When You're In A 'Do me I Do You' Relationship/Marriage

A tit for tat relationship is when both parties are not faithful to each other. When the other person decide to cheat(payback), simply cos his or her partner is also cheating on him or her. There are people who are in such a relationship. And they do such cos their commitment and love for the other person is not too strong. Any couple(married or dating) who find themselves in a tit for tat relationship to me, don't have any business been together in the first place. The fact that someone has done something unjust or dishonest is no justification for acting in a similar way. Two wrongs don't make a right. Cos you caught him/her cheating doesn't mean you should start doing the same thing (some girls are fond of doing this a lot). That's not an act of maturity at all. If you have a partner who is finding it difficult to be faithful or womanize a lot, if you cant tolerate or endure it, the right thing to do is to quit the relationship, and move on with your life... Don't get yourself stained or messed up cos of another person...

Trash.

True life story

I do agree with you.

If your 'boyfriend' cheats on you then he's automatically lost the title..why do the tit for tat ish?
There's no need to stoop to his level.

But then...opinions differ,each to his own.

End the relationship if he cheats on you. Idiots

I cannot stand betrayal and if you break the trust between us then there is no way for the relationship to ever work again...we're done , I can not live with someone who does not give me all when I have given them my all. Instead of getting back at you by cheating also , I would use my time to heal and move on. With all the diseases around why would I play games with my health just to spite someone or keep an unhealthy relationship.

Lionessza:
I cannot stand betrayal and if you break the trust between us then there is no way for the relationship to ever work again...we're done , I can not live with someone who does not give me all when I have given them my all. Instead of getting back at you by cheating also , I would use my time to heal and move on. With all the diseases around why would I play games with my health just to spite someone or keep an unhealthy relationship.

Bottom line. Point blank.

How are you feeling? Is the fever gone?

Lionessza:
I cannot stand betrayal and if you break the trust between us then there is no way for the relationship to ever work again...we're done , I can not live with someone who does not give me all when I have given them my all. Instead of getting back at you by cheating also , I would use my time to heal and move on. With all the diseases around why would I play games with my health just to spite someone or keep an unhealthy relationship.

you on point

Understand the nature of your partner’s cheating. People cheat for many different reasons and it is not always about sex.
Sometimes people cheat because they are seeking an emotional connection, trying to deal with a loss or crisis, or seeking an escape. This is not an excuse or reason for the behavior, however. [1] Do not assume that your partner’s cheating was all about sex. Find out why they cheated before you move forward. Try telling your partner, "I need to know why you cheated and who it was.
Please be honest with me and tell me what happened."
Be aware that they may not really know why the infidelity happened. They may not really have deeply thought about it, or even if they did, they still may not really know why. And there may be reasons not fully understood by the person.
This does not excuse it, but realize "I don't know" may be the honest answer.
Some common reason include:
Attraction to a different person.
A desire for attention, excitement, or novelty.
A troubled marriage: poor communication, stress in the marriage, partners growing apart.
If the person's parent was unfaithful (especially the same sex).
The individual comes from culture or subculture that expects and tolerates infidelity.
Mental illness or disorders. People who cheat are not mentally ill, but a mental illness such as bipolar disorder, depression, or even severe attention deficit disorder can all contribute to poor decision making.

Op you are finished,More women will come for your head

ZarZar:


Bottom line. Point blank.

How are you feeling? Is the fever gone?

I seriously don't understand why some people feel the need to force themselves on others. When someone goes out of their way to cheat on you ( which Is hard work ofcourse ) because he has to live like a fugitive, this to me means he's totally lost interest in the relationship and is just too cowardly to come clean. So why would I waste my energy and time competing with a greedy coward or sit around hoping and praying that one day he will come to his senses and see value in me again? Lol sick people.






I'm doing great girl, had a superb long weekend in the desert of Namibia with friends . The fever has been long gone. How are you?

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Lionessza:








I seriously don't understand why some people feel the need to force themselves on others. When someone goes out of their way to cheat on you ( which Is hard work ofcourse ) because he has to live like a fugitive, this to me means he's totally lost interest in the relationship and is just too cowardly to come clean. So why would I waste my energy and time competing with a greedy coward or sit around hoping and praying that one day he will come to his senses and see value in me again? Lol sick people.






I'm doing great girl, had a superb long weekend in the desert of Namibia with friends . The fever has been long gone. How are you?

hmmmmmm relationship is #hardwork#

Lionessza:








I seriously don't understand why some people feel the need to force themselves on others. When someone goes out of their way to cheat on you ( which Is hard work ofcourse ) because he has to live like a fugitive, this to me means he's totally lost interest in the relationship and is just too cowardly to come clean. So why would I waste my energy and time competing with a greedy coward or sit around hoping and praying that one day he will come to his senses and see value in me again? Lol sick people.






