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Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by akpur1(m): 5:03pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
please accept my grammatical mistakes am not in the right state of mind, please i need your advise on this relationship issues. My girlfriend told me she had a confession to make that she cheated with a guy that she met on Facebook two weeks ago, she told me this guy came from akwa ibom and slept in the apartment i rented for her and they had sex. I have tried to do the best I can do for her comfort, but I felt she has stabbed me in my heart ❤️. Should i still continue with her because am really confused Lalasticala |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by TrapHedges(m): 5:05pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Smoke 1 bro after that... Move on with ller and cheat back.. If she forgives u.. Then u forgive ller also... Make sure she catches u cheating. 1 Like |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by dingbang(m): 5:09pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Lmao.... |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by horlahwaley(m): 5:10pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Feel ur pain bro. I stopped trusting woman when my girlfriend in primary 3 left me for a guy that bought eraser for her. hoes aint loyal. 8 Likes |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Guilty conscious must have made her confess. Your relationship will definitely not go the way it initial was before the cheating. If you can manage a cheat, then give it a try. |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by jieta: 5:13pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
were you the one that disvirgin her i quest not so what is the big deal, people have been drilling the hole before you came on board so what is the fuse all about. |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
horlahwaley:LMAO. I know you're joking. |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by newyorks(m): 5:14pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
confessing does nt make one a better person. the question is hope she won't still cheat again! give her another chance but she bleeped up big time. |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by mgdimagaladima(m): 5:17pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
U need to forgive her.... Since she is the only that tell u......she remorse doing it coz she didn't do it intentional,.... Believe me she is good wife..... JUST FORGIVE HER |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by Newboss(m): 5:18pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Benita27:If it were you, would you have confessed? |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by smardray(m): 5:19pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Bruh u ar only heart-broken,some are life-broken.. Ur own beta jare |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Newboss:I haven't had a reason to confess cheating to anyone. |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by Newboss(m): 5:22pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Benita27:But if you cheat on your boyfriend or husband, will you confess to him? |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by jworos(m): 5:26pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Forgive her and move on with your life... The thought of another dude lashing her will be in your head often, you go dey reason all the positions they tried, the number of times she came!!! Chaii 1 Like |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by Kondomatic(m): 5:28pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Rented an apartment for a girlfriend? You need common sense not advise. 1 Like |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by RedBeauty: 5:29pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
If she is truly sorry and you still love her, you can give it a go Is it long term relationship? |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by Nobody: 5:31pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Newboss:I won't cheat on my husband so there won't be future confessions. Boyfriend, don't know yet 'cause I haven't done that too. |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by akpur1(m): 5:32pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
RedBeauty:we met last year september |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by 0b100100111: 5:33pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
You should be thinking of how to use her for money rituals! You can never be healed! Forget trying too! So take advantage of the anger! 2 Likes |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by akpur1(m): 5:34pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Kondomatic:i swear really need common sense |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by teehamzat(m): 5:41pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
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Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by madridguy(m): 5:51pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
You deserves thunderous slap to reset your number 6. In your life don't repeat such mistake. Oya right now go and pursue her away from the apartment. akpur1: |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by teehamzat(m): 5:51pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
You really need sense forced into your brain, i mean what kind of a man are you? Renting an apartment for a mere gf?...ure a joker, so she bleeps some dude in that same apartment and youre pained...serves you right, i guess she's got enough balls than you do.. My advice?..let the bitch go..if it happens the first time ,itd happen again..nd how are you gonna overcome the thought?...your mind will forever be directed towards that thought everytime she dosent pick up your calls, insecurities sets in...i can guarantee you would still lose out at the end God!..what effontry 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by phoenixthefirst(m): 6:03pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
You think she won't cheat again if you forgive her just because she confessed?! She wasn't supposed to cheat in the first place, right? Yet, she did. You see? She would cheat again. The issue with you is that you are in love with her and you don't know what to do. And you know what? Once you forgive her, she knows she can continue to cheat as long as she wants and as long as you still love her. |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by eezeribe(m): 6:06pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
0b100100111:Best suggestion on this thread. |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by Fernandowski(m): 6:07pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
smoke some weed play video games............ do what makes you happy and try forgetting about her you will be fine 1 Like |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by wristbangle: 6:14pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
You can forgive but don't accept her back. I don't want to bore you with the analysis of your girlfriend cheating in a rented apartment you paid for a guy who did not even spend a kobo on her which this shows how cheap she is. It must be painful what you are going through at the moment but with time the ugly memory will erase. There are faithful ladies in the society who will appreciate your sincerity and love. It's her loss not yours bro, so man up sire. |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by Apina(m): 7:15pm On Jun 15, 2017 |
Make sure u take every ounce of flesh equal to that house rent in that very room till its expiry date and on d last day of the rent, end it with an all night vigil |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by Gpopsicle(m): 8:48am On Jun 16, 2017 |
akpur1: op permit me to call you a fool for asking If you should continue with her.. she confessed now doesn't mean that she won't cheat again.. trust me those tears are crocodile ones and I think you're soft. she is insulting your intelligence brother. man up and wake up, ditch this bitch and have a free life.. insecurity and trust issues would arise..save your head and stop acting so foolishly foolish. |
Re: Am Heartbroken Need Your Advice by Nobody: 9:20am On Jun 16, 2017 |
let me deal with this post: Now, it baffles me when someone talks about heartbreak after he/she discovers that their partner has not been faithful... it sickening... Knowing fully well that she/he s just another man's daughter/ son who choosed and agreed to be ur girlfriend/ boyfriend and not ur wife/ husband. Though it can be alarming if u are serious about the relationship and have plans to take a step forward toward matrimony. But if u ever find a lady/guy to be unfaithful, go on ur knees and thank God for revealing it to u... cos it will only help u in making better decisions about the relationship.The term cheating in a relationship goes with falsehood, deception, insolence and disregard... someone once asked me what would be my reaction if l caught my girl cheating...and my response was " l ll leave a carefree poker face from then onwards... enjoy the better side of her personality... but will never end the relationship but won't consider or think of her as my wife. And if she chooses to call it quit, then it will be her fault not mine... and when the next guy comes around and is curious enough to want to know what happened in her previous relationship she lies again instead of saying " l cheated on my boyfriend and broke up with him" Lolz... it goes on and on like that! shekina!!! |
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