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A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by dingbang(m): 7:00pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
How do you revive someone (who is your partner and doesn't talk to much) in getting to be expressive about his/her thoughts and feelings. I don't know if any of us have had that partner who is always mute, anytime you chat them up, their replies are just singular, you get to type lengthy texts and all they can ever come up with is K.... i don't know if you get me? So this evening I want to ask my friends out here for their constructive comments on this matter. As someone who doesn't talk too much, how do you advise your partner to get the best from you? What can u advise he or she to do to make you be more expressive? |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Holuwadamilarey(m): 7:13pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
its all about understanding |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
that's d type of relationship I'm into, buh it's sometimes required mutual agreement btw d two party |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by marisdgreat(f): 7:25pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
Same with me but we will always end up annoying each other, calls is even d worst except when he s coming to see me cos we r not in d same state |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by dingbang(m): 7:26pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
marisdgreat:who between you both is more reserved? |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
I can't date such guys, if you're wooing me and i later found out that you're the introvert type, I'm sorry it's a no no! 1 Like |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
Lack of communication is one thing that kills relationships. In my opinion, if someone is as much inlove with you as you're with them he/she would always want to initiate a conversation either through call or chat. The worst set of people to be in a relationship with are those who never call or initiate chat. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by dingbang(m): 7:37pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
Benita27:so you saying that irrespective of their quiet introverted nature, if the person really likes you, he or she will always communicate right? |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by dingbang(m): 7:43pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
flamee:even if you really like him? |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by pocohantas(f): 7:45pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
#Be a partner they can talk to... a non communicative partner tends to open up if they feel at home with you. If they trust you, they'll talk to you without the fear of sounding stupid, or you using it against them. Some of these people are very introverted, low self esteemed due to how they were raised or just not on the same page with you. #One problem I have with some guys is, once a lady doesn't talk science, politics, football...they conclude she is dull. We forget interest differs, if she isn't responding when you talk about the Confederation Cup...make her interested in it or find another topic. There has to be something that would make her type beyond "K". #Explain to her that you're not one supernatural being capable of reading minds. You need her to talk, for you to know what's botheing her and how you both can be better. #When she gets to talk, show interest. Don't make them look clueless. It might not be what you love talking about, but just try. #Make out talk time. Set the right atmosphere, no distractions, be ready to listen, keep your gavel, robes and wig away...just listen, let them bare it all. When you eventually talk...be careful with your words, so you don't push them back into their hole. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
@ dingbang hmm i will have to make him talk. The way you reply to my comment, pls how do you do it? |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
dingbang:Where you told that introverts don't communicate effectively?. Actually, they do but the difference between them and the extroverts is that they tend to reason before speaking and they talk less often. |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by dingbang(m): 7:54pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
flamee:lol.. Ok just click on quote... And type your reply in the box provided and send |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by dingbang(m): 7:55pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
pocohantas:thanks for this detailed explanation.. 1 Like |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
dingbang:Thanks |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
Gush op hate those type of relationship I was once in one My advice for anyone in such relationship is to go out more And when going out make sure you she/he tags his/her favorite friend along The friend will know what type of conversation to start |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by marisdgreat(f): 8:03pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
dingbang:I am more reserved than him just d relationship s kinda boring cos of non effective communication n d frequent quarrels due to d same temparament that we have I.e quick annoyance |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by dingbang(m): 8:42pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
marisdgreat:so tell me. What would u advise him to do to make you more opened up to him and what he should stop doing @ marisdgreat |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by openmine(m): 8:48pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
1. Talk slowly Typically, good talkers don’t rush into a conversation. They take their time when they reflect on something and when they say it out loud. They act as if they have all the time in the world. This makes them come off as centered and collected. Model this way of talking and you will create the same effect. 2. Hold more eye contact Most people keep eye contact about 2/3 of the time or less when they talk. In my experience, it’s a very good idea to hold eye contact just a bit more than that. This will convey confidence and interest in interacting with them. 3. Notice the details People with good conversation skills tend to notice the kind of things that the average person doesn’t notice, and to bring such details into the conversation. They may notice and point out an interesting ring on the other person’s hand, a certain foreign accent, or a certain voice tone they use when saying a name. Thus, such individuals impress people in a very elegant manner. 4. Give unique compliments Anybody can pay a generic compliment to try and get another person’s appreciation. Charismatic people on the other hand are able to really pay attention to others, to look beyond the facade and thus, pay unique compliments. Do the same and besides wooing others, you may even help them find out things about themselves they didn’t know. 5. Express your emotions It’s very rare to meet a person who is comfortable talking about their emotions and how certain things make them feel, especially with strangers. Yet this way of talking is a real virtue. Don’t just present the facts, you’re not a newspaper. Express your feelings about those facts. Keep in mind that it is at the emotional level that people connect best. 6. Offer interesting insights Anybody can talk about the news or express basic opinions. But good talkers can frequently tell you things you didn’t know and that you’ll find fascinating. This is why it’s good to have knowledge into fields such as psychology or sociology, and bring such knowledge out at the right moments in a conversation. 7. Use the best words The ability to talk smoothly has a lot to do with choosing the precise words to convey your precise feelings or thoughts. Constantly develop your vocabulary and practice communicating as accurately as possible. It will help you develop a way with words and allow you to express yourself more easily. 3 Likes |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by spencerlouis(m): 8:50pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
marisdgreat:dats really bd/boring!!! trust me he has another grlfrnd!!! fact!!! |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by samyfreshsmooth(m): 8:53pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
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Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by marisdgreat(f): 8:54pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
spencerlouis:He has another gf n still wants me to meet his people this weekend though I couldn't make it cos i wasnt chanced. Well that's his own problem after all I always tell most guys that am single n not dating cos I can't call that one a relationship 1 Like |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by marisdgreat(f): 9:00pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
dingbang:Is he even open up to me, cos I didn't tell him I was engaged in a prayer n he used that to pick offense with me by saying y cant i tell my husband to be i.e him that I was given some prayers to do. In short am just fed up even though he invited me to his hometown this weekend to introduce me to his family thought I didn't go |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
Take it or leave it, one of you is not in love. All the girls I ever dated would chat with me into midnight everyday. The one that didn't like chatting would call me for 10secs and force me to call her back. Those that usually type k are naturally dumb people. They lack the brain. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Nobody: 9:18pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
dingbang:I bring out the talk in them. I can't date someone who doesn't light that spark in me o... Which one is 'k' |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by optional1(f): 9:28pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
quit is the only advise if u both can't communicate with each other regulary. |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
dingbang:it will be easy for you if your partner is the talking type honestly you must be forced to express yourself at a certain point...as for me,I can make the deaf and dumb to talk..lolz |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by dingbang(m): 9:31pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
Nma27:lol u ladies should know better about the k word na |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by dingbang(m): 9:54pm On Jun 24, 2017 |
sekxy:seems u fun to be with.. |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Nobody: 2:05am On Jun 25, 2017 |
dingbang:Lol nobi small thing oo |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Jazzlite: 5:53am On Jun 25, 2017 |
Benita27:I have been initiating chats.... But no response... I can't get over your rear door.... It is important we fix this issue once and for all. |
Re: A Non Communicative Relationship: What Do You Advise? by Nobody: 7:38am On Jun 25, 2017 |
dingbang:Yes na. |
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