Women are truly different. I have known this particular girl for close to 4 years but we ain't really dating or so i think. I have seen all there is to see when it comes to knowing if a girl likes you or not. She buys me stuff on my birthday but honestly I can't remember her birthday, not because I don't care to know but because I have not made it a duty to keep it to memory....and she doesn't really care. If I invite her over, she will ask, 'why do you want to see me and the next thing, she is in my house about 30 minutes later.

This has been our relationship overtime and I don't really ask her to do anything for me whenever she comes .
Today she got angry and burst out, 'everytime you will ask me to come, you will not tell me to cook, wash your clothes, clean your house or do anything , you will just be calling me. What do you want me to do for you?
That was when I discovered that this lady wants something more engaging. I deliberately avoid asking her to do those things so that it won't look as if I owe her love or marriage or she begins to expect something more serious from me.

I need a homely girl for a wife but I don't really love this lady; don't wanna love out of pity.

Should I tell her off?

The story is not complete.

What exactly is your relationship with her?i know you said you guys are not dating,but the part you did not mention is if there is anything se.xual going on.

yes naa

You slept with her? If you did then you may have led her on. You caused this to escalate Four years of leading her on is hardly fair to her. You might have not said you wanted a relationship but certainly behaved as if you were in one. What you did was cruel.

MissRaine69:
You slept with her? If you did then you may have led her on. You caused this to escalate Four years of leading her on is hardly fair to her. You might have not said you wanted a relationship but certainly behaved as if you were in one. What you did was cruel.

If all these while, I didn't make advances, won't she call me impotent? Because that's what you girls do

HungerBAD:
The story is not complete.

What exactly is your relationship with her?i know you said you guys are not dating,but the part you did not mention is if there is anything se.xual going on.

Do you want her to call me impotent?

Destined2win:
If all these while, I didn't make advances, won't she call me impotent? Because that's what you girls do

I can't speak for all women you will have to ask them.Have boundaries simple as that, what do you call that situation then? Friendship ,pseudo-relationship? You created a mess for yourself here.

You slept with her and u don't want to marry her out of pity


But u can f.uck her out of pity
The girl Don enter one chance.

so all u do is invite her over just to 'smash' for good 4years like that's is enough to get a degree right I won't really blame u I blame the girl like four years and u guys don't know the type of relationship you re having. Both of u re confused . And as for u Mr impotent u want to continue smashing without nothing attached continue o

Antonblack:
so all u do is invite her over just to 'smash' for good 4years like that's is enough to get a degree right I won't really blame u I blame the girl like four years and u guys don't know the type of relationship you re having. Both of u re confused . And as for u Mr impotent u want to continue smashing without nothing attached continue o

You have concluded that I 'smashed ' her

sexybbstar:
You slept with her and u don't want to marry her out of pity



But u can f.uck her out of pity

The girl Don enter one chance.

Did I tell you I slept with her?

MissRaine69:

I can't speak for all women you will have to ask them.Have boundaries simple as that, what do you call that situation then? Friendship ,pseudo-relationship? You created a mess for yourself here.

From past experiences, I don't touch a girl, she goes to say such things. BTW, didn't say we had sex

[quote author=Destined2win post=57388686] From past experiences, I don't touch a girl, she goes to say such things. BTW, didn't say we had sex[/quote
Your situation is still messy. This is the problem when you create expectation.

4 years of steady Knacking. This life ehn.

Op You be real MVP.

[quote author=MissRaine69 post=57388902][/quote]So what do you advice

Destined2win:
Women are truly different. I have known this particular girl for close to 4 years but we ain't really dating or so i think. I have seen all there is to see when it comes to knowing if a girl likes you or not. She buys me stuff on my birthday but honestly I can't remember her birthday, not because I don't care to know but because I have not made it a duty to keep it to memory....and she doesn't really care. If I invite her over, she will ask, 'why do you want to see me and the next thing, she is in my house about 30 minutes later.

