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Why Girls Are Not Getting Married by TimmyPapa(m): 8:28am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Girls who are not looking for marriage are stumbling on it AND those who are desperate for it can’t find it. Generally speaking, ladies in our society divide their adult lives into four distinct phases. PHASE ONE: Play time (Age 19-22) This is a period where, Cyndi Lauper’s song says, “girls just wanna have fun”. When a man asks her out, she comes along with three of her room mates and wonders why he was frowning throughout the evening and drinking only water. She shares almost all her mischief with her friends and they have a good laugh over it. At this stage of their lives, girls see men as playthings; During this phase, any suggestion of a serious relationship is dismissed with the contempt reserved for fun-spoilers. mistakes guys make Which drive Girls away PHASE TWO: Open time (Age 23-28). In this period, girls still want to have fun, but not just fun. They want to have fun with a purpose. They are looking to grow in love and get married (in that order). At this stage, her ideal man is no longer a set of qualities she wants, BUT a workmate, a churchmate, a gymmate…in other words, someone within. She knows him and sees him frequently. As she gets dangerously close to 28 and the man of her fantasies is not any closer to making a move, she widens her net. Then she starts bidding. Her open bidding process lasts a year without a single bid, then reality hits. She looks back at all the bidders she threw out without consideration and none of them looks back. In fact, most of them are probably happily married or inviting her to their wedding meetings. Tick, tack, tick, tack…Time is going.......... what men hates in women PHASE THREE: Desperation time (Age 29-33) She is now 29, which means 30 is just 365 days away. As the days go by, she forgets that marriage involves two people. She tries to take the bull by the horns, so to speak. Now she can only date ‘serious’ people. And this creates two discernible dangers for her. 1. Her definition of a serious man is one who is willing to have the second date at her parent’s home, and the third date at their wedding reception. Any man who can be rushed like that is either a very old man or a conman. 2. At this stage, a girl has lost the ability to fall in love, all she wants is to fall in marriage. Men notice this attitude from a distance and take off. Read all the phases: https://afro9jaland..com.ng/2017/06/why-ladies-are-failing-to-get-married.html 1 Like |
Re: Why Girls Are Not Getting Married by buzquet(m): 8:35am On Jun 26, 2017 |
As for me, I no dey worry about ladies again if they turn me down. they are just too many of them for me date, blip, cheat on 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Girls Are Not Getting Married by buzquet(m): 8:36am On Jun 26, 2017 |
As for me, I no dey worry about ladies again if they turned me down. they are just too many of them for me date, blip, cheat on |
Re: Why Girls Are Not Getting Married by Victornezzar: 8:41am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Hmmm I pray i get married 2 my best friend sha she has always been dere 4 me |
Re: Why Girls Are Not Getting Married by dingbang(m): 8:47am On Jun 26, 2017 |
I think it's the men who are more in looking to settle down than the ladies. 1 Like |
Re: Why Girls Are Not Getting Married by marvin902(m): 8:49am On Jun 26, 2017 |
spot on.. like my bro upstairs said their so many fishes in the river if one nor click another one must.... so why give a fvck.. sometimes some girls do forget that their time is limited before they turn to old cargo.. a guy can stay till 35 and still not ready for marriage.. if you hear some girls criteria for husbands your going wonder if such exist.. i wonder whats so bad in asking for a man that will love you and take care of you.. must he drive a range rover sport or have a house in lekki before you consider him |
Re: Why Girls Are Not Getting Married by TimmyPapa(m): 10:58am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Victornezzar:The best person to marry is your best friend |
Re: Why Girls Are Not Getting Married by Victornezzar: 11:05am On Jun 26, 2017 |
TimmyPapa:Yeah Bro We av been together since ss1 till now dats 6 years |
Re: Why Girls Are Not Getting Married by TimmyPapa(m): 11:07am On Jun 26, 2017 |
Victornezzar:Great... Hope you've expressed ur feelings |
Re: Why Girls Are Not Getting Married by Victornezzar: 11:09am On Jun 26, 2017 |
TimmyPapa:lmao yes sha She's my gf nd both my best friend |
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