I'm doing great girl, had a superb long weekend in the desert of Namibia with friends . The fever has been long gone. How are you?

You should see the envy written all over my face when you mention a desert retreat That's cool. Hope you enjoyed yourself. As for me, I was cooped-up in the house, hibernating. The cold's been vicious over the weekend. Other than that, it's been normal. Glad to hear you've got the bounce back though.

ZarZar:


You should see the envy written all over my face when you mention a desert retreat That's cool. Hope you enjoyed yourself. As for me, I was couped-up in the house, hibernating. The cold's been vicious over the weekend. Other than that, it's been normal. Glad to hear you've got the bounce back though.

Hahahaha, i will take you with next time . I did , I love that country it's like a mini South Africa (drier and sandy version). Sure. Damn! It's cold ngoku, I hate winter. Thanks .

Lionessza:







Hahahaha, i will take you with next time . I did , I love that country it's like a mini South Africa (drier and sandy version). Sure. Damn! It's cold ngoku, I hate winter. Thanks .

ooooo kutheni emxelela malunga uhambo lwakho?
emdala uhlobo umona unkabi khumbula

Lionessza:



I seriously don't understand why some people feel the need to force themselves on others. When someone goes out of their way to cheat on you ( which Is hard work ofcourse ) because he has to live like a fugitive, this to me means he's totally lost interest in the relationship and is just too cowardly to come clean. So why would I waste my energy and time competing with a greedy coward or sit around hoping and praying that one day he will come to his senses and see value in me again? Lol sick people.






I'm doing great girl, had a superb long weekend in the desert of Namibia with friends . The fever has been long gone. How are you?

Oh this is why you was MIA?

LePrezident:


Oh this is why you was MIA?

Yes sir. How was your weekend?

Lionessza:







Hahahaha, i will take you with next time . I did , I love that country it's like a mini South Africa (drier and sandy version). Sure. Damn! It's cold ngoku, I hate winter. Thanks .

Kikiki Please, do take me. I'm broke but I'm sure you can smuggle me in, in a traveling bag It sounds great.

This cold is just unbearable. My soul dies a little in the winter months but what can we do? Just pile on the clothes & keep it moving to generate even more heat

Have a blessed week ahead, nana. Stay warm.

Martin0:
ooooo kutheni emxelela malunga uhambo lwakho?
emdala uhlobo umona unkabi khumbula

Lol, please translate that Xhosa for me. You used the right words but the sentence doesn't make much sense.

ZarZar:


Kikiki Please, do take me. I'm broke but I'm sure you can smuggle me in, in a traveling bag It sounds great.

This cold is just unbearable. My soul dies a little in the winter months but what can we do? Just pile on the clothes & keep it moving to generate even more heat

Have a blessed week ahead, nana. Stay warm.

. Yeah true that .



Same to you , babe.

Lionessza:









Lol, please translate that Xhosa for me. You used the right words but the sentence doesn't make much sense.

Why are u telling her abt ur trip,I know her she's too soft and might start getting jealous

Martin0:
ooooo kutheni emxelela malunga uhambo lwakho?
emdala uhlobo umona unkabi khumbula

Death by unkabi. LMFAO.

Martin0:
Why are u telling her abt ur trip,I know her she's too soft and might start getting jealous

I still don't get you...too soft? Might get jealous of what?.

Lionessza:









I still don't get you...too soft? Might get jealous of what?.

Namibia trip,she might start feeling emotional not to be there

ZarZar:

Death by unkabi. LMFAO.

Ndimema ukuba ubonise up ubuso bakho ke ndiya kukuxelela ukuba ungubani:

Martin0:
Ndimema ukuba ubonise up ubuso bakho ke ndiya
kukuxelela ukuba ungubani:

What, you read faces now? Hahaha. Please don't kee me with laughter, bro.

Martin0:
Namibia trip,she might start feeling emotional not to be there

Oh , then how about you come down here and take her there ? Just the two of you

ZarZar:


What, you read faces now? Hahaha. Please don't kee me with laughter, bro.

me I don't know ooo mr woman or mr man any1 u are show ur face

Martin0:
me I don't know ooo mr woman or mr man any1 u are show ur face

No

Lionessza:









Oh , then how about you come down here and take her there ? Just the two of you

Lionessza:









Oh , then how about you come down here and take her there ? Just the two of you

as friends or coz hmmm

ZarZar:

No

why did u do wrong?