There are several reasons a guy can hover around you or allow access into his life without loving you.
One of such reasons is if he is getting jeru trip.
He simply wants that without any strings attached.
He wants the benefit of jeru trip without marital commitment.
Another reason is if he gets financial favor from you. He would simply keep leading you on so as to keep getting the financial favor but has no intention of marrying you.
Here are a few tell tale signs that he doesn’t not love you and he would not marry you.
1. He will stop calling you
He will manipulate you to a point where he stops calling you, while you do all the calling.
The only time he would call you is when he wants jeru trip or he needs financial favor.
Such relationships are not worth staying!
Move on and trust God for a man that will love you without toying with your emotions.
2. He will avoid picking your calls
He will not pick your calls except when he needs something from you.
He keeps telling you that he loves you but that he is busy.
Something is not quite right.
No matter how busy a person is, he would stay in touch if he is in love! Click To Tweet
Even when he is in one military establishment where phones are not allowed, he would still find time to sneak somewhere in order to hear your voice.
As a lady, don’t be coerced into becoming the aggressor.
You are the responder in a relationship.
Allow him to drive the relationship and if he is not driving it, get down from the vehicle. Click To Tweet
3. He would never promise a particular date
A man who doesn’t love you and has no intention of marrying will never give you specific date.
If you force him to promise a certain date, he would keep postponing that date. That date would never come!
He would keep telling you he needs to settle some things.
It is somehow to borrow a guy some money so that he can settle down to marry you. Click To Tweet
That shows irresponsibility on his part and some desperate move on your part and every time you are desperate, you are making a mistake.
Isa 28:16 (KJV)
Therefore thus saith the Lord GOD, Behold, I lay in Zion for a foundation a stone, a tried stone, a precious corner stone, a sure foundation: he that believeth shall not make haste.
4. He will never introduce you to any authority figures
Beware of a man who refuses to introduce you to any authority figures in his life.
You don’t know his parents, you don’t know his siblings, you don’t know his pastors, you don’t know anything about his family, ad yet he is promising marriage?
Is he Melchizedek who has no beginning and ending?
Beware of such men. A relationship is not a secret cult. It is not a fraternity that must be kept oblivious.
It is supposed to be joyful thing and he should be excited to announce it to whoever has ears!
5. He gets irritated when you mention the word ‘wedding”
Anytime you try to bring up discussions about wedding or settling down, he gets angry!
He says you are rushing him.
And yet he wants you around every weekend to come and cook and wash boxers! Click To Tweet
Dear daughter, never ever subject yourself to such harrowing experiences. You are much more precious before God.
Never give permission to a man to turn you into a sexual toy, to gratify his lust, satisfy his rush of adrenaline, all in your bid to get married.
Compromise will never secure a relationship, it scatters it!
Prayerfully allow God to work things out for you.
Trust him, and don’t succumb to compromise because of the pressures around you.
Follow God’s time table, stick with His map, use His compass and you will never regret.

True talk.