This guy asked me out last year and I agreed. We have been dating for the past 1 year(or so I thought). Fast forward to 2017: I caught him sending love messages to several girls in our class on WhatsApp, he said it wont happen again but just on Friday last week, I just found out that he has not stopped this behaviour. He was sick and I offered to come visit him but he said I should not bother but then he asked sb else to come visit him. His words to her were " I wish you were here with me" We talked about it and he said that what I always view on his phone is not real in reality and that I mean a lot to him. I don't know what to do.... Your nice comments will be appreciated.... im thinking of calling it quits....

dingdang .... the program don start oo.. 91.3 FM ... carry popcorn... u would enjoy the show..

Im just curious, what class?

wahles:
Im just curious, what class?

We're both in medical school

y are u always on his phone?

You love him more than he loves you

Real in reality?




You don't have a boyfriend sister.

Isn't it crystal clear you're dealing with a fùckboy?, Accepting the reality on ground is your problem 'cause you're in love with him, not that you need any advice.

BEG96:
This guy asked me out last year and I agreed. We have been dating for the past 1 year(or so I thought). Fast forward to 2017: I caught him sending love messages to several girls in our class on WhatsApp, he said it wont happen again but just on Friday last week, I just found out that he has not stopped this behaviour. He was sick and I offered to come visit him but he said I should not bother but then he asked sb else to come visit him. His words to her were " I wish you were here with me" We talked about it and he said that what I always view on his phone is not real in reality and that I mean a lot to him. I don't know what to do.... Your nice comments will be appreciated.... im thinking of calling it quits....

(1) he doesn't love you.
(2) to him, you're a sex object. He's using you to cure his conji.
(3) trust your instincts

Casanova spotted!


DELETE HIM ASAP!

I pity the babes that date his type.

BEG96:


We're both in medical school

you know what to do already, u know what he is already. Convince yourself first... you really dnt need to be told what to do. I believe u r smart enuf to know

So becos he's dating u, he dosen't have d right to talk to other ladies? U need to work on ur security issues.

OP, the ministers of dating, relationship affairs and personal emotion have commented.


You have the solution to the issue.

You just need a safe ground to stand upon, hence you brought the issue here.

you know what the dude is, buh your love life is dribbling ur instinct.

So my sister, do the needful.


Modified:

Comman give d ministers feedback o

Which kain English be that

ivyy:
Which kain English be that

Obsolete

BEG96:
This guy asked me out last year and I agreed. We have been dating for the past 1 year(or so I thought). Fast forward to 2017: I caught him sending love messages to several girls in our class on WhatsApp, he said it wont happen again but just on Friday last week, I just found out that he has not stopped this behaviour. He was sick and I offered to come visit him but he said I should not bother but then he asked sb else to come visit him. His words to her were " I wish you were here with me" We talked about it and he said that what I always view on his phone is not real in reality and that I mean a lot to him. I don't know what to do.... Your nice comments will be appreciated.... im thinking of calling it quits....

Please proceed with this action at once. You have everyone's approval.

I hope you find someone soon who is worthy of your time.

Olanrefront3355:



Obsolete

Lmao

Lol op...i hope ur decision will b based on wat ur guy wrote there Are u nt confused too?

Am sorry.
Real in reality.
U means a lot.

My sister, run for your life. By their English you will know them.

Call it quits, focus on school and go on to better things. How many times do you have to be punched beside you realise you are in a fight? Finally make new friends.

It keeps throwing my imagination how "good" girls end up with suckers.

kateskitty:
Am sorry.
Real in reality.
U means a lot.

My sister, run for your life. By their English you will know them.

By their English!!

BEG96:
This guy asked me out last year and I agreed. We have been dating for the past 1 year(or so I thought). Fast forward to 2017: I caught him sending love messages to several girls in our class on WhatsApp, he said it wont happen again but just on Friday last week, I just found out that he has not stopped this behaviour. He was sick and I offered to come visit him but he said I should not bother but then he asked sb else to come visit him. His words to her were " I wish you were here with me" We talked about it and he said that what I always view on his phone is not real in reality and that I mean a lot to him. I don't know what to do.... Your nice comments will be appreciated.... im thinking of calling it quits....

My dear op, you had better go on with Your decision..let me share a little experience with you..

My ex would always send romantic messages to her male buddies and claims that they aren't what she meant in reality..on several occasions I have caught her lying and she has betrayed my trust for her..

imagine one of the messages I saw on her whatsapp.

'babe how far, when you go reach my side, I wan fork you na' and she replied 'I never know'

when I accosted her she told me that she actually wasn't going to go to his place and that she didn't mean what she typed.. there are so many others that I have even forgotten sef..

The best I could do at that point in time was to call it quit and now I am a free man.. do yourself the favour and run for your life..

thanks

Gpopsicle:



My dear op, you had better go on with Your decision..let me share a little experience with you..

My ex would always send romantic messages to her male buddies and claims that they aren't what she meant in reality..on several occasions I have caught her lying and she has betrayed my trust for her..

imagine one of the messages I saw on her whatsapp.

'babe how far, when you go reach my side, I wan fork you na' and she replied 'I never know'

when I accosted her she told me that she actually wasn't going to go to his place and that she didn't mean what she typed.. there are so many others that I have even forgotten sef..

The best I could do at that point in time was to call it quit and now I am a free man.. do yourself the favour and run for your life..

thanks

bro i followed that ur thread abt ur gf.. Mehn u really liked that ur girl thank God ur are done with her

Thanks alot all. I really appreciate your upbuilding comments...

kateskitty:
Am sorry.
Real in reality.
U means a lot.

My sister, run for your life. By their English you will know them.

ooooh lawd!! , somebody cannot mk mistake in peace

kimbra:
Isn't it crystal clear you're dealing with a fùckboy?, Accepting the reality on ground is your problem 'cause you're in love with him, not that you need any advice.

you again!!..are now working for MTN(every you go)?..
i hv been seeing your post on every threat i open today
babe you must be very bored at home.

Joshrob:

you again!!..are now working for MTN(every you go)?..
i hv been seeing your post on every threat i open today
babe you must be very bored at home.

I'm bored and jobless at the interim.

BEG96:

We're both in medical school

which medical school please??

BEG96:
This guy asked me out last year and I agreed. We have been dating for the past 1 year(or so I thought). Fast forward to 2017: I caught him sending love messages to several girls in our class on WhatsApp, he said it wont happen again but just on Friday last week, I just found out that he has not stopped this behaviour. He was sick and I offered to come visit him but he said I should not bother but then he asked sb else to come visit him. His words to her were " I wish you were here with me" We talked about it and he said that what I always view on his phone is not real in reality and that I mean a lot to him. I don't know what to do.... Your nice comments will be appreciated.... im thinking of calling it quits....

Don't call it quits yet, what kind of nonsense is that? You're supposed to call it quits after he has finished destroying your life. Then you can go and buy a new life. They sell extra life at discounted rates at Idumota market, ok?

Face the fact he is cheating so o gini uzo ka echoro as prove? I no is never easy to let go off someone you love but dear if you face the reality you will embrace it with all your heart. Dearie never fight over a house when a city is waiting for you so be strong.