SingleDad1:
Please Help Me:

I am the only child, and my parents are forcing me into marriage.



My mother is so eager to have grandchildren, and she is pushing me beyond my limits. She practically introduced me to four (4) different girls, which i rejected them all.

My dad, even promised to sponsor the wedding for me.


I am 27years old, working as my own boss and earning a good income weekly.


I tried talking to them, to give me sometime to search for my desire, but they are not willing to hear me out.


Please advice me, I am going into depression

DeGuyNxtDoor:
how can they hive you time huh? When all you do is taste different baes each day without being ready to settle down with one.


Go and marry!

CROWNWEALTH019:
For your own good go marry

Papiikush:
Oga go marry. A bachelor at 30 don dey become pope

SingleDad1:


bro, you're funny ooo.

Why is everyone supporting them. Marriage should be something i decide to do willingly.

Papiikush:

Yes but mumcy is waiting to have her grandchildren not keep her waiting fam. You are the only child they have

SingleDad1:
Please Help Me:

I am the only child, and my parents are forcing me into marriage.



My mother is so eager to have grandchildren, and she is pushing me beyond my limits. She practically introduced me to four (4) different girls, which i rejected them all.

My dad, even promised to sponsor the wedding for me.


I am 27years old, working as my own boss and earning a good income weekly.


I tried talking to them, to give me sometime to search for my desire, but they are not willing to hear me out.


Please advice me, I am going into depression

Chinneeeeke!

After poking some wild NUNU on yo hood, still u didnt find a golden clit?

SingleDad1:


But brother, I don't want to go against my will.

Benita27:
Football age...27.
Real age...30.

Go and marry joor!.

Lionessza:
Resist the pressure by all means possible. You don't want to be stuck with someone you are not in love with for the rest your life. Life is long , and extremely long long when you are not happy . What happens if you give in and marry one of your mom's pickings and a year later you meet someone who is just what you want and they feel the same about you? You will start taking out your frustrations on the poor wife blaming her for your unhappiness.

IamKashyBaby:




Chinneeeeke!

After poking some wild NUNU on yo hood, still u didnt find a golden clit?

Papiikush:

So how long do you wanna keep the poor woman waiting?

I think she is showing concern because time is running out on your side. Mothers do this because they care.

You never get babe whey you like?

Victornezzar:
Y do I av d feeling dat dis Op is an lying or does he wanna see free chicks dat will dm him
Bros bros we don old 4 dis an matter

SingleDad1:



Honey, seems you are reading my mind. Exactly, that's my fear. Because if I give in due to pressure from them, and i later find what i am looking for, I would blame them both

teehamzat:
Even though the present economy is fvcked up, seems like you have it all figured already(financially), early marriage is good, by the time you are 50, there is a high probability you would have fathered independent adults, what joy is it of a 60 year old man who still sponsors his kids through school, and besides, what delays you? if not slay mammas and hoes

SingleDad1:


I think she feels like, since i have what it takes, I should consider getting married . but I feel like i still don't have enough.

I am yet to even find a babe that i can proudly point to as my wife.

If she believe you have everything it takes you should consider settling down. Bro, sometimes we shouldn't wait to be a millionaire before having a partner. We (Men) are more focused when they have their life planned out.

You never find babe? Babes plenty for nairaland Na. Ahn ahn?

Nma27:
Tell us something New

Lionessza:



Exactly, you don't want to live with regrets especially with something this big. Choosing the wrong partner for marriage is not like picking up an onion at a shop when you really wanted a tomato .

Papiikush:


If she believe you have everything it takes you should consider settling down. Bro, sometimes we shouldn't wait to be a millionaire before having a partner. We (Men) are more focused when they have their life planned out.

You never find babe? Babes plenty for nairaland Na. Ahn ahn?

SingleDad1:



Bro, I understand. Early marriage is good, but I don't wish to rush into it now.

The babe i once committed myself too, I had to break up with her because she fvcked someone else. I caught them red handed.

teehamzat:

Oh you are single?..my bad, i had imagined you were fixed...red-handed?..and you did not commit murder?
Lol...God help me
But there are still good ones out there...not entirely faithful though but at a reduced minimum

SingleDad1:


Bro, I dig. But i really don't find marriage interesting anymore. By the way, if I narrate my previous relationship experience with you, you would write a great book out of it.

Nairaland babes can't see any bro, no offence.

SingleDad1:


. I had to even explain to her why I choose not to go into any relationship.

I once had a serious accident, my supposed girl, did not call for a month. When she eventually did, she called to ask me for money