This has been our relationship overtime and I don't really ask her to do anything for me whenever she comes .
Today she got angry and burst out, 'everytime you will ask me to come, you will not tell me to cook, wash your clothes, clean your house or do anything , you will just be calling me. What do you want me to do for you?
That was when I discovered that this lady wants something more engaging. I deliberately avoid asking her to do those things so that it won't look as if I owe her love or marriage or she begins to expect something more serious from me.

I need a homely girl for a wife but I don't really love this lady; don't wanna love out of pity.

Should I tell her off?

I see. But whenever u wanna file you call her ryt? Pls free the lady. ... Time waster

samyfreshsmooth:
Bro we the humble members of the "FUCKBOYS ASSOCIATION (FBA)" have decided to promote you from an ordinary "fuckboy" to a "fuckboy in chief" of our dignified association
cos bros u are super evil

how can you fvck a girl for four bleeping years and not expect her to expect you to marry her?

Na you sabi

Nma27:
I see. But whenever u wanna file you call her ryt? Pls free the lady. ... Time waster

Please don't call me time waster. Never promised her marriage

Destined2win:
So what do you advice

What you wrote in the post ,say that to her.

I phucking hate n!ggaz like u,you already know wat yuh doing n here u r talking sh!t,if u don't c any future wiv her just let her know n if she decides to stay,then dats her choice,meanwhile just shut d phuck up...

MissRaine69:

What you wrote in the post ,say that to her.

No nah.
Don't wanna marry her please

Tell your story in a simple way make the elders epp & advice ur matter,bro. I bet na 'like this-like this' you carry innuendos lead the poor girl on for 4 years because this ur story's quite fudged up o.

And you need to cut loose and give her closure before sturvs get all explosive and your monicker changes from Destined2Win to Destined2Flee because she's trying to turn you to Destined2Die!

I like defining sturvs early on, it saves a lot even though it aint exactly foolproof against things getting messy later.

Decide fast, work out a disengagement plan to let her off easy (she deserves to find love elsewhere if you can't give her). Don't be moved by tears or whatever, work that breakup-plan like ur life depended on it; you have some penance to do, so, get to it!
/take a hint, best tell her you just found out your HIV-status or something so she can ultimately feel better about herself, don't play the tribal card, she'll kill ya, trust me!

PS
I no teach u lie-lie o ; u don join Badt Gang already .

this is evil...after good whooping four years?haba, and u came here to tell us u don't wanna love out of pity..


op I pity ur life..just free the girl biko

Destined2win:
No nah.
Don't wanna marry her please

Stop sleeping with her and tell her you have been wasting her time for four years. Let her go. You do know what you continue to do is just selfish.

MissRaine69:

Stop sleeping with her and tell her you have been wasting her time for four years. Let her go. You do know what you continue to do is just selfish.

I have already told her she can marry; never promised her marriage. She even talks about bringing her wedding IV to me soon

sekxy:
this is evil...after good whooping four years?haba, and u came here to tell us u don't wanna love out of pity..


op I pity ur life..just free the girl biko

I show her cold feet a lot of times yet she can't stop being my friend. You wan make I pursue am

Destined2win:
I have already told her she can marry; never promised her marriage. She even talks about bringing her wedding IV to me soon

Oh my goodness are you that naive?
There is no other man or wedding she says these things in the hope that it will make you jealous. You know what, you will forever have problems in any relationships you have!

Destined2win:
I show her cold feet a lot of times yet she can't stop being my friend. You wan make I pursue am

excuse. .and all those 4 years u couldn't define your relationship with her?

please tell me something worth listening to

MissRaine69:

Oh my goodness are you that naive?
There is no other man or wedding she says these things in the hope that it will make you jealous. You know what, you will forever have problems in any relationships you have!

Don't you think what you said to me was too harsh?

sekxy:

excuse. .and all those 4 years u couldn't define your relationship with her?

please tell me something worth listening to

OK we are just friends and she says it too

Destined2win:
OK we are just friends and she says it too

u are just contradicting ur post..