This is a response to a question i was asked.

The girl told the guy the next day she had s3x with a guy after she was drunk.

Personally, I think we are humans and are bound to make mistakes, though some mistakes can be unforgivable but we just need to find the forgiving spirit because it might be our turn tomorrow.

"She really tried to have told you, other ladies out there will never mention it and you will think they are holy.

It means she really loves you and her conscience couldn't allow her to keep it as it might come up in the future which may be unforgivable by then.

Please pretend it didn't happen and move on, make her realise alcoholic drinks are not meant for her through series of cool communication and the need for her to desist from what can make such act come to reality again must be elaborated".

That was my response and it goes beyond this. When you are addicted to alcohol, things of this type are bound to happen.

If you did not destroy yourself you will destroy others because their secret can never be secured with you.

You will expose them and destroy yourself unknowingly, you only get to know when you are relieved, but what about the harm that has already been done?

Like i said earlier, he needs to forgive the girl, it wouldn't be easy, and the memory will keep lingering, but he must learn to clear it off with activities when the memory comes to mind, this is the only way he can survive with her in the relationship.

This is not just for the guy but for others in relationship, it wouldn't be smooth as we think it will be but with forgiving spirit and perseverance you will overcome the thorns.

Please feel free to add your advise or comment

Source: http://www.bamisepeters..com/2017/06/what-to-do-after-she-confessed-she-did.html

send her away under the influence of weed

Boys and Girls has no right to premarital sex. Not to talk of exclusive access to their private parts. By Boys and Girls i mean anyone who hasnt tasted matrimony. Assuming you are refering to married people, then your opinion comes in. Small boys should stop destroying people's daughters future. Likewise the girls ruining the destiny of our young boys in the name of affair..
Note: Even if you like be 50yrs, as long as you are still unmarried ... you are still in this category.
Shoult out to my fellow married peeps.
Ndi Nne maama ... isokwa
Ndi Nna paapa ... isokwa

Kwaba nu iko na onwerrooo
*drops mic*

Since its the influence game



Be under your own influence and tell her to F--K OFF

I quote


"She really tried to have told you, other ladies out there will never mention it and you will think they are holy.
It means she really loves you and her conscience couldn't allow her to keep it as it might come up in the future which may be unforgivable by then.
Please pretend it didn't happen and move on, make her realise alcoholic drinks are not meant for her through series of cool communication and the need for her to desist from what can make such act come to reality again must be elaborated".







Take glass cup, u don take am ?? throw it at d wall... e break ?? good !! now say sorry to it and go buy super glue, gum d pieces of d cup together... were u able to fix it ?? no ?? Now u knw....




the heart is like a glass, you just dont break it, say sorry to it and expect the other person to just look away

Would by her alcohol nd do my own...

I would ask her is she moaned , if her answer is yes its over but if she said no I go probate her.

Even if I wanto react

The basic question I ask when I hear such stories is; why put yourself in such a position in the first place?

OZAOEKPE:
I would ask her is she moaned , if her answer is yes its over but if she said no I go probate her.

lol, it could be you too as no one is above mistake.

Apina:
The basic question I ask when I hear such stories is; why put yourself in such a position in the first place?

devil smiled at her and she reciprocated.

chiwetaluAGU:
Boys and Girls has no right to premarital sex. Not to talk of exclusive access to their private parts. By Boys and Girls i mean anyone who hasnt tasted matrimony. Assuming you are refering to married people, then your opinion comes in. Small boys should stop destroying people's daughters future. Likewise the girls ruining the destiny of our young boys in the name of affair..
Note: Even if you like be 50yrs, as long as you are still unmarried ... you are still in this category.
Shoult out to my fellow married peeps.
Ndi Nne maama ... isokwa
Ndi Nna paapa ... isokwa

Kwaba nu iko na onwerrooo
*drops mic*

you are completely on point