All my life I have never dated or befriend any lady due to my introvert nature, oftentimes I like isolating myself from people thinking it's self-respect but people usually misunderstood me for been proud I hardly kick-start a conversation with people more especially strangers. Now the problem is I want to marry but I don't know how to toast a lady, the few times I tried I usually flop up because I ask to much questions within few minutes

Start by making friends and making girls your friend... You will automatically cross the bridge.

Even Jesus was a gay man
Ntin wrong bro
Just live ur life

MistaBabz:
All my life I have never dated or befriend any lady due to my introvert nature, oftentimes I like isolating myself from people thinking it's self-respect but people usually misunderstood me for been proud I hardly kick-start a conversation with people more especially strangers. Now the problem is I want to marry but I don't know how to toast a lady, the few times I tried I usually flop up because I ask to much questions within few minutes

Tell friends to help you out like a neighbor did he married a woman older than him

Afonjashapmouth:
Start by making friends and making girls your friend... You will automatically cross the bridge.

seconded, he should go out and get busy.
shy and fear na bad thing

Highly what

my friend you are not the only one. i find very difficut to make friends and i cannot talk to any girl for a relationship

H0rny dude

Templerun95:
Even Jesus was a gay man Ntin wrong bro Just live ur life

Bro,,,, Don't you think you need that Jesus

lopjohnny:


Bro,,,, Don't you think you need that Jesus

I don't mid a gayman ....I av a galfriend already

Many parents don't know the harm they do their children by being unnecessarily harsh or strict.

Well op I think you're asking a real question on d wrong forum. ppl here dont know that life has 2 sides. Inform ur grown up male friends that are calm, they can be helpful to you. And relax you will find ur own girl soon.

I as an introvert got disvirgined at a brothel cus of d fear of chatting up a girl. The ashy gave me submissive sex and I kinda became addicted to brothels. I'm not advising you to do same though. Just wait a little longer..you'll find a girl

I just pray its a girl who understands you. Cus only few girls are mature enough to make efforts to understand ppl..most of them always expect to be understood, than trying to understand someone else.

May God 4give u 4 this blasphemy.

Templerun95:
Even Jesus was a gay man
Ntin wrong bro
Just live ur life

but if some1 goan yab u on nl here na, u will nt put shyness ooo....

Templerun95:
Even Jesus was a gay man
Ntin wrong bro
Just live ur life

Wat d fvck is wrong with u
U want 2 turn into a troll
but Bro ur not as funny as NwaAmaikpe

Op you don't need to get married, stay single.

Many parents don't know the harm they do their children by being unnecessarily harsh or strict.

Well op I think you're asking a real question on d wrong forum. ppl here dont know that life has 2 sides. Inform ur grown up male friends that are calm, they can be helpful to you. And relax you will find ur own girl soon.

I as an introvert got disvirgined at a brothel cus of d fear of chatting up a girl. The ashy gave me a submissive sex and I kinda became addicted to brothels. I'm not advising you to do same though. Just wait a little longer..you'll find a girl

I just pray its a girl who understands you. Cus only few girls are mature enough to make efforts to understand ppl..most of them always want to be understood, than trying to understand someone else. Spot On Bro- Ur on point. Parents really mess up their kids especially Nigerians- being oppresive and exacting dominance rather than guidance does lead to the problems and can give a person a complex of some sort. I can relate but I think if ur introverted don't see it as a problem, its not a disease or condition, after all there is nothing wrong with limiting how free u r with people. I think what's important is that u be mature and look for a lady that's mature. Like bros sed don't resort to going to a brothel to find a woman that will approach u- u will regret it, plus its just not plain worth it. U can get a friend to talk to a lady for u, but I would say u man up, even if it means resorting to dutch courage- you'll find what to say trust there's no format, infact doesn't matter what u say just say something. Ask for a number when u have no more to say and ur home and dry

hot1sauce:
Many parents don't know the harm they do their children by being unnecessarily harsh or strict.

Well op I think you're asking a real question on d wrong forum. ppl here dont know that life has 2 sides. Inform ur grown up male friends that are calm, they can be helpful to you. And relax you will find ur own girl soon.

I as an introvert got disvirgined at a brothel cus of d fear of chatting up a girl. The ashy gave me a submissive sex and I kinda became addicted to brothels. I'm not advising you to do same though. Just wait a little longer..you'll find a girl

I just pray its a girl who understands you. Cus only few girls are mature enough to make efforts to understand ppl..most of them always want to be understood, than trying to understand someone else. Spot On Bro- Ur on point. Parents really mess up their kids especially Nigerians- being oppresive and exacting dominance rather than guidance does lead to the problems and can give a person a complex of some sort. I can relate but I think if ur introverted don't see it as a problem, its not a disease or condition, after all there is nothing wrong with limiting how free u r with people. I think what's important is that u be mature and look for a lady that's mature. Like bros sed don't resort to going to a brothel to find a woman that will approach u- u will regret it, plus its just not plain worth it. U can get a friend to talk to a lady for u, but I would say u man up, even if it means resorting to dutch courage- you'll find what to say trust there's no format, infact doesn't matter what u say just say something. Ask for a number when u have no more to say and ur home and dry

A brothel? your first time? That's sad man.
Hope you don't visit them anymore.

Actually I'm am introvert​ too. And I used to think that girls didn't like me. Until this girl walked up to me n actually told me that she had a crush on me. She also told me that a lot of girls do too but they all think I'm proud. Armed with this knowledge I locked up my shyness n started approaching girls with the mindset that she could be into me as I'm into her. Helped a lot n now I feel I need to dial it back a bit cos im playing with hearts. If I strand on what to say I just cook up some story to get out n get her number b4 going. But I always make sure that what I've said so far is good enuff to get me that number. Bro. Arm urself with that knowledge. There is always a girl that likes u, and u will be rejected more times than u will be accepted, but those that accept u will be worth it.

Op, no need for long story .place your pic on Yur profile and your phone number . if any babe here likes what they see, they will contact u. Its that simple .
Then u text her your bbpin or watsapp number , start chatting for like a month or so before u meet up with her, that's after exchanging series of pics and by a month or so , both of u should know what your dealing with .

Afonjashapmouth:
Start by making friends and making girls your friend... You will automatically cross the bridge.

cassidy1996:
seconded, he should go out and get busy.
shy and fear na bad thing

Thirded

Mehn see business idea o


a small organisation dat helps introverted guys look for beautiful well behaved and cultured ladies for marriage


motto: introverts must marry


e remain the the company name and everything is set....


Op pm me if you want to be my very first customer...................we guarantee and assure you that u'd get married before december dis year (if u get the money sha) cos as our motto iterates "introverts must marry"

Victornezzar:

Wat d fvck is wrong with u
U want 2 turn into a troll
but Bro ur not as funny as NwaAmaikpe

Seriously he's trying so hard to be funny

Jigba:


Seriously he's trying so hard to be funny

which he can't be