post here na social market

MasterChen:


Baba..abeg epp us drop that picture. Mi o s'ako, mo n bebe ni

They need to behave if they don't want that reminder. Let them keep Awolowo and Abiola out of their smelly mouths. First to do no dey pain.

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MasterChen:


More civil than I am? Tag someone else to through our post histories, let's compare.

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am now a law abiding gentleman on nairaland
i urge you to be like me
good night

SHE MUST BE STEWPEED

IdeyFindWife:
Took time to read through the story and realised young people are getting so crazily bold in the wrong way these days; a reflection of serious problems in the society?

When life was even more analog, monochromatic and more arduous; people thrived on necessity being the mother of creativity making ways where obstacles existed. What if Mandela threw himself off the rocks? Or Abraham Lincoln, Winston Churchill? Or do we think our own Azikwes, Awolowos etc didn't face their fair share of life's challenges?

Sometimes, we need to call spades by their names and face up to the fact that a lot of suicides are perpetrated by people who simply blew up their personal issues out of proportion. Challenges are part of the human condition and we will all get our fair share of problems.

Adversity breaks some men, yet the same Adversity makes some other men rise to Break Records!

I'd wanna ask who was her bf, who were her friends, was she her own person or who were her major decision influencers, what was her home life like, did she have any emotional troubles, was she the brooding type, how did she process past disappointments, what were her expectations from/of life (how did she process them) etc.

It's not enuf to waste RIP's when some other teenager is planning to snuff himself next week; issue's how to get proactive and mitigate or cease the causative factors altogether!

It is well with your soul,respect.


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dessz:
NCAN, VICE CHAIR MAN EAGLE EYE DIVISION REPORTING FOR DUTY OVER AND OUT.

Is this one ok.
D sniper wey u go still drink last last

BiafraAngitator:
They need to behave if they don't want that reminder. Let them keep Awolowo and Abiola out of their smelly mouths. First to do no dey pain.

Thanks for taking it down Sir. Respect!!!

dessz:
NCAN, VICE CHAIR MAN EAGLE EYE DIVISION REPORTING FOR DUTY OVER AND OUT.

You have no conscience at all.
Death has become amusing to you. smh
I hope you'll check names when this happens to yours..

RIP to the dead.

Phobia for death! This is already an update Sir He no wan die, buh 9ja no gud nah

Jostico:
what a pity. but wait so before anything happen now a days they go on social media and give their last word. thank God I never update on any social network

MasterChen:


Just last week, I was the same person who tagged a mod to ban a Yoruba poster for mocking those who died in the civil war

You snitched?

dessz:
NCAN, VICE CHAIR MAN EAGLE EYE DIVISION REPORTING FOR DUTY OVER AND OUT.

Now it is confirmed that you have brain tumors. Oh, you want likes abi, Mumu.

StephDamielola:
Sweet Dami, I know it's depression. I know something is bothering you but you don't want to share with your friends because of their long mouths. They will spill it out for the whole world to know which is why most girls have their best friend being a male. You needed a confidant but couldn't find one. You probably didn't tell your Mum because she is the religious type or your Dad because he is the overrated disciplinarian.

Dami, I wish you never took your life. That was never the best option. If only you had waited for sometime. Time would have healed all.

Rest in Peace Beauty

I wish people can be less judgemental like you though am not commending her actions..u sounded more like you know her in person

..........

dessz:
NCAN, VICE CHAIR MAN EAGLE EYE DIVISION REPORTING FOR DUTY OVER AND OUT.

you are the BIGGEST FOO.L i've ever come across online,


keep on wallowing in stupid.ity

MasterChen:


More civil than I am? Tag someone else to through our post histories, let's compare.

What's with you and post histories, you must be one sneaky, snivelly goblin.

And to think you bet your last coin that the earlier poster was igbo makes you no less a hypocrite.

Way to score some cheap likes.

And yes, cry to the mods, that what you are known for.

MasterChen:




Una two foolish sotey una carry NCAN enter this kain thread.
I can bet my last coin you clowns are from land of the rising potopoto
Ilakaye jina si yin gan ni agbegbe yen

Oro lo so. Awon omo ati oko wa ba ile je. Omo iran ki ran.

they want Nigeria to banned snipper abi, una plan no go work..... snipper is my only fast enemy killer cockroaches

I don't know why one will choose to take life you can't create because of challenges, and there is still people in the street living with one eye, one leg no food, fatherless and motherless and still happy, they don't think of dying, I don't know if I should be angry with the deceased but is really nonsense.

MasterChen:


Baba..abeg epp us drop that picture. Mi o s'ako, mo n bebe ni

1 Awolowo = 3 Million dead _of ibos_

BiafraAngitator:
They need to behave if they don't want that reminder. Let them keep Awolowo and Abiola out of their smelly mouths. First to do no dey pain.

That would only amount to a wishful thinking. Something about one's worst nightmare, the mind hardly disconnect.
Without the mentioning of those two legendary, they'd sure experience shorter life span.

Many more misery on their skulls

StephDamielola:
Sweet Dami, I know it's depression. I know something is bothering you but you don't want to share with your friends because of their long mouths. They will spill it out for the whole world to know which is why most girls have their best friend being a male. You needed a confidant but couldn't find one. You probably didn't tell your Mum because she is the religious type or your Dad because he is the overrated disciplinarian.

Dami, I wish you never took your life. That was never the best option. If only you had waited for sometime. Time would have healed all.

Rest in Peace Beauty

You are right about depression being part of her reason for committing suicide.
Depression and mental health issues are very real and the sooner the society finds a way to tackle it, the better it will be for everyone.
We must mourn the dead and wonder why she did it within us, but we must not fold our arms in helplessness until another sad suicide occurs again.

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[s]Una two foolish sotey una carry NCAN enter this kain thread.

I can bet my last coin you clowns are from land of the rising potopoto

Ilakaye jina si yin gan ni agbegbe yen [[/s]/quote] See this otapiapia drinking people

she has selfesteem and friends that say good about her and yet she commited...what if she was in my shoes? low selfesteem and no friends, i wonder what she wld have done. anyway, she wont die again rip.

Can't waste my Precious R.I.P to an act even God himself condemned.

No one has the rights to take his or her life no matter the situation.

NO R.I.P TO YOU DAMILOLA ADEGOKE and both the past and pending guys trying to commit suicide.

RIP

Hopefully she will find peace! I can't even judge people that commit suicide because I don't know what kind of hell they must have been going though! That been said, even if you will commit suicide why do it in a painful way!? Men, if I ever find myself at that breaking point my method will definitely be pain free!

Oh God , please help us the youths ,renew our lives and restore the minds of the depressed
I dreamt two months ago, that a lot of youths were boarding a plane to the world beyond . I was so surprised to see lots of young people boarding it.

Lord please have mercy and restore the minds of youth to positive thinking and erase despair and desperation amen .

May her soul rest in peace

crotonite:
she has selfesteem and friends that say good about her and yet she commited...what if she was in my shoes? low selfesteem and no friends, i wonder what she wld have done. anyway, she wont die again rip.

This post is sad.

Theres only one way to have friends. Be friendly. Check up on people. Work on truly caring for others and get ur mind off urself. Everyone wants to be around someone dts real and truly cares.

StephDamielola:



Jeezzz

How could you say this?

Don't you have a heart?

Don't you feel?

Are you an Alien?

Such a loss and you are being tribalistic?

Damn! This generation is lost

zxcvb:


God bless u
well could I get to know u?

Na so, life goes on.

Incomplete story

RIP though. If at all you deserve it