This is the major reason why i always say that relationship is for matured minds and not babies that are now all over the places.

In a mature relationship, no one will be contemplating on who to call the most as it is the responsibility of the two involved.

A relationship is for two people who are ready to submit their ego and everything to each other as you need to start preparing to be seeing yourselves as one, this will not happen after marriage as it begins from relationship.

Understanding is one vital attribute here which must not be found wanting unless you want an unhealthy relationship filled with arguments and displeasure.

If you say it is the duty of guy to call you always what happens when he is short of airtime and possibly if he is financially incapable?

What about if he isn't even strong to dial your number and you are there thinking your phone will ring any time soon and you refuse to reach him when it is long overdue. How will you know his well being if after you expected the call for long and he is in the hospital bed?

If you have the airtime why not just call him and also save him some airtime to call you later?

At times our minds work differently, there will be a time you will miss him and you will feel like hearing his voice, why not call him to this period and let him feel loved.

You don't need to wait for him or her to always call you. In an ideal relationship, he shouldn't be the only one doing the calling, it is a collective responsibility.

Even this days in marriage, everything should be collective responsibility, it shouldn't be the man alone that must work to sustain the home as there a little job women can do to fetch little income and to take care of the home at the same time.

If you are expecting just him to be calling always you have defined the relationship you want and there is large possibility that the relationship will collapse untimely.

Don't make him feel you are a burden, let him enjoy your partnership no matter how little your impact may be as relationship is best enjoyed when you share the sense of responsibility.

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Source: http://bamisepeters..in/2017/05/understand-who-to-call-most-in.html

I can't believe people need to be advised on this matter. Am I sharing this forum with children or there are adults who need to be reminded

Dimples182:
I can't believe people need to be advised on this matter. Am I sharing this forum with children or there are adults who need to be reminded

you are sharing the forum with kids and also adults who need to be reminded...




@ op.. Submission of ego... Nice one...I love this line

Dimples182:
I can't believe people need to be advised on this matter. Am I sharing this forum with children or there are adults who need to be reminded

how many time u done call me