In a not too distant time ago, men were demi-god like beings.They were held in high esteem and worshipped by members of the opposite gender. They dominated every sphere of human political and socio economic activities, being a man gave you an automatic ticket to be anything you want, unlike the female gender who were limited by glass ceiling. This demi god like status remained the Orthodox in Africa until late 1990s.The Status Quo didn't change because of the emergence of feminist rather it changed because Men became weaker.

There certainly cannot be two captains in one ship, else the ship is headed for doom likewise in Male-Female relationship.There certainly has to be the dominator, which is usually a masculine figure.Even in Lesbian Homosexual relationship there is usually the Stud who posses the masculine energy and the the femme exuding feminine energy

They no longer felt the need to weild their masculine wiles which kept the females subjected to them. They became TOO NICE, transferring some previously exclusive powers to the females subliminally which in turn gave women the MANIPULATIVE Power Thus power shifted gradually to the female folks.

Albeit, demi-god like men are still around, the bulk of the male gender are sex starved wussbags. Being a real man comes naturally for some while others learn it like any other skill.I'll be outlining the necessary steps to be a real man

1) Always remain calm in tough situations

Staying calm during tough situation gives you the edge of making a more rational decision unlike when you're perturbed and unsettled. This masculine trait makes men even more attractive, which explains why the female folks always looked up to men to make decisions for them.

2) Freedom
One of the biggest masculine trait is freedom. Freedom from commitment to anybody;freedom from the manipulative grip of any woman be it your mother or or your gf;freedom from being dependent on anybody for livelihood. A man would do anything possible to always be FREE.

3)Women will always make Weird/absurd choices

I'm sure you've at one point been baffled at how women make weird choices/decisions. Its in their configuration, even science has proved that women have smaller brain compared to men. You'll have to learn to live with it as a man. In such instances, show empathy, guide her, treat her like you would treat your daughter.

4) Your purpose is your utmost priority
The basic masculine priority is the accomplishment of his purpose.It has been ingrained in him by nature of his upbringing to always put the HUSTLE first then other things will follow while on the The female folks right from their weeny days are raised to learn how to please their masters(men).chasing women and other luxury should not precede following your purpose.


5) Always strive to be one step ahead

Whilst dealing with women, never allow your Emotions cloud your logical reasoning. You should always be ahead of her in areas of intelligence, finance, self confidence etc if she happens to lead you in one facet make sure you beat her in five, the reason is because she's been raised to believe she's a princess and deserves to be treated like one, in a case where the princess starts taking care of the king, it will kill her sense of admiration of you because the roles have been reversed.

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